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In front of many people, the grandmother slapped her granddaughter fiercely and broke her son's marriage
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2022-05-0407:21
Anhui
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When it comes to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, why is it difficult to get along? In fact, in the final analysis, the source is still the relationship between husband and wife. It is not the relationship between the son and the mother-in-law, but the husband and wife relationship of the in-laws.
In many families, if the husband and wife cannot handle the conflict between two people, then it is likely that the child will be involved.
The same is true for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law intensifies, the child may become an obstacle among them.
Zhu Yan was born in
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A family with not very good conditions, due to poor family conditions, so Zhu Yan did not read much books and dropped out of school.
After dropping out of school, Zhu Yan has been helping her parents do farm work at home, and she knows almost nothing about the outside world. Emotionally, Zhu Yan does not understand too much, and it has always been her parents who give her the master.
Since Zhu Yan was 21 years old, her parents have been looking for her objects, and her parents have always wanted to find a man with good family conditions for their daughter.
The matchmaker found Zhu Yan's parents: "I introduced it to your girlfriend, you can rest assured, the conditions are above, absolutely satisfy you, this young man, looks good, his parents have jobs, but this young man, before he fell in love, and then the girl left, since then, this young man has not been looking for it again, now 29 years old, his parents are now forcing him to get married, you see, if there is no opinion, just meet and say? ”
Zhu Yan's father did not hear the words behind the matchmaker clearly, only heard that the conditions at home were good, and he nodded his head in agreement.
When Zhu Yan's father first met Zhou Yikun, he felt that Zhou Yikun was very suitable to be his son-in-law. In this way, Zhu Yan's marriage was arranged by her parents, and after Zhu Yan met Zhou Yikun's parents, the two married smoothly.
Zhu Yan grew up to 22 years old, has always been unfamiliar with the outside world, marrying Zhou Yikun, is the meaning of her parents, and she is just obedient to her parents.
But because of this, the mother-in-law was very disgusted with Zhu Yan on the first day she married her:
"The people of your mother's family, you see, what kind of people are they, don't you see that our family has money?" The whole family is open to money. And you, I don't know to go out and find a job to make money, so you will serve us at home in the future. ”
When Zhu Yan heard her mother-in-law's words, her heart was very aggrieved, and she didn't know who she could complain to. She turned her head to look at Zhou Yikun and found that Zhou Yikun was acting coldly, as if she was not his wife at all, but just a stranger.
After this, Zhu Yan's work at home was like a free nanny, Zhou Yikun had several sisters, since Zhu Yan married over, often came to eat, and every time she came, everyone was sitting and waiting for dinner, and no one ever went to help Zhu Yan.
A year later, Zhu Yan gave birth to a daughter, Zhou Li. Since Zhou Li was born, these two mothers and daughters have been even more angry, why? Because Zhou Yikun's parents have a serious patriarchal mentality, they have always wanted to hold their grandchildren, but after Zhou Li was born, she was a girl, so she was very unloved by her grandparents.
And Zhou Yikun, because he still thinks about his first love, has no feelings for Zhu Yan, so he is not interested in all the things that Zhu Yan does at home, how his parents treat Zhu Yan's mother and daughter, what he shows is an attitude of indifference...
When Zhu Yan sat in confinement, her mother-in-law did not come to serve, and her mother, her thinking was very old-fashioned, the daughter who married out, spilled out the water, during the confinement period, did not let Zhu Yan return to her mother's home, and because of the reason of the sister-in-law, the mother could not come to serve Zhu Yan to sit in the confinement, so Zhu Yan during the confinement period, the clothes were washed by herself, and the meal was also made by herself...
As soon as the confinement was completed, the mother-in-law began to let Zhu Yan serve their family again...
The husband is not in pain, the mother-in-law does not love the day, Zhu Yan has passed 6 years, in these 6 years, Zhu Yan has been swallowing, just so that her daughter can have a home, and Zhou Li has been in the first grade of primary school at this time.
Zhu Yan very much wants to divorce, but she is helpless to her parents' ideological traditions and firmly opposes her divorce. The parents had threatened that if Zhu Yan was divorced, they would not have given birth to this daughter.
Zhou Yikun's attitude toward Zhu Yan's mother and daughter is getting colder, and the mother-in-law is more and more likely to bully Zhu Yan's mother and daughter, all day long, she will find a reason to scold the two of them, and several girls will also follow a mother, and it is not zhu Yan's mother and daughter who pick Zhu Yan's mother and daughter.
On this day, it was the birthday of Zhou Yikun's mother, and Zhou Yikun's family invited many people to celebrate her mother's birthday. Naturally, the meals of so many people were made by Zhu Yan alone. While eating, Zhou Li accidentally broke a cup because of her young age, and this cup happened to be Grandma's beloved...
Grandma saw that her beloved cup was shattered by this piece of, and she was really angry...
Zhou Li's grandmother grabbed Zhou Li, raised her hand and slapped Zhou Li fiercely, and several finger prints immediately appeared on Zhou Li's face... Zhou Li let out a "wow" and cried very sadly.
Zhu Yan in the kitchen, hearing her daughter's crying, immediately ran out and hugged her daughter who was crying loudly:
"Mom, the child is so small, it is broken when it is broken, why are you so heavy?" Is she your granddaughter? ”
"What is the use of a handsome piece, after this, it is not in someone's house?" The mother-in-law spoke with great words.
"You two mothers and daughters don't be so ignorant, today is your mother's birthday party, there are so many people in the family watching it, hurry, apologize." Zhou Yikun said coldly.
"I've had enough of this kind of day, let's get a divorce." Zhu Yan said while shedding tears.
"I've been waiting for your words, I've been waiting for a long time, OK, leave, after the divorce, I don't want the children, follow you, half of the child support, I will call the part I should get out on time to your account." Zhou Yikun said very absolutely, in front of many relatives, it was natural to join hands with his mother to bully Zhu Yan.
In this way, Zhu Yan and Zhou Yikun ended their marriage, and after the divorce, Zhu Yan, with her daughter, lived a really difficult life. Because her parents hated her for divorce and lost their faces, they were afraid that Zhu Yan would take her daughter back to her mother's house to live, so she stressed that Zhu Yan and Zhou Li were outsiders at all times.
The mother's family could not tolerate herself and her daughter, Zhou Yan finally had no way, with her daughter, first found a cleaner job in the county, and only after half a year did she find a slightly better job.
After Zhu Yan stabilized in the county seat, she found a school closer to her daughter and let her daughter return to the sample garden.
Zhu Yan did not abandon her daughter Zhou Li at any time, and although her life was hard, she still cultivated her daughter into a talent.
After Zhou Li graduated from college, she found a good job, and then she had her own small family, her husband loved her very much, and her in-laws were very distressed about her. After Zhou Li gave birth to a son, she took her mother Zhu Yan with her and let her mother bring her child for herself.
And Zhou Li's husband is also very filial to Zhu Yan, and he can coax Zhu Yan to be overjoyed.
Looking at Zhou Yikun again, since divorcing Zhu Yan, he was forced by his mother to marry a woman in the countryside. This woman is different from Zhu Yan, with a very strong personality, often making the family jump, and fighting with Zhou Yikun's mother at home many times.
Obviously, the mother could not beat the new daughter-in-law, and every time she lost the fight, she complained in front of Zhou Yikun... Zhou Yikun really couldn't stand his mother crying in front of him, plus he had no feelings for his new wife, so he divorced again.
After tossing so much, Zhou Yikun did not toss a son out for his mother, but gave his mother a disease.
After the mother fell ill this time, she never got better, so she left with the regret of not having a grandchild. And several of Zhou Yikun's sisters followed their children to other places one after another. In his hometown, he went around and around, and only Zhou Yikun was left.
Especially after knowing that his first love had already married and had children, Zhou Yikun's heart was indifferent, he regretted it very much, very regretful, for his first love, he abandoned his wife and son, divorced the kindest Zhu Yan, and even when he divorced, he did not even want a daughter. At this moment, Zhou Yikun finally understood that the most sorry people in his life were Zhu Yan and Zhou Li.
He knew that Zhu Yan listened to Zhou Li, so he tried to find a way to get Zhou Li's place of work and block Zhou Li when Zhou Li was off work.
"Lily, Daddy knows it's wrong, and it's wrong, Daddy doesn't ask for your forgiveness, he just wants you to go back and see me when you're New Year's, okay?"
"Also, Lily, Daddy is old, and now he is alone in his hometown, and whenever he sees someone else who can fool his grandson, it's just me, alone, and it's so sad to think about."
"Once, you were indifferent to me, and now that you're old, come and talk to me about your feelings, do you think I'll accept it?" My mother was hurt by you, can you feel that desperate mentality? Now, I'm not going to let my mom get hurt a second time from you, you go, I'll give you six hundred dollars a month in alimony, but you don't show up in front of me again. ”
Zhou Li finished speaking and left. Zhou Yikun, on the other hand, was not dead-hearted, and without his daughter's forgiveness, he went to find Zhu Yan again, but Zhu Yan was even more indifferent to him and did not want to see him at all.
Zhou Yikun was still not dead after touching nails on both sides, and had come to Zhu Yan and Zhou Li many times, but helplessly, these two mothers and daughters avoided him.
After touching the nail many times, Zhou Yikun finally returned to his hometown alone, and whenever it was late at night, he would secretly cry...
In Zhou Li's heart, thinking of the days when she and her mother were dependent on each other for their lives, how sad they were, how sad they were, grandma drove them away, grandparents did not want to see her and her mother, and her father Zhou Yikun, because he had no feelings for his mother, after marrying his mother, he did not treat her well. Later, after the second marriage, I still thought about my first love in my heart, and as a result, I made a mess of my marriage and life.
That kind of day, Zhou Li can't forget, so for her father who is now remorseful, she can't forgive, really, she is not a saint, she can't forgive her father in her heart...
Marriage needs two people to protect together, it is like a long river, it cannot be calm all the time. Mutual respect and mutual trust are the "guardian spirits" of the essence of marriage.
The responsibility of parents is to teach the child the truth of being a human being before he is born, escort her, and support him with protective wings.
Being born without raising is a manifestation of parental selfishness. It is also to make the child have no sense of parenthood, which is likely to bring about the fuse of a tragedy. Children, like weeds on the side of the road, grow wildly, and they should not be ignored and discarded at an age when they should be loved.
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