The mother-in-law did not take care of the sick granddaughter, and after many years the mother-in-law fell ill and wanted to let the daughter-in-law take care of it, the daughter-in-law refused

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Life is unpredictable, and no one can guarantee what will happen tomorrow, so it is said that "the sky has unpredictable storms, and people have bad luck." When you are in a good situation, if you encounter others who have difficulties, you must help, "Give people roses, and leave incense in your hands." ”

He has helped others, and when he has difficulties, others will also lend a helping hand. People's hearts are the same, you are good to me, I am good to you, and then everyone is good. Everyone must accumulate virtue and do good deeds, pass on warmth and love, and the world will be full of warmth.

Outsiders still need to help each other, let alone family? Families should take care of each other and be considerate, a family loves each other, and works together to build this family, and the family will be happy and happy.

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After the child fell ill, the son and daughter-in-law were in a hurry to die, and wanted to let the mother-in-law come to help, but the mother-in-law "did not care about things, hung high." After the son took his parents hard, the eldest sister came to pick up the parents again, and the daughter-in-law was very cold. After many years, the mother-in-law fell ill and wanted her daughter-in-law to take care of her, but the daughter-in-law refused.

This is something that happened in Wei Yirong's family, and when she talked about the situation when the child was sick, she couldn't help but sigh! She said that no matter what others said about her, she would not take care of her mother-in-law anyway, and when she saw her mother-in-law and her eldest sister, she would think of those sad things. Let's hear the story of their family.

Self-narrator: Wei Yirong

Age: 43 years old

Occupation: Company employee

City: Bei'an

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When I was 26 years old, I once went to my classmate and met my current husband in her unit. At that time, my husband also went to find his classmates, and his classmates and my classmates were colleagues. The four of us had a meal together, and after the meal, my husband began to pursue me.

After my husband chased me for more than half a year, I was moved, and then I followed him home to meet his parents. It is reasonable to say that when the daughter-in-law comes to the door for the first time, the in-laws should be taken very seriously, but my in-laws are cold and cold, and there is no preparation.

The mother-in-law was alone in the house, and she stood by a stove, sewing needlework in her hands. The mother-in-law said that the father-in-law went out, and the husband did not ask anything more, so he sat with me at his house for a while, and then took me away, and the mother-in-law did not leave us to eat.

At that time, my husband had always lived in the dormitory of the unit and rarely came home. After I left his house, I asked my husband very confusedly, are his parents not satisfied with me? So I'm not welcome?

The husband reluctantly smiled and said no, his parents are such people. His father had been playing mahjong all his life, and his mother didn't work, and the two of them were messing around. They live on their husbands' grandparents in the first half of their lives, and live on their children in the second half of their lives.

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I was surprised that my husband was born in such a family, and I sympathized with him, but I didn't want to marry into such a family. So I proposed to my husband to break up, and he cried and begged me not to abandon him. He can't choose where he comes from, but he will definitely work hard, and he will make me happy.

I was touched by my husband's sincerity, and later I still didn't leave him and continued to be with him. When we got married, the two of us bought a wedding house with our own loans, and we did our own wedding, and his parents came to attend like guests.

In the second year of marriage, I gave birth to a daughter and wanted my mother-in-law to help us with the children. But before we could speak, my eldest sister kept saying in my ear that the child should be brought by herself, her parents were old, and she could not move the child, and told me not to bother her parents.

I could tell that the eldest sister was hurting her mother, afraid that her mother would suffer. I dismissed the idea of letting my mother-in-law take the child, first, the eldest sister was opposed; second, I was afraid that the mother-in-law would bring bad children.

I became a stay-at-home mom and contracted everything in the house, and my husband was mainly responsible for making money. The in-laws live in the countryside, the husband will post some living expenses to them every month, they rent out the house left by their grandparents, and there is a rental income, so the life is very leisurely.

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In the blink of an eye, my daughter was 6 years old, and one day she had a fever, so I took her to the hospital. As a result, it was found that my daughter had a serious blood disease, and the doctor asked us to take her to a big hospital in the field immediately, and my husband and I rushed to the field with our children.

Doctors from other places told us to prepare for a long battle, and it would take at least a year to treat the child, and in this year, we would have to run to the hospital at both ends of the three days, and sometimes we would be hospitalized. The hometown is far from here, we can't go home every day, and it's too expensive to stay in a hotel, and we can't cook, so we can only rent a house.

After the treatment began, I stayed by the child's side day and night, unable to rest at all, and I lost more than a dozen pounds in a month. The husband not only had to be responsible for the affairs in the hospital, but also worried about the money, so he went to find an hourly job, and then accompanied the child to treat the disease while working.

Our husband and wife were exhausted, and my husband wanted my in-laws to help us, but I made many phone calls, and my in-laws were indifferent. I see that other people's in-laws, in order to save the lives of their grandchildren or granddaughters, are both paying money and contributing to help their children tide over the difficulties, but my in-laws are like this, and their hearts are very sad.

Later, the husband returned to his hometown once and forced his in-laws to "arrest" him. He asked my mother-in-law to help me take care of the children together, and let my father-in-law do cooking and so on.

On the first day after my mother-in-law came, I asked my husband for 2500 yuan, saying that he wanted to buy vegetables, but in fact he had never bought vegetables once. The old couple lived comfortably like they had come on vacation, and they were not at all sad about their granddaughter's illness.

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On the third day after the mother-in-law came, the eldest sister also came. At that time, I went back from the hospital to take a bath, and my mother-in-law said politely, "Shall I spend the night for you at night?" ”

Before I could answer, my eldest sister immediately said to my mother-in-law, "No, how can you go with the night?" You're going to sleep at night. Then, the eldest sister said to me again, "Take care of the children yourself!" You are responsible for giving birth to yourself! ”

In fact, if the eldest sister does not speak, I will not let my mother-in-law accompany the night, because I am not at ease. But when the eldest sister said that, I felt very sad in my heart, and my child's life was nothing in their eyes. The child was so sick that they didn't feel any pain at all, and they didn't understand that we were working hard as a couple.

Three days later, the eldest sister returned with her in-laws. Before going back, my in-laws asked my husband for 6,000 yuan, and my husband didn't want to give it, so my eldest sister had a fight with him.

I know that after this incident, my heart is really unspeakable taste, this time for us and our husband and wife, money is the life of the child! We can't pay, the child will stop the drug, and then he will die.

Later, the child's affairs were all the responsibility of our husband and wife, and there was no trouble for others. We struggled for a year, owed 180,000 foreign debts, and finally snatched the child back from the hands of the god of death, and the child has been safe and sound.

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More than ten years later, the mother-in-law fell ill, and the father-in-law was not in good health and could not take care of the mother-in-law. My husband went back to pay for the medical expenses of my mother-in-law, and the care was taken care of by the eldest sister. But the eldest sister took care of it for a week, and she felt that she couldn't eat it, so she called my husband many times.

My husband has to go to work, the work is very busy, he really does not have time to go back to take care of his mother-in-law. He told the eldest sister about the situation, and said that the sisters and brothers contributed money and contributed, which was very fair.

The eldest sister and mother-in-law hit me on the head and asked me to go back and take care of my mother-in-law, and the eldest sister told me in a completely commanding tone. I refused, and my eldest sister had a big fight with me on the phone, thinking that I was not filial piety.

I said that whatever she said about me, I just didn't take care of my mother-in-law anyway, and I couldn't forget what happened when my daughter was sick. At that time, when my mother-in-law and my eldest sister helped me a little, I would not care about my mother-in-law's life and death now, but they did not help me at all, which made me feel cold.

My husband understood my pain, did not force me at all, he went back to see when he had time, and did not go back when he had no time. His heart also has opinions about his in-laws and great sisters, but he can't help it, so he won't say anything.

Epilogue:

Families should take care of and help each other, the granddaughter is seriously ill, and the grandparents must of course lend a helping hand. As an aunt, who also has to help save her niece, how can people's lives be at stake, how can they "not care about themselves and hang high"?

Even outsiders have to lend a helping hand, let alone close relatives? The actions of the mother-in-law and the eldest sister deeply hurt Wei Yirong's heart, so Wei Yirong was unwilling to take care of his mother-in-law. For her, her mother-in-law and eldest sister are already people who have no relationship, so why should she take care of her sick mother-in-law?

When others are in difficulty, you turn a blind eye and are unwilling to lend a helping hand; then when you are in a difficult situation, you cannot ask others for anything, because you are not qualified.

Respecting the elderly and loving the young is a traditional virtue that should be carried forward. For those elderly who do not love children, children cannot respect them, which is also the common sentiment of people. Only when there is mercy will there be filial piety, and everyone must compare their hearts to their hearts, and they must accumulate more virtue and do good deeds, and only then will they be blessed.

Author: A creator in the field of emotions, focusing on various issues in the field of emotions, welcome to pay attention. Life has warmth because of love and love, let us grow in love, and spend every day in true feelings.