How many sons-in-law are willing to live with their in-laws?
Some sons-in-law are willing to live with their in-laws, who are free nannies, helping to take care of the children and take care of the housework. Some sons-in-law are reluctant to live with their in-laws because it will affect the life of their small families.
In fact, according to the law, the son-in-law is not obliged to support his parents-in-law. However, China is a society that emphasizes human feelings and filial piety, and the son-in-law is not obliged to support his in-laws, but the son-in-law has the affection to help his wife support his parents-in-law.
However, I believe that the son-in-law is reasonable and the son-in-law will be happy to support him; while the father-in-law's preference for sons and daughters or excessive eccentricity, the son-in-law will refuse to support no matter how kind.
01, after the division of family property, parents-in-law want to live in their daughter's home for the elderly
Zhong Lin never thought that his in-laws, who had always praised their daughter and son-in-law's filial piety, were outright patriarchal. Other people's families divide the family property, and even if the daughter is married, the good villain also shares a part of the family property, so as to retain the love between the parents and siblings.
But at the parents-in-law's house, the in-laws' mouths are very good, but when it comes to dividing the family property, the parents-in-law are very decisive to give their sons 2 houses and 500,000 pensions under their names.
When Zhong Lin and his wife learned of this, the property of their parents-in-law had already fallen into the pockets of their brother-in-law. The family property was given to the son, and as a son-in-law, Zhong Lin had nothing to say. It's just that the in-laws' back feet are uninvited, saying that they want to live in their daughter's home for the elderly.
Zhong Lin couldn't believe it, thinking he had heard it wrong. But the big bags and small bags brought by the in-laws laughed at Zhong Lin's naivety and naivety all the time. The wife has always been filial piety, otherwise she would not have been pinched by her parents-in-law for so many years, and paid for it to help raise her brother-in-law.
The wife was embarrassed, but she could not refuse her parents' request. No matter what, children have the obligation to support their parents. It's just that Zhong Lin is as disgusting as eating a fly, unable to swallow and spit out, and he is hard to suffocate himself.
02, the son-in-law resolutely refused: 2 suites are all given to your son
Zhong Lin is also very embarrassed, since he married his wife, he has paid for more than a few times to help his parents-in-law. Every time, the parents-in-law cried and begged, and the wife compromised again. And Zhong Lin was reluctant to let his wife be wronged, and often could only turn a blind eye and did not think too much.
However, it was also because of his inattention that his parents-in-law saw hope. Each time, it was all kinds of means to save the wife's wool, so that the wife had to obstruct the favor and once again take out her little savings.
This time, the in-laws were no exception, and they kidnapped their wives again with affection and tried to force her to compromise. But Zhong Lin couldn't bear it anymore. His wife subsidized his parents before marriage, and he endured, after all, the two people were not married, and he had no position. After marriage, his wife subsidized her parents-in-law by 2,000 per month, and Zhong Lin endured it again because of her kindness.
But now, while leaving all the family property to their sons, zhong lin can no longer bear it. Zhong Lin ignored the pleading in his wife's eyes and resolutely refused: 2 suites are all given to your son, find your son to retire.
The parents-in-law did not seem to expect that Zhong Lin would rise up and resist. In the past, even if Zhong Lin did not speak, he would not make a sound to stop it. Zhong Lin ignored the scolding of his parents-in-law and directly sent the two old men back to his brother-in-law's house intact.
03, the wife slowly broke off contact with her mother's family
As for how the brother-in-law treats the two old people, that is the duty and obligation of the brother-in-law as a son. His wife also complained about him privately, saying that he was ruthless and ruthless, and she was also very aware that her parents were excessive, but she drove away her parents like this, and her wife still couldn't bear it.
In the face of his wife's fear of hands and feet, Zhong Lin couldn't help but sigh inwardly. Perhaps it is the wife's hesitation and lack of decisiveness that leads to her parents-in-law being able to pinch themselves anytime and anywhere, use filial piety to suppress her, and force her to compromise.
Zhong Lin sympathized with his wife's plight, but did not pity his own abduction at all. For there must be something hateful about the poor man, and all this is not the wife's own doing. After all, I know that my parents prefer sons to daughters, blindly eccentric, but they still plunge into it, which is not filial piety, but foolish filial piety.
After the parents-in-law were refused to retire at home by Zhong Lin, every time the wife returned to her mother's house, she was happy to go back to her mother's house and return to her own home with a somber face. The number of times is more, and the wife is slowly less active in running to her mother's house. Because she knows very well that as soon as she returns to her mother's house, her parents will force her to pay for poverty alleviation for her brother.
Zhong Lin did not force his wife to break off relations with her parents-in-law, after all, the affection of parents and children cannot be broken by a sentence of "severing relations".
Today's Topic:
Do you think Zhong Lin is doing the right thing?