Just pregnant, she dared to "go to the father and keep the son", this actress is so bold!

Mommy OK

2024-05-27 15:22Posted in Zhejiang Parenting Creator

"Mom, why do you look a little tired. I'll get it, you go lie down for a while! "I was feeding the baby turtle on the balcony with OK this afternoon, and he suddenly came up with this sentence, which really surprised me. Originally, as long as I was free, he would definitely let me accompany him.

Seeing that I was a little hesitant, he added, "I really want you to accompany me, but Mom, you also need to rest!" ”

That kind of "serious talk" tone like a little adult, I am really funny and moved. He can feel my happiness and tiredness, my hard work and hardship; He also loves me in his own way.

This is probably the connection between mother and child, which is something that is difficult to define in words, a pure, unconditional, continuous love and being loved. This magical connection only exists between our mother and son, and it also makes me feel that everything is worth it.

Therefore, a while ago, I heard Jin Jing's official announcement of pregnancy on social platforms, and it hit me in an instant.

She said: "If you fall in love, you will break up, and if you get married, you will get divorced, [so I didn't announce the relationship, marriage] I don't want people to feel like they are encroaching on public resources." But I think I'm very happy to share this with you, because he will always be my child, and there will be no variables. ”

There is no emotion in this world that will never fade, but only the connection with children is eternal.

Talking about children, she restrained the funny and funny of the past. There is no need for an official announcement to fall in love and get married, but becoming a mother is a serious matter, and it is also her decision after careful consideration.

In fact, those of us who have been mothers all know that giving birth to a child is an extremely painful and arduous process, but seeing such a confident, open, transparent and brave Jin Jing, I believe that she will be able to feel a lot of happiness and embrace a lot of happiness on this road.

So today, I also want to talk to you about Jin Jing, a funny actress I have liked for many years, about her love, marriage, and growth.

01

"Teasing all over the little fresh meat" is all for the sake of laughing fruit

The news of Jin Jing's official announcement of pregnancy was first posted directly on Weibo-

"Welcome to the fifth family member", with the picture of a man and a woman and the family's two dogs, it is clear that the fifth member is the child in her womb.

The first reaction of countless netizens was: "Who is the child's father?" When did she get married? ”

The emotions of the public are shocked, unexpected, and sudden. On the one hand, this is because Jin Jing has never made his relationship public.

She has a relationship that she has been talking about for a long time, and the object is also very good, she is Shu Yicheng, the director of the famous Chinese comic "Painting the Bad People of the Rivers and Lakes", who is talented and good-looking.

Occasionally, she will be caught by the paparazzi for some clues, but she has always kept a low profile. When a fan asked, she just responded with a smile, "How can I say it, it's really not a yellow flower girl." ”

It's not hidden, but there's no need to beat gongs and drums.

Another very important reason is that she has always given everyone the impression that she is funny and improper, and "too flirtatious".

She is very good at distinguishing the truth from the fake created by the CP feeling, and she once declared domineeringly, "I can't do things without me, and I can't win people without me."

Jin Jing's most famous CP is with Li Jiaqi. Jin Jing is probably the only female guest who can have a unique "chemical reaction" with Li Jiaqi, as long as her person appears in the live broadcast room, it can immediately ignite the joyful atmosphere of the entire live broadcast room.

The two have cooperated tacitly and funny several times, a suona and a gong, and the live broadcast has become a comedy sketch.

Li Jiaqi will incarnate as a domineering president, and Dafang will take Jin Jing to his warehouse to frantically choose gifts.

After the decoration of the live broadcast room, the first artist he invited was also Jin Jing.

During that time, the whole network urged them to get married and get a certificate quickly.

Sa Beining talked about the two CPs, and Jin Jing couldn't help but go surfing to eat himself.

After the official announcement of her pregnancy, the whole network was upset with Li Jiaqi, how popular the CP of "Captain Jingqi (Captain Marvel)" was.

Even those who are usually most afraid of scandals and see the opposite sex hiding away from the traffic of the little fresh meat, she is not relentless.

In "Ace vs. Ace", Jin Jing made a coquettish offensive, so scared that the honest Song Yaxuan had nowhere to hide.

In "Bizarre Script Shark", Jin Jing directly called Wang Yuan "fiancé", and Wang Yuan was embarrassed and at a loss.

But all this is a screen effect, and in private she has been holding the scale, it must be good and funny on the screen, but after the fun, it will not let netizens take it seriously, they are decent to each other, but they can't be annoying. If the effect is too much, she will also pay attention to adjust it.

is crazy on the screen, but returning to real life, Jin Jing's attitude towards love is still very sober, he boldly confesses if he likes it, leaves when he is rejected, and it is not a big deal to break up.

"No matter if you refuse, a girl's time is also very precious."

"Falling in love is the same as interviewing for a job, you just don't fit for the job, it doesn't negate your life."

02

If you are pregnant, you can also go to the father and keep the child

Desire love, take the initiative to embrace love, but will never be held by the other half, the initiative must be firmly held in your own hands.

From the video copy of Jin Jing's official announcement of pregnancy, this sobriety and transparency are also revealed all the time.

Suddenly the official announcement, there will always be some people who misunderstand that she had a child by accident, but in fact, Jin Jing has already planned to get a "dragon son" this year, which is the year of the dragon.

"It's not an accident, after all, I'm 32 years old."

"Preparing for pregnancy" has also been planned for a long time, the first is the preparation of the body, paying attention to the changes in menstrual flow, she also laughed at herself and was worried that she was going to have premature aging, but she didn't expect that her physical fitness was so good and it was easy to get pregnant.

Marriage was also planned a long time ago, Jin Jing confessed that he would easily fall in love with someone, but if he wanted to have a child, he would still think deeply about whether the other party was the right person.

Jin Jing is also very sober about the role of the other half, and will never listen to the man's sweet words, "I don't believe what you say, I must only look at your actual actions."

"During pregnancy (husband), you are a little bad to me, I must teach my child to call him uncle!"

Fortunately, the current partner has been together for more than four years, the relationship is stable and sweet, the man is very gentle and good at taking care of people, and can also accept many inexplicable theories and bold statements from Jin Jing.

Many female celebrities are cautious and cautious as mothers, and some female celebrities have kept the whole process of giving birth to babies secret, and the business videos deliberately hide their abdomen or only send inventory.

Jin Jing is much more honest, "After all, we are girls, and sooner or later we will be seen", and she is also happy to share the joy of becoming a mother for the first time.

She even thought of the child's name, and directly followed her mother's surname, called King Kong, which sounded very Jin Jing's style, which sounded funny at first glance, but the core was indestructible. Boys can be called King Kong, and girls can also be called by this domineering name.

Jin Jing's speech has been praised countless times, because everyone feels her openness and self-confidence - the child is what I want to give birth to, not "who I want to give birth to", and if my husband can't take on the responsibility of parenting, I can also boldly "go to the father and keep the son".

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The support of growth is the "seed" given by my father

Now Jin Jing, relying on the unique exaggerated and funny style in the entertainment industry, is becoming more and more prosperous in his career, and many people will be curious:

Is her free-flowing, humorous and hearty personality innate?

Humor cells are born, but the hearty character is not, in fact, Jin Jing when he was a child had a rather gloomy childhood. She has low self-esteem and sensitivity since she was a child, isolated by her classmates, and abandoned by her friends.

Jin Jing's family is not perfect, his father is disabled, his job is unstable, his parents divorced when he was very young, and his mother left home.

When Jin Jing was in school, she often heard her classmates talk behind her back: "Her father is a cripple...... She was a child without a mother. There were even classmates who imitated the way their father walked.

Her academic performance was not good, and several good friends who played with her for a while suddenly became very cold to her, and later she learned that the teacher had "kindly" reminded them: do not play with classmates with poor grades, so as not to delay their studies.

These experiences made Jin Jing very insecure, sensitive and evasive in interpersonal relationships, but fortunately she had a humorous and optimistic father.

Jin Jing once commented on him: "Dad is the most important person to ensure the integrity of my personality, first of all, he didn't make me feel bad without my mother." ”

In the face of the ridicule of his classmates, Dad was not angry, but laughed and teased the child who imitated him and said, "Hey, bastard, it's not like imitation at all, I can still dance!" humorously resolved Jin Jing's inner insecurity.

Usually, my father is always happy and often happily tells Jin Jing some interesting stories about his experiences or observations.

Dad brought Jin Jing a lot of happiness, and also taught her the most important way of life and socialization, using optimism to resolve misfortune, using a sense of humor to resolve other people's malice, and narrowing the distance with people.

Jin Jing tried it and found that it really worked, as if she had found a secret weapon to integrate into the group, and because of her funny tricks, there were more and more classmates who liked her.

In an interview, she described this kind of transformation from dark to bright in life, "all of a sudden, let go, let go, there is nothing to be afraid of", and she felt as if a seed had fallen into the soil, and it began to grow on its own.

Later, she met her like-minded best friend Liu Shengying in college, and the two performed improvised dramas together, participated in various comedy competitions together, and walked to various stages together, and gained more and more people's love.

Girls who love to laugh will not have too bad luck.

After the seeds began to grow, his life became smooth, and Jin Jing himself admitted frankly, "It seems that there is nothing difficult along the way."

In fact, there is no easy way to go in life, but Jin Jing, a girl, has found inner self-indulgence and a way to dissipate pressure and trouble.

She said that it was like raining, it was not a big deal, the rain would definitely stop, just wait.

It's like being pregnant, there is nothing "to be a mom should do", I can still eat hot pot, wear high heels, and go out to work;

If the child falls, there is no need to rush to help him up, he can pat his butt and stand up.

Happiness is a necessary nutrient, only when the mother herself is happy, can the child also be happy and hearty.

I also hope that today's story of this happy girl can give you a special healing when you are experiencing the fatigue of parenting!

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