Some people say, why do others bully me so easily instead of bullying others?
In fact, why others have caught you to bully, in the final analysis, is because other people's attitude towards you, hidden in your permission. It is precisely because you have acquiesced that others dare to act arbitrarily.
If you don't acquiesce, others won't act rashly, and they'll even weigh it up. Therefore, if you want to not be pinched by others as soft persimmons, then you must be self-reliant and self-reliant.
01, eccentric mother robbed the rich to help the poor, single-mindedly for the son
Aunt Zhong grew up in a patriarchal family, and naturally, the idea of son preference was also deeply rooted in her mind.
In particular, the wife also loves her son, but her attitude of ignoring her daughter makes her firmly believe that she is not wrong, and what is wrong is that her daughter is not born at the right time.
Therefore, after her daughter grew up and began to earn money, Aunt Zhong did not ask her daughter for money. There are many reasons for asking for money, and Aunt Zhong is not worried that her daughter will resist, after all, her daughter has been filial and filial since she was a child, and she cannot bear to disappoint her parents.
The daughter's response made Aunt Zhong frantically tempt on the verge of death. Especially later, with the son buying a house and getting married, having children, the money is not enough to spend, if you do not want to with your daughter, Aunt Zhong and his wife can not cope with it at all.
Although her daughter has resisted many times, Aunt Zhong always believes that her well-behaved daughter cannot escape her own Five Finger Mountain, and as long as her parents cry and make trouble, her daughter will have to compromise softly.
By holding on to her daughter's weak ribs, Aunt Zhong, an eccentric mother, has been robbing the rich and helping the poor. And when she asked for the money from her daughter, she directly pasted it to her son.
02, the son asked to borrow 200,000 yuan to buy a house for the husband
Just no matter how Aunt Zhong imagined, she couldn't imagine squeezing her daughter and focusing on her son. But the son married his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother, and only thought about his daughter-in-law and the daughter-in-law's mother's family, but he slowly snubbed their biological parents, and did not come back to visit once every New Year's Festival, let alone send gifts in red envelopes.
Every New Year's Festival, watching other people's sons bring their daughters-in-law and children back to visit their parents, Aunt Zhong and her wife always sighed. His own home is deserted, without a little popularity and liveliness. And the son remembered to call his parents, and he couldn't remember that it had passed.
If the son does not take the initiative to honor his parents, the daughter-in-law will not honor his in-laws. Aunt Zhong was heartbroken, but helpless, for the sake of her son's family, she did not dare to go to the door to make trouble.
Until the son went home to visit his parents again with a large bag of things, greeting his parents was not two sentences, and when he opened his mouth to take 200,000, Aunt Zhong was completely cold.
Aunt Zhong repeatedly asked her son where to spend 200,000 yuan, and the son never said anything, only to let his parents leave too much, and give him 200,000 as much as possible.
Forced to ask more, the son truthfully confessed: 200,000 is the daughter-in-law's request to take, her parents are old, living in the staircase room is inconvenient, the daughter-in-law wants to share half of the down payment with her brother to her parents for the elevator room pension.
03, eccentric mother refuses: destroying my daughter for my daughter-in-law, I am not so stupid
After the son finished explaining, he impatiently asked his parents to take out 200,000 immediately. But where aunt Zhong still has money, over the years, she and her wife's pension, retirement pension, all spent on her son. Even in order to meet her son's various requirements, Aunt Zhong also morally kidnapped her daughter and took at least 300,000 yuan.
Now the son wants another 200,000, which makes them two old families go where to get it? Do you want to kidnap your daughter again? However, after the last time her daughter was asked to take 100,000 yuan, she cried and went back to her mother's house to complain, saying that the next time her mother's family asked for money, she could only be cleaned out of the house.
If the son comes for 200,000 for his parents or himself, perhaps Aunt Zhong will consider it, open up her own face, and help her son to collect 200,000. It can be imagined that since he married his wife and had children, he had become the son of his own family, and he was not so respectful and filial to his own parents.
Aunt Zhong wanted to understand this, and she was not willing to embarrass her daughter for the sake of her son's father-in-law's family, and she was even more unwilling to ruin her daughter's family and marriage for her daughter-in-law.
Aunt Zhong explicitly rejected her son, and she told her son categorically: I am not so stupid to destroy my daughter-in-law for my daughter-in-law. Whose parents are filial piety, I am not obliged to raise sons, daughters-in-law and grandchildren, but also to help daughters-in-law to adopt parents.
Today's Topic:
Do you think Aunt Chung's awakening came in time?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!