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She was born like everyone else, with six fingers in her left hand and a spinal disability. The parents saw that they had given birth to a sick child and threw her in the snow.
It was her adoptive mother who took her home and borrowed money everywhere to treat her illness and raise her.
After growing up, she participated in the "Walk of Fame" and sang many songs loved by the audience, such as "Live a Way to Show Yourself" and "Husband You're Hard".
In the end, she won the runner-up of the "Walk of Fame" competition with excellent performance, and became famous in one fell swoop.
She is the hawthorn sister Zhang Yueqiao.
After becoming famous, hawthorn sisters are scolded for being ruthless and unjust, what is going on?
01
In the winter of 1984, Han Banglan of Guanqiao Town, Tengzhou City, Shandong Province, finished the market and was preparing to go home, when he passed the mine hospital, he saw that the door was full of people, and it turned out that he did not know who had left a newborn child here.
Han Banglan picked up the child, swaddled a chubby and cute little girl, her face was frozen red, and her throat was already crying dumb.
People around them are talking about it, which one has given birth to more daughters in order to have a son, and thrown here. In those days, it wasn't unusual.
But it was freezing cold, and if no one cared, the child could not freeze to death, and Han Banglan did not say a word and carried the child home.
Han Banglan and her husband Zhang Zongshui have been married for more than ten years, have given birth to three sons, and are hoping to have a daughter, the couple discussed it, decided to adopt this child, and named her Zhang Yueqiao.
A week later, the couple changed The umbilical cord for Zhang Yueqiao only to learn that the family threw away the child, and the reason was not so simple.
This abandoned baby not only had six fingers on his left hand, but also had a pimple the size of a child's fist on his back, and it turned out to be a sick baby.
What to do?
The three sons in the family were originally living in difficulty, and now the daughter who was picked up was full of illness, and she couldn't bear to send it away.
Han Banglan and his wife later learned that before they picked up Zhang Yueqiao, a family had taken her home, and after discovering that the child was sick, they sent her to the door of the mine hospital.
Spending a week with the child and sending Han Banglan away was a little reluctant, so the couple took Zhang Yueqiao to the city for inspection.
Only then did she know that Zhang Yuejiao suffered from congenital periosteal contraction of the spine, and the only way was to operate early, otherwise she would be left with a lifelong disability or even unable to feed.
Mr. and Mrs. Han Banglan thought that since they had already managed this child, they would manage it to the end.
Zhang Yueqiao not only suffered from congenital diseases, but also had a relatively weak physique from an early age and often got sick. Han Banglan and his wife took Zhang Yueqiao around for medical treatment.
At this time, the medical expenses made the couple difficult, the family just enough to feed and feed, these two thousand pieces, where to go?
They took out what little savings they had in the family, sold the two pigs they fed, and borrowed a little from relatives and neighbors to get enough money for the medical expenses.
The couple left their three sons at home and took Zhang Yueqiao to the city to see a doctor.
When they returned home, they found that the door was locked and their three sons were missing. When I looked into the field, I realized that my three sons were cutting wheat in the field with scythes.
The eldest son is only 12 years old, the third is only 8 years old, seeing the three sons so sensible, knowing to understand their parents, Han Banglan's heart is very unhappy.
After harvesting the wheat at home, the couple took Zhang Yueqiao to review it, and it took several days to leave. Back at home, Han Banglan learned that not long after they left, the younger son was clamoring to find his mother, and he ran out alone in the middle of the night.
The eldest son and the second son hurried to look for it, and looked for a long time before they found that the younger son was asleep on the threshold of the neighbor's house.
Mr. and Mrs. Han Banglan felt guilty about their three sons, but for the sake of their daughter, they had to do so. Fortunately, after treatment, Zhang Yueqiao's condition finally improved.
This was the case with several children in the same ward, only Zhang Yueqiao survived healthily, and the couple was extremely pleased.
It's just that they didn't expect that, in the blink of an eye, their daughter grew up and couldn't stay.
02
Although her life is not rich, in Zhang Yueqiao's childhood memory, her three brothers were very kind to her, and they were bullied by their neighbors, and the 3 brothers protected her.
Usually, there is nothing delicious in the family, never need to be explained by her parents, and my brother knows to leave it for her.
The third brother also collected Zhang Yueqiao from the bag of snack milk powder, which was enough to have a sack of marijuana.
Under the meticulous care of the whole family, Zhang Yueqiao grew up day by day.
Zhang Zongshui is a "literary and artistic person" in the village, who usually plays the piano and sings, and Zhang Yueqiao is also very interested in singing under his influence, and also participated in school singing competitions when he went to school.
Also because of singing, Zhang Yueqiao met her later husband Lian Jie.
At that time, after graduating from junior high school, Zhang Yueqiao went to Tengzhou City to work, and after work, Zhang Yueqiao liked to sing in the night market, one song for one dollar, and more than two hundred yuan per month, almost all spent on singing.
On this day, Zhang Yueqiao sang as usual, a handsome young man stepped forward, he is Lian Jie, also a Tengzhou person, came here to wholesale fruit, came out at night to go around, and was attracted by Zhang Yueqiao's singing.
The two chatted and talked, and Lian Jie fell in love with the cheerful girl in front of him who had a loud voice.
After the separation, Lian Jie began to write letters to Zhang Yueqiao, and Han Banglan and his wife knew about it and vigorously opposed this family affair.
Although Lian Jie's family is in the next town, it is more remote and inconvenient, and the couple does not want this only precious daughter to remarry and suffer.
On the other hand, Lian Jie's parents did not agree to this affair.
Not to mention that Zhang Yueqiao is only 1 meter 5 tall due to illness, it is likely to be inherited to the child, not to mention her disease, it may be necessary to take care of it one day.
His parents said that Lian Jie had identified Zhang Yueqiao and arranged a blind date for him, and he did not see him.
Lian Jie, who has been running outside for several years, thinks of the bridge section in the film and television drama: elopement. He took the money from the wholesale fruit and took Zhang Yueqiao to Shanghai first, and then to Yangzhou.
When the family learned the news, they immediately sent someone to Yangzhou to bring the two back, and each of them returned to their respective homes, and they were not allowed to meet.
Lian Jie's parents thought about dragging on for a few days, and the young man was impulsive, and after a few days he calmed down and would give up. Who knew that Lian Jie not only did not give up, but also threatened his parents with a hunger strike.
There was no way, Lian Jie's parents agreed, and let their son come to the door to propose to him.
Although Han Banglan and his wife were also unwilling, they saw that Lian Jie was really good, an honest man, and very good to his daughter, as long as her daughter was happy, they would be satisfied.
The marriage was settled. What Zhang Yueqiao did not expect was that before the wedding, she learned a big secret.
03
In 2007, Zhang Yueqiao and Lian Jie finally came to the step of marriage step by step according to the local customs and procedures.
On the first day of marriage, neighbors came to help prepare the dowry, and a sister accidentally slipped her mouth, saying that Han Banglan Zhang Zongshui was not Zhang Yueqiao's biological parents, she was raised.
Zhang Yueqiao did not believe, from childhood to adulthood, other people's families favor sons over daughters, their parents are better to her than their three brothers, for her to go to school, her brother also dropped out of school early to work to earn money.
How could she possibly have been adopted?
Zhang Yueqiao found Han Banglan and his wife to confirm, and the couple only then did they find Zhang Yueqiao at the hospital door that year and put it together.
Zhang Yueqiao was extremely touched to hear it, if it were not for them, she might have frozen to death in the snow.
Zhang Yueqiao told her husband Lian Jie about her life, and the two young people said that they would be more filial to their adoptive parents in the future.
The wedding was held as usual, and the next year, Zhang Yueqiao's son was born.
With a son, Zhang Yueqiao sang and had one more audience. In addition to doing farm work at home, she often took her son to sing, and Lian Jie bought a computer at home for the convenience of mother and son singing.
Lian Jie knows that his wife has always had a dream of singing, so he usually pays attention to the singing news of large and small sizes, sees that there is a competition, and encourages Zhang Yueqiao to sign up.
In the fall of 2012, the second season of Shandong TV's singing competition program "Let the Dream Fly" was launched, and with the support of Lian Jie, Zhang Yueqiao signed up.
This is the first time that Zhang Yueqiao officially participated in the competition, but he did not expect that the results were not bad and entered the final.
Although she has been singing for many years, she has not participated in such a large competition, and she is worried that she will not know what to say when she comes on stage, and whether she will be nervous to the point of incoherence.
Or Lian Jie thought of a way, this kind of ordinary people's stage, it is necessary to be grounded, just planted a lot of hawthorn at home, then bring some to the guests and the audience.
"Eating people's mouths is soft" can not only enliven the atmosphere, but maybe also let them say a few nice words.
Therefore, when Zhang Yueqiao came to the stage during the competition, he really mentioned a basket of hawthorns to distribute to the host and the audience, and also said that singing was secondary, mainly to promote the specialties of his hometown.
Knowing that hawthorn was planted by Zhang Yueqiao's own family, everyone affectionately called her hawthorn sister.
Not long after, Zhang Yueqiao participated in CCTV's "Golden 100 Seconds" and won the championship with a song "Eighteen Bends on the Mountain Road".
At this time, coinciding with the start of the annual "Walk of Fame", the program team watched the video of Zhang Yueqiao in the "Golden 100 Seconds" competition and hoped that she would participate in the "Walk of Fame".
I just didn't expect that I became famous, and criticism followed.
04
When she received the invitation from the program group, Zhang Yueqiao repeatedly refused, when her mother was sick and lying on the bed unable to move.
After working for half a lifetime, Han Banglan had many years of diabetes, and it just so happened that during this time his condition was very serious, he could not stand or walk, and could only lie in bed and let people wait for people to eat and drink Lasa.
However, the program team repeatedly invited, and Zhang Yueqiao had to agree.
With several competition experiences, Zhang Yueqiao's singing skills are becoming more and more refined, and the typhoon is becoming more and more stable.
As soon as she arrived at the Walk of Fame, she won the Weekly Championship. Zhang Yueqiao knew that the next competition was getting more and more difficult, and there were only a few songs she would have, and she once again thought of giving up.
Husband Lian Jie has always been around to encourage, he understands his wife's pressure, but at the same time he also knows that for grassroots singers, stages such as "Avenue of Stars", if they miss it, Zhang Yueqiao will regret it for a lifetime.
Under the comfort and encouragement of Lian Jie, Zhang Yueqiao continued to play, and she passed the level all the way and finally won the good achievement of the runner-up.
At this time, for Zhang Yueqiao, it can be described as double happiness, she not only won the runner-up trophy, her mother Han Banglan learned of her daughter's good results, most of the illness was better, not only can stand up by herself, but also ride a tricycle.
For Zhang Yueqiao, this was the thing that made her happiest, but the troubles also came.
Through the popularity of "Avenue of Stars", Zhang Yueqiao's tragic life story has touched countless people, and some program groups have also begun to help her find her birth parents.
Some viewers asked Zhang Yueqiao, now that she has become famous, if she finds her biological parents, will she recognize them?
Zhang Yueqiao knows that her adoptive parents, Han Banglan, and Zhang Zongshui have paid countless efforts to her, and the grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of procreation.
Despite her illness, how could her biological parents have been so cruel to throw her in the snow? If it wasn't for her adoptive parents carrying her home, she might not have survived today.
Therefore, for the question of whether to recognize his biological parents, Zhang Yueqiao has always answered frankly that his closest parents will always be his adoptive parents Han Banglan Zhang Zongshui.
If you really find your biological parents one day, you may just recognize each other, and then what should everyone do?
Zhang Yueqiao's move was also said by some netizens that she was ruthless and unjust. After all, it is his own biological parents, if he really comes to the door, how can he not recognize it? Do you become famous and ignore your parents?
As a party to Zhang Yueqiao, her biological parents abandoned themselves because of their illness, and their adoptive parents were not relatives, but they smashed pots and sold iron to treat her, treating her more than their own daughters, and her only wish was to filial piety to them and let them have a happy old age.
However, the sky is not the limit.
In the summer of 2016, Zhang Yueqiao received a very important program invitation from Shandong Television, originally her mother Han Banglan was sick, and Zhang Yueqiao did not want to go to the program.
But the program team did not know the situation at her home in advance, has been advertised out, Zhang Yueqiao can not, had to say good to the program, her first performance, after the performance, she did not stop to return home.
At home, Han Banglan on the hospital bed was already angry, unable to speak, and seemed to be waiting for Zhang Yueqiao to return.
Zhang Yueqiao cut some watermelon for her mother to eat, and Han Banglan ate two bites and left forever.
The son wants to raise and not to be kissed, Zhang Yueqiao deeply feels the heaviness of this sentence.
Over the years, she has become famous, she can earn money, see what is delicious, her parents can use it, as long as she can afford it, she has never been stingy.
Now, the mother who has been tormented by illness is finally relieved, and Zhang Yueqiao is sad at the same time, but also feels a little relaxed for her mother who finally stopped suffering.
For Zhang Yueqiao, fame can only represent a moment, and living a good life in the present is the most important.
Today' Zhang Yueqiao is also broadcasting live on the Internet, using his influence to spare no effort to promote the local specialties of his hometown.
Coming from the countryside, rooted in the countryside, in this solid land, living well, a family and a beautiful family, this is the greatest happiness.
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