Such a nest of love brains, or the first time

Laughed, how shy is everyone about women who are "more in love than the sky" now?

Following "picking wild vegetables" and "drinking white porridge", another "noodle sister" was ridiculed by the group for her love brain.

Recently, the urban professional emotional drama "All the Way to the Sun" was launched. In this drama, in addition to "sister-in-law" Gao Ye playing a fierce female boss in the play, there is also a character who was ridiculed by netizens angrily on the hot search.

【1】

Tian Rong, a girl from a small town in another province, drifted in Beijing to study an ordinary undergraduate.

Faced with such an important juncture as graduation and job search, nested in a real estate company as a real estate salesman, the market is good, but because there is no passion and lack of initiative, it is delayed in opening orders, and it is impossible to turn positive and will be fired immediately. But she has no heart or lungs, no quarrel with the world, and she is not in a hurry at all.

Tian Rong is dark and fat, plain-faced, slovenly, and has no ambitions for his career, and his greatest pastime is to satisfy his appetite. My dream job is to be a warehouse manager, because I don't have KPIs, I don't need to show my face, and I can also eat snacks secretly. Her only pursuit is to pounce on her "potential stock" boyfriend who works at a famous law firm.

This boyfriend is shrewd and snobbish, judges the situation, and knows how to climb very well. In the company, the mouth is sweet and sharp, there is work in the eyes, and the boss serves tea and pours water and packs and takes the rice to dry diligently.

But turned his head and set up the uncle's shelf in front of his girlfriend Tian Rong, with his eyebrows raised coldly and sneering. Stuff her clothes and iron them and let her cook for cooking; Laugh at her for not doing appearance management, let her eat less, eating more is a waste;

Disgusted that she was unmotivated, could not help herself, and spurred her to find a job and bill. I think she is not good-looking and can't get her hands on it, and I am embarrassed to meet colleagues when I am shopping, and I refuse to disclose my relationship.

Every day, Dad gave various lectures to his girlfriend, while enjoying her labor effort, hoping that in addition to maintaining this kind of housework of washing and cleaning, cooking, she could also improve her ability level;

It seems that she cares about her studies and work, and thinks about her future, although her father tastes but there seems to be nothing wrong with persuading her to study? But when it comes to responsibility, the cost AA is very clear.

But Tian Rong did not complain about this, but felt that he had climbed high. She proclaimed herself a "free nanny", proud of his logistical handling of household chores, and admired him from the bottom of her heart. Even her friends couldn't stand it and advised her: "Instead of recruiting for men, you better take care of yourself more."

While she indifferently gave up "I'm like that", she also started a self-strategy beautifully: Why doesn't he scold others and only scold me? He praised me for ironing my clothes well, he cared about my appearance and future, this is not PUA, this is LOVE.

But it has no value in itself, even if Tian Rong, who is willing to be a good "stepping stone", wants to rely on the sweet flattery of the hard-working mouth and the diligent service before and after the saddle, to trap a potential stock, but still in vain.

The "potential stock" boyfriend finds a new and more beautiful and excellent object, and does not hesitate to throw her off and go to his great future. Tian Rong, who lost the backbone of his heart, almost committed suicide because of his broken love, but he was dragged down by his girlfriend.

Just, how annoying is the role of Tian Rong?

When she ran to a famous law firm to submit her resume without doing her homework, and when the interviewer fled without knowing it, the barrage was densely packed with disgust:

"This character setting is too wasteful, right?"

"The beaters are substituted, stupid to death."

"I'm not prepared at all, I'll know how to eat if I'm silly."

"She is actually the heroine? The feeling that the mud can't hold up the wall. ”

Even fans with idols filters couldn't stand it, and Wang Ju, the actress who played Tian Rong, asked angrily:

"Sister, why did you act like this?"

Faced with the soaring blood pressure of fans and viewers, Wang Ju replied:

"Real life is not a cool drama, it needs to be patched up, reborn and savagely grown in adversity, this is the meaning of Tian Rong's existence."

Yes, not broken, not standing. Those embarrassments and humility are just foreplay, and the timeline is pulled to the fourth episode, Tian Rong has been dumped by her boyfriend, struggling to be reborn in the pain of lost love.

This slightly nesty character is obviously a slow-hot growth type, like countless small-town girls who drift north: they don't get a good hand, they can only withstand the critical blows of life and recognize the reality, hit the south wall, trial and error, their posture is not beautiful, and they trudge out of a road in mud.

【2】

After all, in the so-called workplace dramas in the past, most of the heroines with a monthly salary of 3,000 are still glamorous and beautiful to shine, shouting that they are poor but living in Wangjiang mansions and apartments with bathtubs, and then falling in love with the president's boss, or with the president's boss's son... of drama.

So to be honest, it is still surprising to see such a gray face in film and television dramas, the starting point is so low that you can't get your hands on it, and the personality is not pleasant, and you are really willing to open up and be unpolished, and the heroine who is "fat, ugly, black, and popular" is so close to life.

Although Tian Rong was played by Wang Ju, Wang Ju and Tian Rong are too different. Wang Ju, an actor who was born in a non-professional class, worked until he entered the entertainment industry halfway, and his appearance was by no means mainstream aesthetics, whether in or outside the play, he was an "outlier" who sprang up.

In 2018's "Creation 101", Wang Ju in that year, with her style that is completely different from the other 100 white thin young contestants: black fat body, European and American makeup, confident and wild, and wild style, let her brush up her presence in the show.

She changed from a model agency to a woman, in order to debut, she angrily solidified the standard, and swore her ambition without concealment: "Some people say that I am not suitable for a girl group like this, but what is the standard for a girl group?" In my case, the standards and baggage have been eaten by me, and what you hold in your hands is the right to redefine China's first women's group. ”

It is her various declarations and self-disclosure that have made countless netizens and even star artists become "Kikuuchi people" who publicly vote for them.

Although Wang Ju failed to become a member of the last girl group to debut, she did break the old aesthetic with her new style and re-updated the standards of actors and stars.

But debut or out of the circle is actually just the beginning. Even if the members of the girl group are in a beautiful group, many girls debut at the peak, and after the peak, there is only a long downhill road left.

Given that there are too few singing and dancing stages in the country; In addition, the mainstream aesthetic is still firmly controlled by "white, thin and young beauty". This is a harsh era in which countless beautiful female stars with beautiful facial features are still taking turns to be scolded as "ordinary women", not to mention Wang Ju, who is unique from style to appearance.

So on the road to becoming a female star, Wang Ju did not go smoothly at first, wandering in boxing or weight loss variety shows for many years, and was unable to come up with new works that can prove herself.

Until a light comedy "Love is Delicious" came out on the street in 2021, Wang Ju played a strong woman in the workplace Xia Meng. Because of his strong work ability and fierce sex, even in the pile of Tetris with his boyfriend, he worries about work KPIs, which puts pressure on his subordinate boyfriend who is about to talk about marriage, causing the two to break up. So Xia Meng made up his mind, determined to sell miserable, pretend to be poor, and pretend to be weak in front of the next man... And make a series of jokes.

This work is like a dark horse, in a number of large-invested film and television dramas, so far nearly 28W people on Douban have given a high score of 8.1.

Many people find out after this drama: "Hey, it turns out that she can still act?" ”

If you say that on the draft stage, you need to stand up and cheer yourself up in order to meet everyone's good expectations for her to "fight against mainstream aesthetics"; Then after the work got the actual results, Wang Ju's self-confidence and confidence really had a foundation and plunged deep into the soil. She has also become the object of envy again.

In the director's self-report of "Love is Delicious", the behind-the-scenes story created by the team was told: when there was only a preliminary idea and the script had not yet been written, Wang Ju was the first heroine to be "approved" in the entire drama.

Because the director happened to be in the talent show, when Wang Ju vowed to "redefine the Chinese girl group" in front of everyone, there was a bright and ambitious face in his eyes. He was immediately moved: this was the summer dream in his mind.

If Wang Ju also has a moment when "the gears of fate begin to turn", it is probably the time when she opened up everything, revealed her ambitions, and tried to win.

The first work is her ladder to the second work, more olive branches are handed to her, and Wang Ju has opened up a new situation for her career with her initiative and full interpretation. Of course, not every effort is an effective output. But as long as you catch it once, the rest will be different.

Wang Ju, or any late bloomer who has really survived the hardship of sitting on a cold bench, is behind a similar promotion process.

Real life is not easy, so whether inside or outside the play, everyone is eager to see the Shuangwen heroine who holds a good hand of cards and everything goes smoothly.

But in addition to the reincarnation of small experts, those "ordinary men and women" who have a low starting point, screwed up, and are frustrated in the love field and workplace like the general public, behind each step of the leap is the dual effect of effort and chance.

【3】

"Life is like a snowball, the key is to find enough wet snow and long enough slopes." Human growth is not linear and incremental, but after reaching a certain point, the quantitative change finally undergoes qualitative change and achieves an exponential leap.

If you want to fight the sense of loss of control and falling in life, in the final analysis, you still have to pinch the first snowball.

Even if you can never guess which task, which seemingly inconspicuous person and opportunity, is the opportunity for that doctrine to push the gears of destiny; Only by doing our best to maximize the present moment can the next opportunity emerge.