Many people say that parents love their children, and they have a profound plan for it. In this world, parents who love their children abound. But there are also some parents who have not fulfilled their accusations of parenthood.
For his own pleasure, he abandoned his husband and son, and when he fell ill in his old age, he relied on his son and asked his son to give him a pension and send him to the end. Such parents do not deserve filial piety and respect from their children.
As the saying goes, the more kind a parent is, the more filial the child. The less kind the parents are, the less filial the children are. If parents want their children to fulfill their duties and responsibilities as children, then they should first assume their own responsibilities as parents.
01. The mother-in-law abandoned her husband and abandoned her son and remarried for 20 years
Qiu Ting, who grew up in a warm, parent-loved family, did not expect that the mother-in-law who abandoned her husband and abandoned her son 20 years ago and remarried was actually driven away after she fell ill in her old age, but brazenly came to the door to ask her son to retire and treat the disease.
Qiu Ting and her husband have been married for 5 years, and in the past 5 years, the couple has also suffered a lot. Because the husband's family is generally poor, his parents have long been divorced. At that time, the mother-in-law hated her father-in-law's incompetence and could not earn a lot of money, so she divorced after leaving her husband and children and remarried to someone else.
And the mother-in-law remarried like this, that is, 20 years. During this period, the mother-in-law did not come back to see her husband, and she did not give a penny of child support. For the mother-in-law, the husband's son has long been forgotten by her.
It is the father-in-law alone, and the father and the mother pull the husband. For this reason, the father-in-law has not remarried, because he is worried that the stepmother will not treat his son kindly. Divorce, the mother remarried, the blow to the husband is not small, he does not want his son to bear the pain of losing his father.
My father-in-law has also said that he has done it, and he has been single for so many years. When he gave up his husband to marry his daughter-in-law in college, his father-in-law himself died of illness. Whenever I think of my father-in-law who has been diligent and earnest all his life, but has not enjoyed the blessings of his son for a day, his husband often has red eyes and cannot let go for a long time.
02, the mother-in-law fell ill in her old age and was driven to her son
I thought that after sending my father-in-law away, Qiu Ting and her husband's life would slowly get better. But no one expected that in the fifth year of their marriage, the mother-in-law, who had disappeared long ago, came back with a full body of illness.
I don't know where the mother-in-law learned the contact information, the mother-in-law successfully found them, as soon as she saw her husband, she cried, saying that her life was too bitter. It was hard to abandon her husband and son and remarry a rich man, but no one expected that as soon as the other party died, his children would divide all the property, and she did not take any advantage.
The mother-in-law still complained there, saying that when she first remarried, she was forced to do so. She was unable to bear the pain of suffering from sin and poverty, and she had been married to the other party for 20 years, but she had never been able to have a son and a half daughter.
Because the other party did not agree, saying that she only needed to help pull the eldest three children. Since then, the mother-in-law has become a free nanny for the old wife's family. He worked hard to help him with the housework and pulled the eldest three children. But when the children grew up, their wings hardened, and they did not accept her affection at all, but instead thought that she was here to divide their family property, and they squeezed and disliked her. Now that her wife has died, she herself is sick, and her husband's sons have thrown her out of the house and asked her to find her own son for medical treatment.
The mother-in-law is homeless and can only come back to find her son. But the mother-in-law's crying did not get the sympathy of her husband. Because whether it is Qiu Ting or her husband, they all agree that this is the fate of the mother-in-law's self-inflicted wounds and feeling poor and loving the rich.
For the sake of mother and son, the husband finally took in his mother-in-law and let her mother-in-law live at home. But no one expected that the mother-in-law would have to make more excessive demands.
03, the mother-in-law asked her son to sell the house to treat her
After living in his son's house for a month, the mother-in-law's condition recurred again. And the mother-in-law with a strong desire to survive directly proposed to her husband, son, I am sick now, and the doctor also said that there is no 300,000, and it is not good to cure. You are my son, and you have an obligation to heal me. Sell the house to heal me.
The mother-in-law's unreasonable request made her husband a little angry, and Qiu Ting was a little speechless when she listened. The mother-in-law is also too invisible, she has not raised her son for a day in 20 years, she was kicked out of the house, she kicked her nose in the face, and asked her son to raise money for her treatment unconditionally.
My husband clearly told her that I only had 50,000 yuan in hand, and 50,000 yuan could cure your illness, even if it was to repay your kindness. As for selling a house to treat you for the elderly, don't even think about it, this house is my father's thrifty and life-saving.
The husband refused, and the mother-in-law cried and made a fuss in the ward, and shouted to others that her son was a white-eyed wolf and ungrateful. Listening to her mother-in-law's crying, Qiu Ting felt that she and her husband had really encountered a tricky thing.
The mother-in-law is like their baggage, can not be thrown off, can not be driven away, the other party put on a clear posture, that is, to eat the husband, ask the husband to sell her house for treatment and pension, otherwise she will make everyone unable to live in peace.
Looking at the mother-in-law who was messing around, Qiu Ting and her husband lost for the first time. But the husband never compromised, he directly told his mother-in-law, you make trouble with you, I do mine, and when this mother-son grace information is completed, we will have nothing to do with each other and do not owe each other.
Hearing her husband's harsh words, the mother-in-law stopped for a while. It's just that she still ruins her son's reputation outside, and when she comes to visit her relatives and friends, she says that her son is not filial piety and refuses to take money to treat her illness, so that she can wait for death.
The mother-in-law's nonsense did not affect the husband. He is doing his duty, but sooner or later this duty will be exhausted. At that time, what should the mother-in-law use to pinch her son?
Today's Topic:
Do you support Qiu Ting's husband to throw up his hands and ignore his mother-in-law?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!