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Backstage received a male friend of Mr. Zheng fan friend private message question said that the family recently introduced a blind date object, all aspects of the conditions are still quite compatible, they also look at the eyes, they want to develop a relationship with others, they want to take the initiative to pursue people, but because the two people know each other for a relatively short time, not sure about the intention of the blind date, I don't know if she likes herself, she is not interested in herself, she is not good at chasing, and how big are her chances of winning?
It seems that not only this male fan friend, I often receive similar questions in the background, how to judge whether a woman likes herself or not, is it good to chase? I believe that there are many single male fans and friends in real life who should have similar questions, how should we see whether this woman can chase it?
In fact, in my opinion, "feelings" in the end is nothing more than a matter between men and women, so to speak, in the love between men and women, it is often the initiative of any one of them, that is, when a person likes another person, has a voice for him, and is interested in him, especially when a male friend loves a female friend, he begins to chase women, begins to "pick" each other, or it means the beginning of this love between the two of you.
But although the words are said, but in real life is not what kind of female friends, male friends can casually go to "pick", to "chase", especially a female friend who does not like himself, has no interest in himself, is not interested in himself, even if he exhausts all the tricks and methods, the other party still does not have any response and expression, and is still indifferent, and can let himself really let go to chase, let himself put down to "flirt" female friends, must also like themselves, Female friends who are interesting to themselves and have equal interest in themselves.
All the male friends, if you like a woman, interesting to others, want to pursue others, want to know whether this woman likes herself, whether she can chase, whether you can "pry", then you may as well invite women to eat a meal.
Even if you are good at hiding your inner heart and being good at hiding your female friends, every move in the process of eating between the two of you may show a little trace, revealing a trace of horse's feet, and whenever this time comes, men can judge whether women can be chased by themselves and can be touched by these horse traces in the process of getting along between the two of them. Speaking of going, whether the woman can chase, invite her to a meal is clear!
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Can a woman "chase" it depends on whether she will pay attention to you?
Men want to know whether a woman is good or not to chase, women are not good or not to "pry", then in the process of the two of you eating, it depends on whether the woman's attention will be concentrated, after all, only female friends who really like you, are interested in you, and are willing to be with themselves will put all their physical and mental attention on men.
Especially in the current society where our technology is developing at a high speed and the network is extremely developed, everyone has a smart phone in their hands, and everyone likes to hold a mobile phone to brush the circle of friends dynamics all the time, hold the mobile phone to chat with other people, or use the mobile phone to brush videos, watch film and television dramas, etc., but the opportunity for face-to-face communication between people has become very small.
If when a man goes out to dinner or a date with a woman, the woman always plays with the mobile phone frequently, or often always checks the messages in the mobile phone, then it can be proved that the woman is not interested in men, or is not interested in the content of men's chats, then it is doomed that the two of you can not develop a relationship in depth, and may only become a relationship of ordinary friends.
On the contrary, if a female friend is very interested in the male friend, or is very interested in the conversation content of the male friend, then when the two of you eat together, the woman will definitely focus all her attention on the male friend, be deeply attracted by every word of the male friend, every performance on the face, and may not be able to put anyone in the mind except the male friend, and can no longer see anything.
If the two of you are eating or dating in the process, female friends do not pay attention to male friends at all, or female friends can easily be easily attracted by the people and things around the two of you, then it can be seen that female friends feel about male friends in general, must not be so fond of male friends, not so interested, and a female friend who does not like male friends, female friends who are not interested in male friends, how can male friends move people and catch up with others ?
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Whether a woman can "chase" depends on whether she cares about the image during the meal process?
Men want to know whether a woman is good or not to chase, women are not good or not "pampered", it depends on the process of eating with women, whether women will care about their external image, as the old saying goes, women are pleasing to themselves, when female friends like men, interesting to men, want to develop relationships with men in depth, they will want to leave a good impression in men's hearts, and they will strive to be more perfect in front of men.
So male friends, if a female friend likes men, is interesting to men, and is interested in men, then women will definitely care very much about their image in men's eyes, no matter when and where, whether it is eating or talking in the process, women will try to keep ladies excellent, mainly because women care about men, hoping to maintain a beautiful and generous, quiet and elegant image in front of men, hoping to win men's favor.
Especially when the two of you go out to eat or eat together, women will always chew slowly when men eat, and strive to show their elegance in every bite, and must not let themselves eat too much in front of men, even if the woman herself is very hungry, or the woman obviously eats very little, that little thing is not full at all, in front of the man also have to say that they have eaten enough, they have eaten, in fact, male friends should know that all the performance of women is only because they like men, Be interesting to men and want to leave a good impression on men's hearts.
Of course, when a female friend does not like men, does not care about men in her heart, and has not thought of developing deeply with men, then women naturally open their stomachs to eat in the process of eating, women will not care about their image in men's hearts, may only pay attention to the most basic politeness in the process of interpersonal communication, the rest is to completely let go of their belly, want to eat what they want, how to eat how to eat, after all, men are not their favorite people, It is not the person who cares about themselves, it must be their own feelings, and it is most important to eat comfortably, and they will not care about and take into account men's feelings at all.
Then, like this kind of female friend, male friends do not need to touch each other at all, nor do they need to chase each other, because to put it bluntly, women do not like you at all, and they do not call men at all, and they do not have the meaning of in-depth communication and development of relationships.
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Whether a woman can "chase" depends on whether she will take into account your preferences and feelings?
Men want to know whether a woman is good or not to chase, women are not good or not", it depends on whether the woman will take into account the preferences and feelings of men when eating with women, especially before the two of you eat, when ordering food to the waiter, women will take into account men's usual eating preferences, such as whether they like to eat spicy, or do not like to eat spicy, whether they like to eat southern food or like to eat northern food and so on.
As the saying goes, in the process of heterosexual communication, the details can witness true love, can witness the true feelings, can think for men everywhere, and the details are for men's sake, female friends, in their hearts must like men, interesting to men, but also have a good feeling for men, so they will take into account men's tastes and care about men's feelings when ordering or eating.
There is a sentence in the Book of Han and the Biography of Li Shiqi: "The king regards the people as heaven, and the people take food as heaven." "Yes, each of us is "the people to eat for the day", every day to eat and eat, in other words, three meals a day is something that each of us will encounter every day, but because each person's taste is different, the background of life is different, so often everyone usually in daily life when eating, have their own preferences, such as some people just like to eat spicy, and some people just don't like to eat spicy; some people just like to eat coriander, and some people just don't like to eat coriander;
So male friends to know, want to know whether a female friend likes themselves, whether they care about themselves, it depends on whether female friends will take into account their own preferences and feelings when eating, to put it bluntly, whether they will notice their tastes and hobbies when eating, maybe it may be just a small, insufficient small thing, but it can always witness the true chapter in the details, witness a person's true feelings.
And a female friend who can be chased by a man and "picked" by a man, in some ways, must also like male friends, interesting to male friends, and can be attracted to female students who are attracted to male friends, usually like this female friend will definitely pay great attention to male friends, especially the two of you in daily life Female friends must also notice male friends in bits and pieces, including every detail of male friends, so that female friends can know more about male friends. Only then can we try to understand the interests and preferences of male friends, even including everything that male friends have.
In the end, there is a difference between like and dislike, when a person likes another person, is interested in this person, is interested in this person, must also pay attention to this person, and must know how to do what he likes, after all, only a woman who really loves herself, really cares about herself, and really treats herself as a sweetheart will not let go of any of her hobbies, nor will she let go of every little detail of herself, but all of this is just to leave a better impression on her beloved man It also paves the way for the two of you to further develop your relationship and further warm up your feelings in the future.
Lin Qingxuan said in "The Taste of the World is Qinghuan": Romance is a waste of time to eat slowly, waste time to drink tea slowly, waste time to walk slowly, waste time to slowly grow old.
Yes, all in all, in real life, our unique food culture actually contains a lot of knowledge, especially the table eating culture inside is also covering all aspects of knowledge, especially from a person's behavior in the process of eating with themselves, various performances can roughly see some details of this person's problems, naturally also include interpersonal communication, emotional problems.
So you male friends, if you want to know whether a female friend likes or dislikes yourself, for yourself, in the end, whether it is good or not, can you "chase", then you may wish to invite the other party to eat a meal, often in the process of your meal, borrow the above points, pay close attention to observation, believe that you will have a different discovery, if you really meet a woman who likes yourself, you must firmly seize the opportunity, do not miss love, and do not miss the woman who loves herself!
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