In front of everyone, the grandmother slapped her granddaughter fiercely and broke her son's marriage!

Why? Because you are born of affection because of this person, if there is no such person, then you are strangers in the vast sea of people. It is inevitable that two strangers will get along with each other and have conflicts, after all, everyone's living habits

and all aspects

It's not the same.

And what is even more frightening is that if the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law intensifies, it may even implicate the children.

Children are very innocent.

The grandmother I want to talk about today is to slap her granddaughter in front of many people, which led to the outbreak of the daughter-in-law who has been stoic for many years, and the son's marriage was also slapped away.

Yingying's family situation was actually not very good, because the family was too poor at that time, so she dropped out of school without two years of school.

Yingying is mainly responsible for the farm work in the family, and her girlhood is basically spent in the fields. Therefore, I don't know anything about the outside world, so Yingying is 22 years old, and most rural girls have begun to go on blind dates at this age, and Yingying is no exception.

But the parents are rural people, there is no other requirement to find a partner, as long as the family situation is better, do not let the daughter marry

Just keep living a hard life.

The matchmaker who did not know where heard the news and came to the door, saying that it was very good to have a young man in his hand. And looks can also work well, before a girl was good, but then the girl left him to go to the big city to develop, the boy has not been looking for a girlfriend, and now until the age of 28 is still single. When you are older, your parents are anxious, if you think it is not bad, it is better to let your daughter meet.

Yingying's father was still very satisfied with this young man, thinking that the other party looked very temperamental, plus the family conditions were also good, so after meeting, he agreed to the marriage.

At that time, Yingying was still in a state of ignorance about the emotional relationship, and she had not had contact with other boys in these years, and she did not contradict the marriage arranged by her parents.

But what Yingying did not expect was that her mother-in-law was very disgusted with herself.

From the first day Yingying married into the family, her mother-in-law did not look good.

It is also said that Yingying married her son for money, the family are ignorant rural people, growing up so big that they have not even worked in class, every day they know to do farm work in the field, it is estimated that you can not go to work now, then you simply wait for our family at home.

Yingying listened to her mother-in-law's words and felt very aggrieved, thinking that her husband would come out to defend herself at this time.

But the husband did not have the slightest feeling when he looked at his eyes, as if he was looking at a stranger, and he did not want to pay attention to the contradiction between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In the days after marriage, Yingying is indeed like a nanny, the housework and cooking are all borne by Yingying alone, and usually relatives and friends come to the house and no one helps Yingying, every time she has to make a large table of dishes, and when they leave, they have to wash the dishes and mop the floor.

Fortunately, Yingying is usually very tired of doing things in the field, so doing housework is like a common thing for her.

The only fly in the ointment is the indifference of her husband and the meanness of her mother-in-law, so that Yingying has never felt the beauty of marriage.

In fact, the husband's heart still thinks of his first love girlfriend who left, otherwise he would not have been married for so many years, and now he really can't stand the pressure of the family, so find someone to make up for it first.

Therefore, Yingying is not very attentive, and the naïve Yingying still thinks that one day with children, the family's life will be better.

Later, Yingying gave birth to a daughter, yingying thought that this was the beginning of a good life, but in fact it was the beginning of a nightmare. The mother-in-law is a very patriarchal person, and such thoughts have been engraved in her bones.

Therefore, when Yingying was confinement, her mother-in-law did not come to serve for a day, and at the same time, she did not let Yingying's mother take care of her.

Yingying, who is alone in her mother-in-law's house, is isolated and helpless, so during confinement, all her clothes and meals are made by herself. The confinement had just been completed, and yingying's body was still very weak because she had not been taken care of. But at this time, the mother-in-law could not wait for Yingying to continue to undertake the family's housework.

In fact, Yingying didn't want to go on for a day, but now that she has a daughter, even if she is unhappy, she can only seek perfection.

In the blink of an eye, Yingying insisted on eight years, looking at the mean mother-in-law and the cold-faced husband, only the daughter's innocent smile could soothe all the pain.

However, Yingying's concession did not exchange the understanding of her mother-in-law and husband, but only let them gain inches.

Over the years, the mother-in-law and husband have become more and more excessive, and even with them, they have begun not to see their daughters.

When the mother-in-law had a birthday, she invited a large number of relatives to come to the house, so many meals were naturally made by Yingying alone, and he was busy in the kitchen

No one came to help.

Or the daughter was distressed by her mother, helped to bring the dish out, who knew that because the plate was too hot, the plate fell to the ground and shattered, and the dish was also scattered.

Seeing that a good meat dish was crushed by his granddaughter like this, he grabbed his granddaughter without saying a word and gave her a hard slap.

In front of so many relatives, it is really not at all to save face for Yingying's mother and daughter.

Yingying saw that she was cooking hard in the kitchen, and her mother-in-law actually treated her daughter like this, immediately defended her daughter, and asked her mother-in-law: Is her daughter still inferior to a dish on a plate? Just an eight-year-old child, is it necessary to make such a heavy hand?

But the mother-in-law said: It is just a piece of, and in the future, she will also marry into someone else's family, why can't she fight?

Yingying just wanted to refute it, and her husband said angrily: Quickly apologize, why do you two have so many things?

At this moment, Yingying really couldn't stand it and proposed a divorce in front of everyone. The husband did not know whether he could not face it, or whether he had already planned to do so, so he agreed without saying a word, and said that he would not want a daughter, but would only give you child support.

In the two years of divorce, Yingying had a very hard life, although she had the help of her mother's mother, but the children had to go to school and also bear the livelihood of the mother and daughter. This was not an easy task, so Yingying went to find a job as a cleaner, and slowly promoted from the most ordinary cleaner to the cleaning supervisor, and her life began to gradually improve.

Later, the daughter slowly grew up and graduated, and finally got married, the husband who married was even better, the in-laws and in-laws loved her very much, the son-in-law was very filial to himself, and Yingying was also complete.

As for the ex-husband, I heard that he later found a rural woman who lived every day with chickens and dogs. mother-in-law

now and then

Fight with the daughter-in-law, and the neighbors come to see the joke.

After a few years, the two divorced again, and at this time, the ex-husband was not young, and everyone around them knew what virtues their family was. I also don't want my daughter to marry, so I naturally become a lonely person. Seeing that there was no queen in her own home, the old lady was also sick and died not long after.

Only his ex-husband was left alone to guard the yard, at this time he began to regret that if he had lived a lifetime with the kind Yingying, the family would also be happy and happy, and would not fall into this step of being unaccompanied.

In fact, marriage itself needs two people to protect together, since there is no feeling for a person, then do not marry in order to get married, because this itself is also very unfair to that person.

Since you are married, you should take on the responsibilities of being a partner and live a good life together.

Also as a mother-in-law, you should also understand a truth, the son's life and mother-in-law are inseparable. If you want your son's marriage to be happy, don't be too mean as a mother-in-law, otherwise these retribution will only be reincarnated on your own body.

Only if the mother-in-law is willing to treat the daughter-in-law kindly, the family's life will be more harmonious.

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Today's Argument: Do you think the mother-in-law's attitude has a big impact on the relationship between husband and wife?