Qi Li, female, Han ethnicity, born in November 1976, mass, state grid Jiangxi Electric Power Co., Ltd. Pengze County power supply branch employees.
This simple woman, with a kind heart, illuminated the blind mother-in-law 9150 days and nights. During the period, he had three surgeries on the bulge of the waist disc, and did not interrupt the careful care and companionship of his mother-in-law, so that the elderly were not lonely at home and were very proud to go out. In life, she interpreted the "filial piety" with bits and pieces, and used diligence, virtuousness and kindness to summon up her in-laws' courage and confidence in life. Her deeds were widely talked about by neighbors and praised by colleagues as "the most beautiful daughter-in-law".
Uncles and aunts
I'll be your crutch from now on
In 1994, she was assigned to work in the Human Resources Department of the County Power Supply Bureau. One day, on the company stairs, she was carrying a boiling water bottle to the conference room, suddenly felt a light in her hand, "Let me help you lift it", she looked back at a young and handsome young man, helped her carry the boiling water bottle to the conference room, arranged the venue, her heart moved, this is a thoughtful, diligent young man. Subsequently, at the company's youth party, he met this young man again, and established a romantic relationship after a period of contact and mutual understanding.
However, the good times did not last long, and soon after, the boyfriend's parents were blind in both eyes, and life was completely unable to take care of themselves. The boyfriend, who was originally full of beautiful expectations for life, was caught off guard, and suddenly fell into an unprecedented pain and haze, and he was at a loss for how to arrange the future life of the two elderly people.
At this time, Qi Li has made a marriage contract with her boyfriend, and after hearing about this, her relatives and friends around her have advised her not to marry, saying that it is jumping into the fire pit, and the boyfriend has also proposed to break up, afraid of affecting her. In the face of this cruel reality, she also hesitated, thinking of her boyfriend's thoughtfulness and love for herself in her daily work and life, she resolutely walked into her boyfriend's house.
The two old people who were wiping tears at home and worried about their son's marriage heard Qi Li's footsteps, quickly got up and greeted, looking at the complex expressions of the two old men, Qi Li said to the two old men in a firm and powerful voice: "Uncle, aunt, you don't have any worries, it doesn't matter if you can't see it, since I entered this door, I will be your crutch in the future."
"Choosing to leave when they need it most is not my nature as a human being." In the face of the blind old man, Qi Li did not choose to escape. In 1996, she married her husband and took on the responsibility of the family with her kindness.
Take good care of your mother-in-law
25 years as a day
Since marriage, Qi Li has developed a habit of getting up at five o'clock every morning, cleaning the courtyard, pouring potty and potty pots for the elderly, washing and making breakfast, serving the elderly to eat, and then hurrying to go to work. At noon, she could have eaten in her parents' home or company canteen nearby, but in order to let the elderly eat hot meals and hot dishes, she bought a motorcycle, against the summer sun like fire, facing the autumn rain and winter snow, three or four kilometers round trip to cook for the elderly. When there is something going on outside, bring food outside for the old man to eat.
When the father-in-law was alive, he was old and weak, his body self-control ability was extremely poor, he often urinated and urinated incontinence, and in the face of disgusting filth, Qi Li did not complain half a word, and always did not hesitate to help his father-in-law scrub his body and wash his clothes and pants that were stained with dirt.
At that time, her father-in-law suffered from high blood pressure, and her eyes could not see clearly, so she had to dispense the antihypertensive drugs on time every day, pour the boiling water well, and when it was not hot, personally hand it to her father-in-law, and urge him to take the medicine in time until his father-in-law died in 2009.
After the mother-in-law became blind, her personality became extremely irritable, emotionally unstable, suspicious, and often angry and tantrum with her family for some trivial things and unintentional words. At this time, Qi Li always sat by her side and spoke softly with the old man, listened carefully to the unhappiness in her heart, constantly said good words and comforted, and tried everything to make the old man calm and happy. "Sometimes I understand her, my eyes can't see clearly, and I am sullen in the room alone, so I help her around, bask in the sun, breathe in the fresh air, accompany her to nag, and try to make her happy."
In order to expand the scope of her mother-in-law's daily life, Qi Li asked her husband to weld a handrail along the wall, from the room to the main entrance and the bathroom. In this way, when she goes to work, her mother-in-law can move her body every day by holding the railing, and she can also go to the door to sit on a fixed chair and bask in the sun.
"Since the installation of the handrail railing, she will walk on the railing for an hour or two every day, not only to exercise, but also to talk when neighbors come and go, to relieve boredom," Qi Li said. Since the installation of the handrail, the mother-in-law's personality has become more and more cheerful.
Such a good daughter-in-law
It is a blessing that I have cultivated in my previous life
Speaking of her relationship with her daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law, who is more than 80 years old, smiled and closed her mouth. Although she had never seen Qi Li look like this, she could feel that her daughter-in-law was the most beautiful, she was industrious and virtuous, and she had the kindest heart under the heavens.
"Although when I married, my mother-in-law's eyes could not see, she was my husband's mother, my mother. Besides, I used to give so much for this family, but now I can't see clearly, and I said that if I want to be her crutch, I have the responsibility to take care of her," Qi Li said.
Every New Year's Festival, for the sake of the old man's happiness, Qi Li always spares no effort, prepares wine and dishes, calls the brothers and sisters to the home, eats a meal, has a meal, talks with the old man, and lets the old man enjoy the joy of the world. When she had time, she would read newspapers to the old man and tell about the new things that happened outside.
Due to long-term labor, Qi Li suffered from severe disc herniation, and even in the case of pain attacks, she never rested for a day because of pain and stopped taking care of the elderly. After 25 years of meticulous care, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along very well, and the feelings are better than those of mother and daughter.
Nowadays, the mother-in-law has long been accustomed to Qi Li's care and companionship, and she is not lonely when she has her daughter-in-law at home, and she is not afraid to go out with her daughter-in-law. "Meeting such a good daughter-in-law is a blessing that I have cultivated in my previous life, and without her care, I really don't know how to live." Qi Li's mother-in-law praised her daughter-in-law's goodness every time.
Now that you have chosen
I'm going to stick with it
One early morning in September 2020, the old man suddenly suffered a stroke and was delirious, and no one knew anyone, but the only thing she remembered was Qi Li's name, Qi Li's voice.
Completely paralyzed in bed, Qi Li waited for her to add greater difficulty. Every morning to help the old man wash his face, rinse his mouth, and when the old man does not cooperate, Qi Li is always like a child, saying one good word after another, trying to coax the old man by all means. The hardest part is helping the elderly defecate, scrub their bodies, and change their clothes. The old man weighs 140 pounds and refuses to let others touch her, and Qi Li, who suffers from severe intervertebral disc herniation, always has a hard time lifting her mother-in-law out of bed. Seeing Qi Li so hard, the husband was distressed, invited the nurse to come back, but the old man just did not buy it, one by one Qi Li shouted, refused to eat, sleep, did not cooperate with anything, until he heard Qi Li's voice, only quiet.
Although it was very hard, Qi Li never cried bitterly and tired. In the unit, she always treats the work seriously, carefully, high-quality and strict requirements, and has never delayed her work due to family reasons, and there has never been a mistake in the "five insurances and one gold", medical insurance reporting, employee retirement procedures and other work of more than 400 people in the company. At home, feed your mother-in-law, chat with her, and help her rub her legs to eliminate puffiness. At night, in order to better take care of her mother-in-law, she slept in a small room opposite the door with her mother-in-law, and did not close the door at night, so that it was convenient to serve the elderly in the middle of the night. When the mother-in-law is difficult to solve the stool, wear a mask and wear disposable gloves to help the elderly solve.
"It's not difficult to say it's a lie, but since I promised my mother-in-law that I was her crutch, I won't regret it and will definitely do it to the end."
"If you marry a daughter-in-law, you must marry Qi Li." At the moment, this is the most popular mantra of the old people of Pengze. Qi Li, this ordinary and ordinary little girl, with a hot heart, did her best to care for the blind in-laws. 25 years as a day, not abandoned, no complaints, no regrets, with love, care, patience to serve the mother-in-law, with kindness and love to set up a good example of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the new era, invisibly educating and influencing the younger generation.
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