He Suohuan, a writer of sexual affective psychology, writes love stories, interesting strangers, and material knowledge.
In the movie "Private Order" released in 2013, there is a line that is popular all over the Internet again:
"Do a good job, brother will marry you a sister-in-law next year."
One day 10 years later, a mainstream media published an article "Do a good job, the days will get sweeter".
In fact, before that, this mainstream media has already "spoiled the scenery" more than once.
There was once an article that was also a similar routine.
It's called "Live a good life, put away your girlish heart".
After three years of the epidemic, people are living more and more clearly and seeing more thoroughly.
See a sentence from netizens:
"Don't worry, maybe in many years you will find that what you thought was the worst day was actually the best day."
Middle-aged people don't need tears, because they are experiencing a "workplace crisis" all the time;
Young people do not believe in chicken soup because they are degraded to nothing by the "brick family".
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211 graduated girls, 5 years of work deposit 5k
An expert said that young people do not work hard enough, is it their own lack of ability?
Excuse me, are the students who graduated from 211 have enough ability? Is the education high enough? Is the resume rich enough?
There is a hot search on the Internet:
Two female college students who graduated from 211 had a deposit of only 5k 5k years after graduation.
Netizens were in an uproar.
Some netizens said:
"I graduated from junior college, and my savings were tens of thousands in 3 years after graduation, why did the two of them save this amount?"
Some netizens said:
"I graduated 10 years ago, was in debt, and owed more than 1 million mortgages to the bank."
The joys and sorrows of adults are not connected to each other.
But the experience of adults is similar.
A well-known professor said:
"Middle-aged people should calmly accept that they are a waste, there is nothing wrong with being a waste, everyone has the right to choose."
If you want to roll, go to the roll, the two 211 graduates said:
"It's okay, it's good to be a waste."
Everyone has their own path in life.
Who said that graduating from 211 college must become what everyone "imagined to be successful"?
Who stipulates that everyone's life is only allowed to succeed and not to fail?
Someone is a flower, and someone is a foil leaf;
Some people are fruits, and some people are roots and leaves.
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"Good job, sweet days are ahead", please tell college students
Who believes in chicken soup?
Contemporary university student.
Only college students who have just finished college and those who have not yet graduated are "full of expectations" for their future.
On another hot search:
More than 20% of college students said that they can earn more than 10,000 a month after graduation.
There are also 67.65% of college students who said that they can earn millions every year 10 years after graduation.
A phrase came to mind:
"Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers".
They have not yet stepped into society and have not yet experienced "the beatings and soul torture of society."
A short video author came to mind:
He and his lover also graduated from college, worked together, paid a down payment and bought a house.
They have light in their eyes and are full of anticipation and hope for the future.
Until one day, they found that the house they bought was "rotten".
That girl, the light in her eyes disappeared instantly.
On the one hand, there is a long-term unfinished building, on the other hand, the monthly mortgage is high, and on the other hand, two people are about to face an "unemployment crisis".
Adults are not afraid of failure, they are afraid of not seeing the future.
Seeing the comments of netizens, it is extremely true.
"This university student thinks it would be nice to get a job."
"The process of entering society is: bold words, few words, no words, gibberish".
Talents, everyone speaks well.
Remember another piece of data?
In China, people earning less than 5k a month account for 95% of the total population.
Do you think everyone is paid more than 10,000 a month and a million a year?
In fact, it was brainwashed by some people on the short video platform.
What is this called?
There is a concept in psychology called the "pregnant woman effect".
A pregnant woman is walking on the road, and her eyes are more focused on pregnant women like herself.
As far as the eye can see, they are pregnant women.
This is a kind of autosuggestion, which is the cause of being influenced by the surrounding environment.
Do a good job and you will find that what you are experiencing is the sweet day;
Do a good job, your boss can marry your sister-in-law;
Do a good job, your life has just begun.
What people need is never chicken soup, just a good living environment and visible expectations.
I thought of a netizen sharing his experience:
10 years ago, the salary was 3k, and the living expenses were 1k per month;
Ten years later, the salary is still 3k, which is not enough to live every month.
Perhaps, this is a sweet day.
Today's Topic:
What do you think of 211 graduating girls, deposit 5k?
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