Mother-in-law with baby, wife spent 100,000 a year to be scolded, wife: you raise your brother's family, my adoptive parents, fair

Yishu wrote in "City Story", men, when you ask a woman to be like a woman, ask yourself how many images of men there are.

In marriage, when a man is not like a man, what is the point of asking a woman to be like a woman? Men themselves do not have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, how to ask women to have responsibility and responsibility?

But now people are double-standard. You can do it yourself, but you don't allow your wife to do the same, and you can learn from it. As Yan Rujing said: Patience in marriage has a time limit, forbearance for a while is called calm wind and waves, forbearance for a lifetime, all rely on fate.

For women, marriages supported by tolerance will collapse sooner or later, because no one will tolerate a person for a lifetime without complaint.

01, the mother-in-law who is tired of skills, volunteered to help with the child

Netizen Qiu Ting (pseudonym), after her parents helped pull the child to the age of 6, she kept shouting that her mother-in-law, who was tired and in poor health, actually volunteered to help with the child.

Qiu Ting was flattered, and her mother-in-law took the initiative to help, but for the first time. You know, in the past, every time Qiu Ting asked for help from her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law refused without saying a word, saying that she wanted to help her eldest son with her children.

Even if Qiu Ting gave birth to a child and sat in confinement, the mother-in-law only came to visit once, and then threw Qiu Ting and the child all to Qiu Ting's parents, patted her own ass and left, and also called it beautifully: who gives birth to a daughter who serves, the daughter is confined, or the biological parents have to serve intimately.

Therefore, now that her mother-in-law had volunteered to help, Qiu Ting felt more surprise than joy. After all, her sons are 6 years old, and the most difficult years are the mother-in-law who she and her parents have been surviving, and they are not qualified to share these credits again.

But the husband is very useful, ah, his parents finally opened the trick, which makes the husband who has been deeply involved in the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, left and right, is simply happy to blossom. But all this bitter Qiu Ting.

02, the mother-in-law with the child, the daughter-in-law spent 100,000 a year to be scolded

Parents in her home with children, with good, watching the children go to primary school, parents can also rest at ease to recuperate for the elderly. As a result, the mother-in-law came to cut off her beard and rushed to stay at her son's house, which made Qiu Ting very angry.

But no matter how angry she was, she couldn't justifiably drive away her mother-in-law. What's more, the mother-in-law came to her house to retire, while the brother-in-law's family was at ease to enjoy the money poverty alleviation of her brother.

When she first got married, Qiu Ting asked her husband for a salary card, but her husband has been unwilling to give it, saying that men must also have some of their own private money, otherwise they will lose face when socializing with friends. Qiu Ting didn't think much of it and agreed.

But who knows, the husband's money is not used for socializing, but secretly stuffed to the brother-in-law to buy a house, and it is 300,000 yuan. If it were not for Qiu Ting's father's acute illness and needing money, Qiu Ting would still be in the dark.

After that, her husband also explained many times that it was his own hard money, and he would give it to whomever he loved, and Qiu Ting should not interfere. The mother-in-law is also partial to her son, saying that Qiu Ting should not stir up the feelings of their brothers, the brother bought a house, the younger brother paid 300,000, is this not a very normal thing? Why should Qiu Ting go online and make a fuss?

Qiu Ting alone said that she could not do her husband and mother-in-law, but since then, she has asked for a husband and wife AA system, and she will never do much work. As for the in-laws' sick pension, she neither intervenes nor pays for it.

03, wife: you spend 300,000 yuan to buy a house for your brother, I spend 100,000 adoptive parents, very fair

In order to keep her property, Qiu Ting even gave her salary card to her parents for safekeeping, leaving only a small amount of living expenses to maintain her daily life. Knowing that Qiu Ting spent 100,000 yuan a year for her parents-in-law, her husband was extremely angry and scolded Qiu Ting for being a loser.

Her husband's anger, in Qiu Ting's opinion, was particularly ridiculous. This is a typical double standard, only allowing yourself to spend money to raise parents and brothers, but not allowing your wife to spend money to support your parents.

Qiu Ting told her husband directly: You spend 300,000 yuan to buy a house for your brother, I spend 100,000 adoptive parents, it is very fair, no one should blame anyone. Anyway, we are both husband and wife AA system, whose parents who manage, whose family and who help the poor.

The husband was immediately irritated, because since he gave his brother-in-law 300,000 yuan to buy a house, the husband had no savings in his hands. But the in-laws are old, every three to five years to pay for medical treatment and medicine, and his brother and sister-in-law also cry every three to five poor and ask her husband to help subsidize the mortgage.

Qiu Ting, who learned of her husband's predicament, did not lend a helping hand. Because she has long understood a truth, when you can't change a man's foolish nature, then you have to do more ruthlessly and ruthlessly than he does. Only in this way will he know how to compare heart to heart.

But her husband's anger obviously did not make him wake up, but it was caused by Qiu Ting's selfishness. Qiu Ting was unwilling to argue and proposed a divorce, but her husband kept dragging his feet and not signing, saying that his life was not good, and Qiu Ting's life did not want to be better.

Parents persuade Qiu Ting to compromise for the sake of the child, but Qiu Ting does not want to indulge her husband anymore, but she does not compromise, and her husband is cold at home, and the last most hurt is always the child.

Today's Topic:

Do you support Qiu Ting's money to help her husband help her husband's family?