Beautiful love can not be sought, everyone is eager to meet the right person, to be able to hold the hand of the son, and the son with the old is undoubtedly the most enviable thing, but the world of feelings is very complicated, want to talk about love to marriage also need to face more tests.
When interacting, it is indispensable to spend money, such as eating on a date, watching movies, or traveling, talking about a relationship is actually money everywhere, and most of the time it is also a man who bears it, which not only shows generosity, but also shows that he is sincere to girls.
So when you are in a relationship, if you meet a man who is not willing to spend money for you, there is no doubt that he does not care about you, of course, spending money should also be established within a reasonable range, after all, no one's money is blown by the wind, if a girl in the name of love, but constantly ask for or cheat to eat and drink, it should also be away as soon as possible.
Xu Yang is 29 years old this year, is a programmer, college also talked about love, but finally because of the distance and broke up, Xu Yang has closed his heart since then, no longer have expectations for love, but put time and energy into work, he himself is not in a hurry, but his parents are anxious in their hearts, everywhere to entrust people to introduce him to the object.
On this day, a colleague of Xu Yang's aunt helped him introduce a girl, who was doing sales in the mall, Xu Yang originally did not want to go, but hindered by the pressure of the family, had to go to meet with the other party, after meeting Xu Yang felt that he and the other party were still quite chatty, so he left contact information.
After two days, Xu Yang asked each other to come out to eat, did not expect that the girl also called one more person, said that it was her friend, Xu Yang did not mind, but not long ago, another came, is the girl's cousin, heard that she came to the blind date specially to see, Xu Yang can only greet, originally wanted to have a meal with each other alone, did not expect that more and more people, and they were hung aside, they were chatting very happy, Xu Yang wanted to interject are not able to plug.
Halfway through, the girl also answered a phone call, it was a colleague called, and then greeted them to come, not long after her two colleagues arrived, originally it was a date for two people, but finally it became a dinner for six people, and could only continue to add dishes, the other party also did their best to pick expensive, good points, did not care about Xu Yang's feelings.
During the meal, Xu Yang wanted to talk to each other several times, but the girl did not pay attention to him, but instead cared about chatting with friends, or complaining about work with colleagues, Xu Yang could not insert a word, he could only sit silently on the side, and the dishes ordered were what they liked, Xu Yang just casually ate two bites.
Later Xu Yang went to the bathroom, when he came out, he met the waiter, he asked how much money he had, when he heard that he had eaten almost nine hundred yuan, Xu Yang inhaled a cool breath, if it was only two people dating, he could accept it, but now it was spent with a bunch of unrelated people, Xu Yang was naturally not happy.
Especially after eating, they continued to chat about the day, just waiting for Xu Yang to pay the bill, not even a polite word, which made Xu Yang more disgusted, and then directly took out 150 yuan and put it on the table, and then said: I just asked the waiter, almost nine hundred yuan, this meal we have AA made, in addition to I have something, I left first. Then he directly got up and left, and before the other party could react, Xu Yang had already driven away.
In fact, at the beginning, Xu Yang still had a good feeling for her, but this meal made him feel that the girl was not sincere enough, obviously it was a date between two people, but the other party treated him as a meal ticket, and without consulting with him, he called a bunch of people to come over, in the name of dating to eat and drink, so that Xu Yang was particularly disgusted, and he no longer wanted to continue.
Love is very beautiful, the heart also needs to give to the right person, all the pay will be rewarded, especially when in love, it is a two-way process, can not expect one person to pay all, the other but enjoy it as it should be, otherwise an unequal love is doomed to not go to the end, especially in the blind date, there is no emotional basis between each other, so when you are testing others, others are also testing you, if you want to take advantage of every time, you often miss the right person.