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I'm Xiao Li, 28 years old, 4 months pregnant. The other day something happened that made me very depressed.
Early that morning, as soon as I woke up, I heard my mother-in-law's voice outside: "Xiao Zhang, your daughter-in-law doesn't help me wash my clothes again, it's true, I've had nothing to do all day!"
I became angry in my heart and said coldly: "Who said that I have nothing to do? Have you ever thought that I can now carry your own grandson in my belly! In the past few months of pregnancy, I have a sore back and often have no energy, how can I have the strength to do housework?"
The mother-in-law was still puzzled, "Pregnancy is not a disease, when I was pregnant with your father, I didn't cover the sky with one hand? You can't do such a trivial thing, really!"
I was so angry that I wanted to cry, and I was about to refute, but I saw Xiao Zhang walk out, and his face was a little ugly.
"Mom, you're too strict, aren't you? Sister Li is really unwell now, you should be more considerate of her. Xiao Zhang said.
"Considerate, you know the relationship between our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law best. The mother-in-law sneered, "She ignored me when she entered the door, what is so great about me that she has to serve?"
I quickly explained, "Mother-in-law, don't think so. I respect you from the bottom of my heart and treat you as if you were my own mother. It's just that my body has been a little overwhelmed lately, so I hope you can understand. "
"Stop quibbling!" The mother-in-law interrupted him, "I think she dislikes me as an old woman, and for her it is simply a superfluous existence!
I finally couldn't help it, and burst out with red eyes: "What did I do wrong? Just because I don't help you do the laundry occasionally, you doubt me so much, it's too much!"
"Enough!" Xiao Zhang finally stopped his mother-in-law sharply, and then said to me: "Sister Li, you go and rest first, don't worry too much about this little thing." "
I shook my head, feeling aggrieved. Why doesn't my mother-in-law believe me? Obviously, I have always respected her, and I don't treat her like she said. I glared at my mother-in-law fiercely and turned back to the bedroom.
Just as I was crying sadly, Xiao Zhang also followed, with a somewhat complicated expression on his face.
"Sister Li, don't take it too seriously. Mom, she's an old man's temper, you know. He said helplessly.
I wiped my tears and said with a wry smile, "But why doesn't she believe me? Am I disrespectful to her? Just because my health has not been so good lately, and I don't help her with things occasionally, she is so suspicious of me, which is simply vexatious!"
Xiao Zhang sighed, sat on the edge of the bed, patted the back of my hand and comforted me: "Mom, she's just too stubborn, don't worry too much." When you get better, and then serve her with all your heart, she will naturally improve. "
At this moment, my mother-in-law's voice came from outside: "Xiao Zhang, where are you? Come out for lunch!"
Xiao Zhang glanced at me, and I nodded and motioned for him to go out first. After he got up to leave, I let out a long breath, feeling that my mood was simply mixed to the extreme.
After a while, Xiao Zhang hurried back again, looking a little embarrassed.
"Sister Li, you can come out and eat something first, don't be too stuffy. He said.
I shook my head: "I don't have much appetite, you can eat first." "
I saw that he was embarrassed about how to explain to his mother-in-law, so I comforted: "It's okay, you go eat, I'll be here alone and quiet." "
Xiao Zhang nodded and left uneasily.
After lunch, my mother-in-law came to our bedroom again, looking a little angry.
"What do you mean by that? If you don't come out to eat at noon, do you look down on my cooking?" She asked.
I was annoyed by her vexatious appearance, and said coldly: "Mother-in-law, I have tried my best to be respectful to you, why do you always doubt my motives? Just because of a little thing this morning, you are pointing fingers at me like this, it is really too much!"
"Are you reasonable?" The mother-in-law was even more annoyed, "You ignored me when you entered the door, how did I offend you in the slightest? Do you dislike me as an old woman and look down on me as a little housewife?"
"How could I possibly think that!" I finally couldn't help but shout, "You are my mother-in-law, I have always respected you as my own mother, how dare you look down on you! Why don't you believe me?"
My mother-in-law was dumbfounded by my rebuttal, but the anger on her face did not diminish in the slightest. At this moment, my father-in-law walked in, saw that we were deadlocked, and hurriedly played a round.
"Li'er, don't be too excited, it's not good for your health. The old woman just has a weird temper, don't take it too seriously. He said thoughtfully.
With red eyes, I said angrily, "But my father-in-law, why doesn't my mother-in-law believe in my heart for her?
I nodded, but my heart was still mixed. Seeing this, my father-in-law continued to comfort me: "It's not easy to be a daughter-in-law, you have to be more considerate of your mother-in-law's temper." As long as your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law treat each other sincerely, one day they will be harmonious. "
Seeing that I was in a low mood, my father-in-law comforted: "Li'er, don't blame yourself too much. Mother-in-law, she is just too stubborn, if you try your best to serve her, she will understand you sooner or later. "
I nodded, but my eyes were uncontrollably red. Seeing this, my father-in-law hurriedly patted the back of my hand and said, "Okay, okay, don't be sad." You're sloppy right now, and you can't do it too much. "
I took a few deep breaths, forced my composure, and said, "Father-in-law, I've really done my best." But my mother-in-law always doubted my motives, which made me so sad. "
"I know, I've seen it all. The father-in-law said earnestly, "You really respect your mother-in-law and treat her as if she were your own mother." It's just that her mother-in-law is old, and her temper is too stubborn. Don't take it too seriously, wait for your body to improve, and then serve her wholeheartedly, and she will naturally change. "
At this moment, Xiao Zhang hurried over, looking a little embarrassed. Seeing that my eyes were red, he hurriedly asked with concern, "Sister Li, are you okay?"
I wiped my tears and said with a wry smile, "It's nothing, it's just that my mother-in-law is suspicious of me again, and I'm so sad." "
Xiao Zhang sighed, sat on the edge of the bed, patted the back of my hand and comforted me: "Mom, she's just too stubborn, don't take it too seriously." When you get better, and then serve her with all your heart, she will naturally improve. "
At this moment, my mother-in-law came again, and when she saw the scene of our conversation, she had a look of displeasure on her face.
"What are you whispering here? Xiao Zhang, are you protecting your daughter-in-law again?" She asked, her tone full of suspicion.
I was annoyed by her vexatious appearance, and I was about to refute it, but my father-in-law stopped me.
"Don't sulk, old woman. The father-in-law said earnestly, "Li Er is sincere to you, you see how much she respects you in recent years, just like respecting her biological mother." Why don't you believe her?"
The mother-in-law snorted, obviously still half convinced. Seeing this, Xiao Zhang hurriedly said, "Mom, don't always doubt Sister Li." She does treat you with respect, so be considerate of her. "
"Considerate, she just dislikes me as an old woman!" The mother-in-law said angrily, "You men just indulge her too much!"
I finally couldn't help it, and rushed out with red eyes: "Mother-in-law, I really respect you as if you were my own mother! Why don't you believe me? Where did I do wrong, you are so suspicious of me, it is really hurtful!"
My mother-in-law was dumbfounded by my rebuttal, but the anger on her face did not diminish in the slightest. At this moment, the father-in-law played the round again.
"Old woman, don't always doubt Li'er. She is sincere to you, and you can see how much she has served you with all her heart and soul over the years, just like she has served her own mother. The father-in-law said seductively, "Don't always doubt her motives, it will only hurt the harmony." "
The mother-in-law was silent for a moment, and her face finally softened. Looking at me, she sighed and said, "Okay, I won't talk about you." You're in good health right now, so get some rest. "
With that, she turned and left. I breathed a sigh of relief, but my heart was still mixed. Why doesn't my mother-in-law believe in my filial piety to her? I really respect her as my own mother!
Seeing this, the father-in-law continued to follow the temptation: "Li'er, don't blame yourself too much. Mother-in-law, she is just too stubborn, if you try your best to serve her, she will understand you sooner or later. "
I nodded, but my eyes were uncontrollably red. Seeing this, my father-in-law hurriedly patted the back of my hand and said, "Okay, okay, don't be sad." Your body is important now, and you can't worry about it more. "
I took a few deep breaths and forced my composure to say, "Father-in-law, I really tried my best, but my mother-in-law always doubted my motives, which made me so sad." "
"I know, I've seen it all. The father-in-law said earnestly, "You do respect your mother-in-law very much, just like you respect your biological mother." It's just that her mother-in-law is old, and her temper is too stubborn. Don't take it too seriously, wait for your body to improve, and then serve her wholeheartedly, and she will naturally change. "
For the next few days, I tried to avoid talking directly to my mother-in-law, for fear of exacerbating the conflict again. But she didn't seem to have learned from what happened last time, and still pointed fingers at me.
One day at noon, I was resting in the living room, and my mother-in-law suddenly came over and said, "Xiao Li, do you see if today's food is enough? If not, let Xiao Zhang go out and buy some." "
I nodded, and was about to get up, but she scolded me: "You are so lazy? You don't even want to do this little thing! Really, marrying into my family is marrying out!"
I was annoyed by her unreasonable accusation, and was about to refute it, but my father-in-law came out of the next room and said, "Old woman, don't worry about it." Li Er is not feeling well now, you should be more considerate of her. "
"What's wrong with her?" The mother-in-law interrupted him, "She just dislikes me as an old woman, and to her, I am simply a superfluous existence!
I was speechless by her unreasonable accusation, and I could only stare at her angrily. Seeing this, Xiao Zhang hurriedly said to me: "Sister Li, don't mind, Mom, she is just too straight-tempered." You go and rest first, and I'll take care of the dishes. "
Back in the bedroom, I couldn't help but have red circles under my eyes. Just as I was crying sadly, Xiao Zhang followed in, looking a little embarrassed.
"Sister Li, don't take it too seriously. He said helplessly, "Mom, she's just too stubborn, don't worry too much." When you get better, and then serve her with all your heart, she will naturally improve. "
Xiao Zhang saw that I was depressed, and said helplessly: "Sister Li, don't blame yourself too much. Mom is just too stubborn, if you try your best to serve her, she will understand you sooner or later. "
I had red eyes and felt very aggrieved. Why doesn't my mother-in-law believe me? Obviously, I have always respected her and treated her well, not like she said.
At this moment, my father-in-law walked in, saw that my eyes were red, and asked with concern, "Li'er, why are you crying again?" Is it that old stubborn mother-in-law said something that hurt you?"
I nodded, tears finally welling up in my eyes. Seeing this, my father-in-law hurriedly stepped forward and hugged me and comforted: "Don't cry, don't cry, don't take it too seriously." Mother-in-law, she is just too stubborn, if you try your best to serve her, she will understand you sooner or later. "
I sobbed and said, "But my father-in-law, why doesn't my mother-in-law believe in my heart for her?
My father-in-law showed a clear expression, he patted the back of my hand, and said earnestly: "Mother-in-law, she is old, and her temper is a little stubborn. Don't worry too much, when you are better, and then serve her with filial piety, she will naturally change. "
I nodded, but my heart was still mixed. Seeing this, the father-in-law continued to follow the good path: "It's not easy to be a daughter-in-law, you have to be more considerate of your mother-in-law's temper." As long as your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law treat each other sincerely, one day they will be harmonious. "
I nodded secretly, but I still felt regretful in my heart. Since I entered this family, I have respected my mother-in-law as my own mother, but she is always suspicious of me, this sadness, I really can't let go!
At this moment, Xiao Zhang also came in, and when he saw us like this, he hurriedly asked, "What's the matter?" Sister Li is crying again?"
The father-in-law shook his head and said, "It's nothing, it's just that your mother-in-law is stubborn and said some hurtful things, which makes Li Er sad." "
Xiao Zhang sighed helplessly, sat down beside me, patted the back of my hand and comforted, "Sister Li, don't blame yourself too much. Mom, she's just too stubborn, if you try your best to serve her, she will understand you sooner or later. "
I said with red eyes, "But why doesn't she believe in my heart for her? I am so sad that I am so devoted to her and yet she always doubts my motives!"
Xiao Zhang showed a clear expression, and said seriously: "Mom, she's just too stubborn, don't take it too seriously." When you get better, and then serve her with all your heart, she will naturally improve. It's not easy to be a daughter-in-law, you have to be more considerate of her temper. As long as your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law treat each other sincerely, one day they will be harmonious. "
I nodded, but the tears began to fall. Seeing this, Xiao Zhang hurriedly hugged me and whispered, "Don't cry, don't cry, don't blame yourself too much." Mom, she's just too stubborn, if you try your best to serve her, she will understand you sooner or later. "
At this moment, my mother-in-law walked in and saw our scene, with a somewhat complicated expression on her face. She stepped forward and said, "What the hell is wrong with you guys crying here?"
Xiao Zhang hurriedly explained: "Mom, don't always doubt Sister Li. She does have a lot of respect for you, so be considerate of her. "