"Why did you abandon me in the first place?" But I don't care now, I only adopted my parents who grew up. To thank you for giving me life, I can give you 10,000 and never want to see you again. ”
When Yongfang said these words, her heart was actually bleeding, although she said that she didn't care about the past, but as long as she remembered what happened to herself, she could never get out of the shadow of the past.
Why did Yongfang hate his biological parents so much? Isn't meeting your biological parents the most desired thing in the hearts of many children who have been separated from their loved ones for many years?
All of this has happened many years ago.
01
At that time, many people's thinking was very feudal, and Yongfang's parents were no exception, and for boys and girls, they valued boys more. After they got married, they gave birth to two daughters in a row, and in order to have a son, Yongfang's parents sent her two sisters to people.
Perhaps in the hearts of Yongfang's parents, Yi Zhun decided that the next child must be a boy, so they had great expectations for the third child.
But life is so impermanent, often the more demanding you are, the more you don't get it.
Yongfang's mother easily survived the October pregnancy again, hoping that this fetus could give birth to a son, and as a result, after Yongfang was born, they were really disappointed when they saw that they were another daughter.
The three children in a row are daughters, which is really a heavy blow to Yongfang's parents, but they still don't want to admit defeat, that is, they don't believe that they can't give birth to a son.
So, they were ready to throw away their newborn daughter Yongfang to see if any well-wishers could pick them up and adopt them. Just as they were about to throw Yongfang away, their relatives knew about it and said they wanted to adopt Yongfang, which was exactly what Yongfang's parents couldn't ask for.
In this way, Yongfang left her biological parents at birth and came to her adoptive parents' house.
02
After Yongfang was sent by her parents, she finally gave birth to a son, and there were boys in the family who had been passed down from generation to generation, and their hearts had long forgotten their three daughters.
Among the three daughters, Yongfang is the luckiest, because her adoptive parents are particularly kind to her, and the whole family regards her as a treasure in the palm of her hand, and she has never suffered any hardships since she was a child.
The most gratifying thing is that Yongfang is also very sensible and hardworking, when she was in elementary school, her adoptive parents told her about her origins, because there was always discussion around her, in order not to let her think wildly, her adoptive parents told her everything truthfully, and also encouraged her to study hard and grow up to be a person with a career.
Yongfang is an active girl, from primary school to high school, her grades have been very good, and finally admitted to a key university, after graduation and a good job.
Yongfang is a good girl who is grateful and grateful, after she worked to earn money, in order to thank her adoptive parents for their nurturing grace, she bought a new house for her adoptive parents to make them live more spacious and comfortable.
Everything Yongfang did made the adoptive parents very happy, they praised their daughters for how filial to them, and the neighbors around them were also envious of them.
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For her own biological parents, for so many years, Yongfang has never mentioned it to her adoptive parents, in her heart, her biological parents are hidden in her heart that can never be erased, but this pain has been torn apart again after more than 20 years, and it is also torn apart by her biological parents who she least wants to see.
On that day, the biological parents suddenly came to the house to recognize the relatives, and later Yongfang learned that it was they who learned from others that she was now very successful, not only made more money, but also bought a house for her adoptive parents, so they wanted to recognize her back.
In the face of her biological parents, Yongfang did not have a hint of surprise, but a hint of disgust in her heart, and when she heard them say that they wanted to recognize her daughter, she shook her head firmly and coldly said the words at the beginning of the article.
Maybe seeing this, some people will say that Yongfang's heart is too cruel, after all, it is his own biological parents, and it is too hurtful to say such words.
But I think it is also understandable that Yongfang did this, because for a child who was abandoned by his parents at birth, no one can empathize with the pain in his heart.
Besides, Sheng En was always not as big as Yang En, and it was not easy for her adoptive parents to accept Yongfang and carefully cultivate her to grow up.
Therefore, Yongfang's efforts to repay his adoptive parents are commendable.
However, I think Yongfang should also try to forgive her biological parents for what they did, because if they can't let go, they will never be able to get out of the pain of the past.
Of course, if you really can't forgive the other party, then don't complain to them in your heart, only by letting go of the hatred in your heart can you make yourself easier and happier, right?
04
I once read such a sentence, very touched:
"In life, grievances, troubles, and bitterness are inevitable, and the important thing is that you have to turn over, because pushing through the dark wall, there is still a sunny day on the other side."
Yes, no one's life is smooth sailing, and everyone's life may encounter all kinds of unexpected things.
Yongfang is unfortunate, but she is also lucky, because she met two kind and visionary adoptive parents after being abandoned, which will make her have a happier life.