Colleague Xiao Dong resigned, the leader let him go before doing an experience sharing, please let him sort out what he learned and work experience, Xiao Dong is a serious person, working overtime for several days are writing the plan of the sharing meeting, the day before the sharing meeting, we just happened to work overtime together and at the same time to complete the shift, I invited him to supper at the cost of watching his sharing rehearsal in advance.
The first part is my own learning and work process, the second part is easy to ignore the home inspection work tips, the last part of the content is "the most impressive home inspection case", a rehearsal to see down, the last part is also let me "the most impressed", because in that case, there is neither a technical problem to overcome, nor a difficult customer, may be purely related to human nature, but also reminds Xiao Dong of his mother.
The house in the case is located in an old community, and the reception of Xiao Dong is a young couple, Zheng Gang and Fang Hui, and it is Zheng Gang who contacts Xiao Dong. The house is Zheng Gang's parents, Zheng Gang said that his parents are not in good health, have been hospitalized for a period of time, and are considering whether to sell the house to go to the nursing home, so first find someone to inspect and value the house. Xiao Dong left a heart eye, because it is not uncommon for the son to deal with the property without his parents, and the traces of life in this house are not like they have been vacant for a while, and there is also a yellowed old teacup on the coffee table, which clearly has the tea of the day, but he is not embarrassed to tear it down in person, so Xiao Dong said that the work regulations are that the owner of the real estate certificate is required to be present, if the owner is not there today, then withdraw first. Zheng Gang did not stop him and politely sent him away.
The second time was Xiao Dong contacted by Fang Hui, after confirming that the head of the household, Aunt Wang, was present, Xiao Dong came to the house again, this time It was Fang Hui and Aunt Wang who were there, and Zheng Gang's father and son were not there. Aunt Wang first said sorry to Xiao Dong, let him run in vain last time, and then briefly explained the causes and consequences.
Aunt Wang wanted to divorce, wanted to ask her son Zheng Gang's opinion before proposing it to her husband Lao Zheng, did not expect that her son was very opposed, but Aunt Wang was very insistent, and her son said to find someone to evaluate the house and property first, because Old Zheng did not know this matter, so Zheng Gang let Aunt Wang open her husband, did not expect that the test was not completed, and then the son shirked and did not have time, so let the daughter-in-law Fang Hui help and then contact Xiao Dong.
Fang Hui is to support the mother-in-law's decision, and the father-in-law married for decades, the family's three meals a day are done by her, the housework is done by her, Fang Hui has never seen her father-in-law work, but often criticizes the mother-in-law. The income of the in-laws is almost the same, but the life is basically spent separately, the father-in-law has not handed in the salary card, the son's tuition and living expenses from childhood to adulthood are also with the mother-in-law, and even when they get married, the down payment of the house is also their own mother-in-law and the mother-in-law to help together, the father-in-law said that it is a package of home appliances and decoration, but it was originally a hardcover house, the decoration did not use too much money, and most of the home appliances were bought by Zheng Gang and his wife. The mother-in-law is very simple, but as long as she buys clothes and goes home, her father-in-law will say that she spends money indiscriminately, but she has uncontrolled to find some "collectibles", what jade, wood carving, bronze, ancient money, stamps, etc., all kinds of things, spent a lot of money, but also said no.
Some time ago, Aunt Wang's good sister passed away, which made Aunt Wang think a lot, and after careful consideration, she decided to divorce and live her own life for a few years. Son Zheng Gang does not want his parents to divorce, but daughter-in-law Fang Hui is very understanding, she thinks that the mother-in-law is particularly reasonable, there is no interference in their lives after marriage, there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and often educates his son to be good to his wife, not just talk, to give her a salary card, to give her a sense of security, this family is the two of you, things must be done together." ”
Halfway through the inspection, Aunt Wang went out to buy vegetables, Zheng Gang came, and Fang Hui talked in the living room, there were a few disputes that were louder, Xiao Dong heard it, and also shattered his three views: "My father is so difficult to engage, if it is divorced, who will take care of him?" Do you and I not go to work? We will still have children in the future, who has the energy to take care of him, to find a babysitter? In case a stepmother comes, it's a bunch of troublesome things, have you thought about these problems? ”
Fang Hui answered very quietly, probably afraid that Xiao Dong, an outsider, heard, and then there was a heavy closing sound, and then Xiao Dong waited for a few minutes before leaving the room, Aunt Wang had not returned, Xiao Dong sorted out the tool kit, explained a few small problems of the house, and said goodbye to Fang Hui.
On the way back to work, he called his mother, who asked him if he was unhappy at work, and he said that it was nothing, just thinking of her.
Xiao Dong said that he was from a single-parent family, his father often went out when he was a child, it was not common, it was said that he was working, but he did not take a penny to the family, nor did he bring him gifts, the longest time at home, that is, his mother said to divorce, and his father refused, on the grounds that he believed: "No one can take care of him at home." Mom said, "You haven't taken care of it, so why let me take care of it alone?" Dad said, "Son stay, you go." The mother said, "You are also throwing your son to your father, you are an unfilial dog thing!" In the end, Grandma helped her mother take Xiao Dong away, and when she left, she stuffed a little money for her mother, and it was not until a few years ago that she returned to her hometown to formally get a divorce.
After telling this story, Xiao Dong finally sublimated the theme, he said: "Because I have talked about a lot of home inspections earlier, I finally shared a case that has nothing to do with house inspections, but it has a big impact on me, and this feeling is also a very important gain in my work experience." The house is often the most valuable property of ordinary families, so in the handling of the house, it is always possible to implicate the most naked humanity, fortunately, Aunt Wang in this case, finally divorced and started her own life with the support of her own insistence and daughter-in-law, and I am glad that my mother chose her own life when she was younger, with the support of her own insistence and my grandmother, and I will start my new life next, I hope that everyone has the courage to start a new life. ”
At the end of the rehearsal, I contributed a single round of applause. Xiao Dong was still a little embarrassed, and I said it was very good.
There is nothing new under the sun, today's story ends here, I hope everyone has courage, has always had courage.