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In recent years, there has been a question on the Internet: "If you can choose, will you come to the human world in the next life?" ”
This question has actually aroused the feelings and resonance of many people
Some people say that if you can choose, it is better not to come to the human world in the next life, this life is too bitter, and I don't know what the meaning is.
Some people say that if you can choose, it is better to go to the rich man's house in the next life, and if you can come to enjoy happiness, you should not come to suffer. If you really want to suffer, don't come.
There are also some people who say that in the human world, in fact, it is still good, there are people who are nostalgic, and there are things they like to do. If you have a choice, let's go through it.
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In fact, everyone has their own opinions and choices. However, most people's views tend to be negative, thinking that it is better not to come to the world. I think it's not unrelated to the pressure people are under today.
In the eyes of many people, the pressure is too great, life can see the head at a glance, that life, may not have any value. If it weren't for the people who had nostalgia, they would have no worries about the world long ago.
You know, you and I crossed hell and heaven to come to the earth sandwiched between them. Perhaps, it is both hell and heaven.
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The 52-year-old middle-aged man cried bitterly, if it were not for these two people, then I would not have been concerned for a long time.
Mr. Zhang, who has been working in other places for many years, is 52 years old this year, and after a lifetime of suffering, he has only one idea, to provide for his parents, and to see his son finish college and start a family, that is enough.
For himself, Mr. Zhang did not have too many expectations, because he knew that he was a hard worker, living for others all his life, what could he pursue?
Before his son's college entrance examination, Mr. Zhang only said this to his son: "You are much stronger than my father, you can finish high school, and you can also enter college." I have no regrets about having your son in this life. ”
Fortunately, my son was admitted to a 211 school, although after the ranking comparison, Mr. Zhang was already ecstatic. Because he knows that if the son is good, the family will be good. Even if you are a little bitter, what does it matter?
All along, Mr. Zhang has been working in dry muddy water in the field, and the pain is a little bitter, and the damage to the body is relatively large. However, he has no pursuit of himself, preferring to send all the money home than to spend a penny more.
His fellow countrymen around him are very confused, Lao Zhang, you are an old man, you work so tired every day, what is the picture? It is better to go home and live a little life plainly, there is no need to suffer yourself!
Listening to the words of his co-workers, he shook his head and said, "I have no meaning in this life." If it has to be meaningful, it is to provide for the parents and see the children start a family."
Suddenly, he burst into tears.
03
Are there many people like Mr. Zhang who think like this?
In fact, there are too many people in this world, they all know that there is no hope in their lives, and the only one who has hope is the child. The only responsibility to shoulder is to provide for the parents.
On the Internet, there has always been such a sentence: "Send away parents, raise sons, and life will be satisfied." ”
In this regard, we may wish to think about the question, why do people have such contradictory thoughts that are both negative and positive? I think there are three reasons for this.
First of all, for the elderly middle-aged and elderly, they already know that they have no room for improvement. That being the case, it is better to take on your own responsibilities, and don't think too much about other things.
Secondly, when people reach middle age, I believe that many people have seen through what rich and noble life, what hard work life, has long been doomed, can not change. That being the case, it is better to give everything to the children.
Finally, the more people live, the more they feel the essence of the human world, that is, to make people suffer. Without children and parents, perhaps, I would not feel the happiness of the world.
For the vast majority of middle-aged people, children and parents are their blue sky.
04
If you had the choice, would you still like to come to earth?
If you are allowed to choose, do you think there is anything in this world that will haunt you?
These two questions boil down to the same meaning, what is the meaning of man's coming to the world?
Some people will fight for themselves. However, when they know that their fate cannot be changed, then they will put their hopes on the next generation, hoping to see the next generation better.
Some people cling to their dreams for the sake of their dreams. In this life, I don't want to be for anyone, and I don't want to get involved with anyone, but I just want to live for myself. Perhaps, it will be very selfish to think like this, but in this life, it belongs only to oneself, and there is nothing selfish about it.
Some people will live for certain people. I came into this world to take on that responsibility. When these responsibilities are completed, then the mission is completed, what is in the world, and what is there to be nostalgic about?
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In fact, whether it is positive thoughts, negative thoughts, or some selfish ideas, they all have their existence value. You know, all sentient beings are all kinds of phases, tens of millions of phases, sentient beings, and everyone has their own reasons for persevering.
No one is better than anyone, and no one is worse than anyone. Man, being able to find the meaning of his own life, is enough.
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