Text/Mirror Finance Society
Editor/Kagaisha
Xu Gehui intervened in Ding Jian's marriage with his pregnant belly and eventually married into a wealthy family, which sparked widespread public discussion and sustained media attention.
What means did Xu Gehui use to stand out in this wealthy marriage? What is her life like now?
Xu Gehui, a talented woman who graduated from Beijing University of Foreign Chinese, quickly emerged on the stage of CCTV with her unique temperament and extraordinary wisdom.
Xu Gehui has won the love and respect of countless audiences with his fluent English, solid professional skills and affinity hosting style.
Xu Gehui and Ding Jian's acquaintance
In an important hosting event, Xu Gehui was dazzling and attracted the attention of the audience.
It was on this bright night that she met Ding Jian, a well-known business magnate in the Internet field, with the halo of the University of California behind him, and his career was thriving.
The eyes of the two met in the venue, as if they were destined to spark.
As a senior host, Xu Gehui is good at capturing every subtle opportunity, and she skillfully uses her professional advantages to start frequent contact with Ding Jian.
At every event, at every meeting, she does her best to create opportunities for encounters.
The two gradually developed from a working relationship to a personal relationship, Xu Gehui's every speech and demeanor was just right, and her wisdom and humor gradually moved Ding Jian.
Attracted by her talent and charisma, Ding Jian gradually let down his guard against public figures and was willing to share his career and life with her.
An affair
After Xu Gehui and Ding Jian's many private dates, the relationship between the two gradually became ambiguous. After a romantic dinner, the two eventually break through the last boundaries and have a relationship.
This is not an accident, but a carefully planned strategy for Xu Gehui.
Xu Gehui is well versed in psychological tactics, and she chose a moment when Ding Jian was most relaxed and emotional, skillfully guiding the development of the relationship.
She knew how to give Ding Jian the warmth and understanding he needed at a critical moment, so that Ding Jian was completely relaxed in front of her, and finally couldn't help but cross that line.
As the relationship between the two became closer, Ding Jian had to face concealment and deception of his wife.
He began to make up all sorts of excuses to cover up his secret date with Xu Gehui.
And Xu Gehui stepped up his offensive at this time, especially during the pregnancy of Ding Jian's wife.
She took advantage of Ding Jian's wife's weak body and emotional instability to constantly blow wind in Ding Jian's ears, making him gradually tired and alienated from his wife.
Ding Jian filed for divorce from his original partner
With Xu Gehui's unremitting efforts, Ding Jian finally made up his mind to file for divorce during his wife's pregnancy.
This decision not only plunged his family into an unprecedented crisis, but also caused an uproar in society.
In order to calm the situation, he offered to pay 100 million yuan in divorce compensation, hoping to exchange for his wife's consent.
Faced with Ding Jian's sudden divorce decision, his wife was extremely shocked and helpless.
She couldn't understand why Ding Jian would make such a cruel decision during her pregnancy, and this psychological impact made her fall into extreme pain.
Out of consideration for her unborn child, she eventually had to agree to the request for divorce.
She knew that continuing to argue would only be detrimental to the child, and that a compensation of $100 million would at least provide a stable future for the child.
After the divorce turmoil, Ding Jian and Xu Gehui quickly entered the palace of marriage and welcomed their youngest daughter.
The wedding chose a low-key travel wedding format that avoided the media eye, but it did not completely escape the public eye.
In response to questions and speculations from the outside world, the two declared that this was a "true love invincible" relationship, trying to whitewash this controversial marriage in the name of love.
The reaction of public opinion did not subside as they hoped, and the media and the public lashed out at Xu Gehui's behavior, and negative labels such as "knowing three things and being pregnant" and "getting pregnant before marriage" followed.
Xu Gehui became the target of public criticism for a while, and the storm of public opinion pushed her to the forefront.
CCTV's reaction
With the exposure of Xu Gehui's extramarital affair, CCTV quickly learned of her misconduct and began an internal investigation.
In the face of the evidence of the facts, CCTV decided to expel Xu Gehui, which is not only a punishment for his personal behavior, but also a maintenance of the moral bottom line of the entire industry.
Xu Gehui, who left CCTV, found himself encountering unprecedented challenges and difficulties in his career.
Her public image has been tarnished, her former glory has faded, and although she has tried to return to the stage by various means, social prejudice and the pressure of public opinion have made it difficult for her.
Ding Jian tried to repair his relationship with his child
After the divorce, Ding Jian realized the pain caused by the breakdown of his relationship with his ex-wife and children.
He began to try to repair his relationship with his children by giving gifts, companionship, etc., in an attempt to make up for the damage in the past.
The attitude of the ex-wife and children was extremely resolute, they rejected Ding Jian's behavior and were unwilling to accept his apology and make amends.
In the face of continuous public criticism, Ding Jian defended Xu Gehui in front of the media, publicly admitting that his fault was his own, trying to relieve her of some pressure from public opinion.
Although his move won the understanding of some people, many more people still criticized his behavior. Xu Gehui's current situation
Xu Gehui has gone from a famous CCTV host to a controversial figure today, and her public image has fallen to the bottom.
Xu Gehui's recent photo, at the age of 55, she is full of girlishness, standing with her daughter like sisters
Now 55-year-old Xu Gehui, she still maintains an elegant temperament and a young state, and her daughter has also been trained very well.
The former frivolity has become a thing of the past, and now Xu Gehui continues to insist on his career with a steady and fashionable image.
Now Xu Gehui has gradually faded out of the public eye, but every appearance can still attract attention, 55 years old she stands with her daughter, like sisters, still active in the front line of hosting, although it seems to have been slightly marginalized.
Xu Gehui is a sports fanatic in private, especially for her love of tennis, and these photos are the moment when she sweats on the court, looking energetic and youthful, and it is hard to imagine that she is 51 years old.
The title of beauty is not in vain, even in the blurred picture of movement, her beauty still cannot be hidden.
Hui Gehui's signature short hair is now shoulder-length, wearing a white hat, revealing an age-reducing effect in a sporty style, and the blue long-sleeved sweatshirt she wears is not fashionable but practical.
Paired with black stretch pants and a sports skirt on the lower half of her body, and black sneakers, her concentration when playing is in stark contrast to those posing for photos in the gym.
Judging from her smooth movements and vigorous pace, Xu Gehui is definitely a tennis master, and it is hard to believe that she is over half a hundred years old.
Exercise is really the secret to maintaining beauty, 51-year-old Xu Gehui has fair and firm skin, laughs excitedly when playing tennis, no obvious wrinkles can be found on his smiling face, and his skin is so tender and smooth that he is no different from a 20-year-old girl, and some people even think that she looks like Ariel Lin, a childlike goddess when she plays.