The Year of the Tiger is the first year that Sun Zhuo and his family have spent a long time together.
After 15 years of absence, the Sun family finally found the lost eldest grandson Sun Zhuo. It can also be regarded as a wish of the old lady of the Sun family to see her eldest grandson in her lifetime.
But this year for Sun Zhuo's adoptive parents and family, there are regrets. The "son" who has devoted all his efforts to raising for 15 years has left like this, in addition to not being willing, there are more unwilling.
Although the buyer was at fault, he was really good to Sun Zhuo
From the day Sun Zhuo was bought into the door, his adoptive parents regarded him as a treasure, and any good food and drink in the family would be brought to Sun Zhuo's face for him to enjoy for the first time, although there was no blood relationship, but it was better than his own birth!
Moreover, in the later adoptive parents had their own biological daughters, but Sun Zhuo's status was still not affected in any way, and he was still served by Haosheng like a prince.
The reason why Sun Zhuo was treated so favorably was because of his adoptive parents' deep-rooted patriarchal mentality. This is also the main reason for buying Sun Zhuo home, even if it is an adopted son, the boy is more expensive than his own daughter Jin.
So much so that her own daughter was forced to go out to work after graduating from junior high school, giving up her own learning opportunities to earn money and helping her parents support Sun Zhuo to go to school and make up classes. The gap between the two people is a world of difference.
Although we can't agree with this feudal idea of adoptive parents, from Sun Zhuo's point of view, we still feel fortunate, otherwise Sun Zhuo would not have had a happy childhood.
Therefore, the fact that the adoptive parents have a thousand ways cannot be written off in one fell swoop is that they raised Sun Zhuo very well. So much so that after Sun Haiyang took his son away, he still had a sense of relief in his heart.
Grandma gave Sun Zhuo 5 New Year gifts, and Sun Zhuo was touched
This year's Spring Festival, it can be said that some people are happy and some people are sad, on the one hand, the family of adoptive parents is crying, and the children who have raised it for so long say that they will leave, and they are really a little unaccustomed to it for a while, not to mention that it is their own heart and liver!
On the other side is the family reunion of the Sun family, and the reunion after the reunion is also a fortunate thing in life. Therefore, Sun Haiyang took his family back to his hometown in the countryside early.
Maybe it was because of motion sickness, or maybe Sun Zhuo's memory of his grandmother was still shallow, and he didn't show great happiness when he saw his grandmother's first reaction, and he even felt a little frustrated.
Even so, Grandma's enthusiasm was not affected in any way, and she trembled from the room and took out 5 New Year's gifts specially prepared for Sun Zhuo: woolly slippers, towels and other daily necessities.
Although these gifts are not worth much, they are full of grandma's care and love for her eldest grandson. You must know that in the process of looking for Sun Zhuo, Grandma did her best and did not care about her dignity.
Moreover, because of the same blood flowing in the body, the family still quickly warmed up, and although Sun Zhuo could not stick to his grandmother like when he was a child, he used his own way to ask for warmth and care for his grandmother.
There are thousands of abducted children, and there are too few people who are as happy as Sun Zhuo
The search for abducted children is time-consuming and laborious
The first time they find their child lost, parents will desperately look for their child. Even the most ruthless parents will not let go of any corner.
But, over time, there are few parents left who can consistently stick to the end. On the one hand, because they have gradually accepted this fact, no matter how hard they try, it is difficult to reverse the fact.
On the other hand, finding children is really a time-consuming and laborious task. Even the police can't do the due diligence of their parents, and if the parents do it themselves, they will inevitably delay their work and normal life.
In this way, it is difficult to support this behavior without a very solid family situation. This is probably the main reason why most parents choose to give up!
Even if it is a lost and regained child, there will be a gap
In addition, after a long time, some parents will still have such concerns, even if they find a child, so they will not live together, can they still get along like normal family members? What if the child resents himself? What if the child learns badly?
These concerns will flood the minds of parents. After all, the growth of children needs the company of parents, and once the lack creates a shadow, it is difficult to be easily smoothed.
Therefore, some children cannot return to their biological parents, and there is a great relationship with their parents' voluntary abandonment!
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