In ancient times, in addition to having a proper wife, a person with high power could also have many concubines, and the big boss was a harem beauty of three thousand.
In the 21st century, there are still some countries that implement polygamy, among which the tourist resort of maldives, with beautiful environment and pleasant scenery, is also polygamous.
The man who hugs the right on the left
The wife is a blind date for her husband and helps to pursue her second wife
In the mainland, married people who are out of the woods to find Xiao San are exposed to be spurned by everyone, which can be said to be a scandal in society. However, in the Maldives, you can see a scene where a legitimate wife is looking around for a suitable second wife to help her husband go on a blind date.
A man in the Maldives named Guguilla, when he was 33 years old, he married his first wife, Rosilla, and before he got married, Hewani told Rosilla: "I am a man who advocates polygamy, and if you can't accept this, then we shouldn't get married." ”
This request may seem surprising to us, but in the Maldives, it is actually a perfectly normal thing, in this place, almost every man with a slight reputation or good conditions will have 2 or 3 wives.
After getting married, her husband, Cubai, was very busy because of his career and did not have time to worry about other things, and at this time, his wife Rosilla began to make a blind date for her husband.
First of all, Rohira first made announcements in major media or social networking apps to find a suitable second wife. Many women see Cuba's excellent status as a person, and in this regard, as the right wife in the family, Rohila actively organizes blind dates, allowing her husband to meet those he likes.
Helplessly, the standard of Cuban benefits is somewhat high, several blind dates, none of them can enter the eyes of Cuban benefits, before and after a total of seven blind dates, but also can find a satisfactory husband.
Unconsciously, five years passed, and when Cubai was 37 years old, a new person in his company, named Ain, held a marketing position in Cubayi's company.
As soon as this newcomer Ain entered the company, he immediately attracted Cuban Yi, and the unique vitality and youthful beauty of young people, as well as a positive and active temperament, suddenly made Cuba Yi fall, and the feeling of heartbeat!
GuGua yi then asked his wife Rosilla, hoping that she could lead the red line for the two. Rosilla didn't think much of it, she felt that her husband's liking was the most important thing, and she came and went, just matching the two.
Rohila often asked Ain to come out to eat and go shopping, consciously or unconsciously telling her how good her husband was, and sharing some things about marriage with her as a woman, which made the favor of a young man who had just stepped into society rise rapidly, and Ain quickly believed Rohila.
As a result, under the guidance of Rosilla, Ain gradually fell in love with Rohila's husband, and Cubai was also very happy and married this young and beautiful little employee. Ain also willingly married Cuban Yi.
Since then, the three have lived a happy three-person life.
However, although polygamy is very common in this country, the family conflicts brought about by this are indeed more than those of monogamous families, and they are not as harmonious and beautiful as people think, so what contradictions will they have when they get along?
In fact, wives are not so "generous"
Because Ain is much younger and more beautiful than Rosilla, her slim figure and graceful charm, so in the later nightlife, her husband Cuba Yi will naturally be more inclined to Ein.
Because of his youthful superiority, Ain was deeply favored by Cuban Yi, and gradually, Cuban Yi ignored his wife Rosilla and spent most of his time with Ain. This incident made Rosilla very uncomfortable, obviously she was the first wife, why does it look a little redundant now?
On the other hand, Ain, who was already deeply pampered, was also very uncomfortable. Why?
Because in Ain's view, according to her posture and figure, she is one of the best in any case, and now she has to share her husband with another woman, she feels uncomfortable, but there is no way. In addition, in daily life, Ain will be more or less able to be excluded by Rosilla, where can she bear this grievance when she is very spoiled at home?
When her husband, Cubai, was not at home, the two often quarreled over small conflicts. Because she is the right wife, Rosilla is quite the mistress of a family, she has to take care of many things in the family, so Cuba wants to give him more money, so Ain is also very dissatisfied, forced to marry as a concubine is already a very cheap thing for them, why is the current treatment so poor?
The two women quarreled like this, which made Cuba Yi, who was sandwiched in the middle, uncomfortable, after all, most of his time was spent on work, and it was difficult to have time to manage the family affairs.
In ancient times, there was a saying that said it well, called "it is difficult to break housework.". These trivial trifles at home, he can't always manage them one by one. But the contradiction between the two people is so fierce, but at this time, the greedy Cuban Yi does not want to give up either of these two women, so he simply ignores these contradictions and lets the two women solve them by themselves.
This can hide for a while, but it can't hide for a lifetime. It didn't take long for Ain to be unable to tolerate such a life, and after a year of marriage, Ein resolutely proposed a divorce decision to Cubai.
And Cuba, who has been sandwiched between the two for a long time and is embarrassed, did not hesitate too much, and happily agreed to Ain's request for divorce, after all, the two women were not happy, and he was not comfortable in his heart, so he happily agreed to the divorce.
After the divorce, the family seemed to be quiet at once, there was no longer two women secretly tit-for-tat confrontation, and Guguyi and Rosilla also lived a plain, peaceful and stable life.
At this time, Cuba Yi also felt that such a life was not a good thing. So, after that, Guguyi never raised the idea of remarrying.
Although the country allows a man to have multiple wives, but one more wife proves to take on more responsibilities, if you are strong and able to take care of the family atmosphere while doing a good job, you can also choose from multiple wives.
However, are there any restrictions on polygamy in the Maldives? Is it possible for a man to marry countless wives, which is not the case?
In the Maldives, if you want to take multiple wives, you have to meet three conditions. First of all, you must be a Citizen of the Maldives; second, you must have the same beliefs; and the last condition is that you need to obtain the consent of your own wife, and if your wife does not agree with you to marry another woman, then you will not be able to marry more wives.
And the "multiplicity" of polygamy is not unlimited. In the Maldives, a man can only have a maximum of four wives and cannot have more than 4 people.
Moreover, in the treatment of these wives, it is necessary to be fair and just, although there is a distinction between the first wife and the second wife, but the treatment of these several women must be equal. For example, if you want to buy clothes, you have to buy four pieces, food must also eat the same good, and there can be no excessively obvious differences in all aspects such as food, clothing, housing, and transportation.
So from this matter, you can also see that if you want to have multiple wives, then you are required to have a very rich financial resources and family foundation.
Pocket small country
The Maldives is the smallest country in Asia by area, so many people jokingly call it a "pocket country". Its land area is less than 300 square kilometers, and it can be said that the continent has many counties in the area, which is far larger than the Maldives.
In addition, the recent global warming, the Maldives is surrounded by oceans and the land area is relatively low. As a result, it faces a major hidden danger of coastal cities being swallowed up by rising sea levels. And this year, the Maldives also discussed how to deal with sea-level rise caused by global warming.
Because of its proximity to the ocean, the country has rich fishery resources, there are many types of fish and shrimp, and there are many coral reefs, which can be described as an important ecological environment inhabited by marine life. In addition, the Maldives is also scattered around a lot of large and small islands, a total of 1192.
That may sound like a huge number, but there are only about 200 islands that can really be used by people, and that can really provide people with shelter.
Malé, the capital of the Maldives, is only 1.96 square kilometers in size, making it one of the smallest cities in the world. Here, there is not even a place to build an airport, which shows how small the country really is. In this country, people usually travel by car or motorcycle.
The Maldives has a total population of 557,000 people, not as many as some counties on the mainland. This small land area and the number of countries with less than 600,000 people have little presence in the world in any case. In 2001, it was rated as one of the least developed countries in the world. It can be seen how backward the development of this country is.
Although the Maldives in the world has a reputation as a tourist destination, relying solely on this economic form to develop the country's economy is obviously insufficient. Other aspects, such as the primary industry, cannot be vigorously developed because of the land area. If you want to focus your development on the secondary industry, the population is too small, whether it is light industry or heavy industry, the country does not have sufficient labor.
As far as the current law of development is concerned, if a country wants to gain a foothold in the world, it must develop its economy and enhance its comprehensive national strength. At the same time, in order to ensure that the country can develop peacefully in the world, it must have a strong military protection capability.
However, it may not be believed to say that the Maldives is a country that does not have a navy, an army, an air force, they only have a national defense team, not a well-organized army, not even a police or patrol.
How can this be done? The first thing the Maldivian leaders can think of is to encourage people to have children, and if you want to develop the economy of the country, then you must first start with the number of people, the country encourages people to have more children.
Polygamy, which can effectively increase the number of newborns in a short period of time, is undoubtedly a powerful measure for the development of all aspects of the Maldives at present.
As it turns out, this system is indeed suitable for their local development. Existence is reasonable, and since the country is still in use, it can be shown that this system, which seems to us to be somewhat backward, is indeed suitable for their national conditions.
In fact, in the ancient times of the mainland, this was also the case, those dignitaries and dignitaries in addition to having a proper wife, there were a number of concubines, especially the emperors of the ancient mainland, and the harem had three thousand beautiful ladies. Those palace fight dramas are staged on TV and attract people's attention, the most famous of which is "The Biography of Zhen Huan", a classic of domestic dramas. So why has the system been phased out over time? What are its obvious disadvantages?
Zhen Huan passed on the emperor and the harem concubines
First of all, the biggest problem is that it is easy to stimulate social contradictions.
In a society, it is difficult to achieve an absolute balance between the sexes of men and women. Women are often socially disadvantaged, with a large proportion of men. It is difficult to achieve a 1:1 spouse per male in the number of women, so it is difficult to achieve a 1:1 spouse per man. This leads to the problem of many men in the world playing bare sticks.
If polygamy is allowed again, then women are willing to take the initiative to flock to quality men. Some women with strong personal ability will not want to marry because of this system, and those women with less ability would rather marry a good man than marry a man who is not very good.
But quality men are a minority in society, which will cause more men to hit singletons. Drought dies of drought, waterlogging dies of waterlogging. This will intensify the psychological problems of these unmarried male bare-knuckle men, and it is easy to cause some excessive behavior.
If the social security problems in the city are not perfected, then women's safety will be more difficult to guarantee. In the long run, it is undoubtedly a vicious circle, with fewer women and more imbalances in the ratio of men and women. In such an environment where it is difficult to guarantee even their own safety, will people's happiness in life be improved?
The second problem is that corruption and other crimes breed corruption, which will cause serious problems in social morality.
The first is polygamy, which is very costly for men, if a man wants to balance multiple wives at the same time, then it needs strong economic strength, but those men who do not have such economic strength will still fantasize about embracing left and right, so what should he do then?
Some people with more extreme thinking are likely to embark on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes, such as stealing and robbing. Once things deteriorate, it will cause social panic.
Moreover, if a man cannot meet the needs of multiple women in a balanced manner, then this woman is likely to have an ambiguous relationship with other men in private, which is undoubtedly detrimental to the improvement of the overall quality of society.
And the relationship between the right wife and the second wife, if not handled well, is also a very serious social contradiction, just like the Rosilla and Ain we just mentioned. Some second wives may not have much say in marriage, which will harm women's interests. Therefore, in summary, polygamy can indeed easily intensify social contradictions.
However, for the sake of its own national development, a country will choose policies that suit its own national conditions, so it is also reasonable for the Maldives to choose polygamy. I believe that after the future social progress, this country will certainly choose better and more favorable policies for its own development.
Beautiful Maldives
In today's society, there are still many men who are still dreaming of embracing left and right. However, the author believes that the happiness brought by this is only temporary, and the contradictions brought about by this kind of thing will be long-term, so I hope that everyone will still look at the problem from a long-term perspective, consider the perspective of the entire social development, and do not do something morally corrupt just to satisfy personal selfish desires for a while.
So today's story ends here, what do you think?