The woman gave birth to 6 daughters in a row, and was also required to give birth to a son, and the lawsuit for divorce was rejected, netizens: Go home and continue to give birth

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Recently, a court judgment has sparked heated discussions.

A woman (Xiong) in Hunan who gave birth to six daughters in a row was asked by her husband to continue to have sons, and her appeal for divorce was rejected, and the court also sent her a "family education order".

According to the information learned by the news, Xiong and her husband had given birth to 4 daughters before receiving the certificate.

(News source: @澎湃新闻)

After registering the marriage, because her husband asked to have a son, Xiong could only choose to continue to have children and fulfill her husband's wish as much as possible.

But after marriage, Ms. Xiong gave birth to twin daughters, and the husband was of course dissatisfied and asked Xiong to continue to give birth until he gave birth to a son.

Xiong's obsession with her husband giving birth to a son was really unbearable.

Because of several years of continuous childbirth, it has brought great pain to her body.

She tried to communicate with her husband, but his patriarchal mentality was so ingrained that she could no longer accept it and could no longer tolerate his use of her as a fertility machine.

In 2019, she chose to flee to her mother's house to hide, and this stay has been for nearly 4 years, during which she has not taken care of her 6 daughters or raised children again.

In June of this year, she filed for divorce on the grounds of the breakdown of the couple's relationship, but the court, after investigation, rejected her request for divorce.

The reason is that the court found that the two had a total of 6 children after investigation, and there was no breakdown of the relationship.

In addition, the court issued a home education order to Ms. Xiong, requiring Ms. Xiong to take on her responsibilities as a wife and mother.

This verdict made netizens talk about it.

Some people feel that the judge's education order is aimed at the mother to the child, which is reasonable, after all, she wants her to teach the next generation well.

But more people think: this is to send her back to hell!

"Having 6 children in a row, what time does she take to earn money and pay alimony."

"I have to continue to have a son this time."

"In recent years, there are still people who prefer sons to girls, shouldn't it be a man's problem to give birth to boys and girls?"

"Shouldn't patriarchal husbands educate them?"

Yes, the woman has a problem, even if she wants to divorce, as a mother she cannot ignore her children.

But even more problematic is the patriarchal husband, the husband who wants his wife to desperately give birth to a son, who needs education the most.

Because in patriarchal families, women and children are always the biggest victims.

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"Because I gave birth to a daughter, I don't want to marry her name"

Today, there are still many patriarchal families.

And in patriarchal families, the situation for women is really very difficult.

A while ago, there was a hot search news: the woman gave birth to 3 daughters in a row, and the wife and mother-in-law only looked at it and left.

There was a lot of discomfort in the pregnancy in October, and once she gave birth, she stepped into the ghost door with half a foot, and the mother-in-law and husband who left the delivery room had such an attitude.

Watching the woman lying on the bed collapsed and crying, it was really infuriating and distressing.

But she is far more than the only one who has had such a heartbreaking experience.

There was a woman whose mother-in-law had been ignoring her after learning that she was pregnant with a daughter, and her husband did nothing.

In the man's family, only her grandmother took care of her and bought her meat to supplement her body.

After giving birth to her daughter, the whole family ignored it, only the grandmother did not dislike her for giving birth to a daughter.

In desperation, she went out of confinement to apply for divorce.

There is also a man, because his wife gave birth to a daughter, he posted in the circle of friends: I can't stay in the hospital for a moment, I am very angry, give birth to a daughter.

The wife suffered for a day at the ghost gate, and in exchange for a sentence from her husband: I don't want to marry my name.

In such a family, the wife who gives birth to a daughter is destined to suffer a blank eye, and a girl who is not expected is destined to live a difficult life!

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Can't give birth to boys

Women can't really be blamed

Biology classes say that the decision to have a boy or a girl depends primarily on the male.

But there are still many people who blame women for not being able to give birth to boys.

Some families even want to reincarnate a boy.

What pregnant mothers want to emphasize is: those folk "boys" rebirth pills and fetal pills are not only for wealth but also for life, don't believe it.

Let's take it seriously: for the gender of the baby, the probability of giving birth to a boy or a girl is the same for each pregnancy: 50% VS 50%.

Giving birth to a boy and a girl is like an XY race.

X outperforms is the girl.

Y outperforms is the boy.

Because of the 23 pairs of chromosomes, there is 1 pair of chromosomes, called sex chromosomes, which determine the sex of the person.

If it is XX chromosome, it is female.

If it's an XY chromosome, it's male.

In the natural state, how chromosomes combine is random, and once the fertilized egg combines, new life begins.

Therefore, giving birth to a boy and a girl decided as early as the moment the fertilized egg was formed, and it can be said that it is impossible to forcibly reverse the X chromosome of the fetus through intervention.

Secondly, it should be emphasized that only men can produce two types of sperm: one containing the X chromosome and one containing the Y chromosome; Females, on the other hand, can only produce eggs containing X chromosomes.

During fertilization, if the egg combines with sperm containing X chromosomes, it is a girl; If the egg combines with sperm containing the Y chromosome, it is a boy.

Therefore, giving birth to boys and girls is decided by boys, and mothers cannot be blamed for not giving birth to boys.

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Patriarchal

It hurts everyone in the family

Really, ignorant patriarchal thinking should be over.

Too many examples tell us that son preference has hurt many women and children, and destroyed countless families.

Those women who marry into patriarchal families, in order to fulfill the man's family's wish for a son, some have had multiple abortions, and some even induced labor in large months.

Don't believe what painless abortion advertised in the advertisement, the harm of abortion to the body is beyond our imagination.

Those daughters who are born into patriarchal families are born as unwanted children.

Because they are not expected, they have not enjoyed the complete love in the family, and they have to suffer grievances, and children who grow up in such a family are sensitive and aggrieved.

There are girls who want to stay away from the so-called family, but they are afraid that they will be lonely doctors.

There are girls who are trembling and worried that they will be swept out, so they work hard and break in, just to have their own house as soon as possible, and no longer have to worry about being swept out.

In order to live as their parents imagined, some girls try to live like boys, thinking that their parents will like her more.

Every pair of patriarchal parents has personally pushed their daughter into the abyss, and they will never understand that their neglect and prejudice will be a lifelong pain in their daughter's heart.

And those boys who are loved in the palm of their hands really become talents as they wish, raising children to prevent old age?

The answer is not necessarily!

Remember the news a while ago? An 80-year-old grandfather walked to the service center on crutches to make a will and donate his property to his daughter.

Uncle said: In the past 22 years, the daughter has been busy taking care of her, and the son has hardly interacted with each other for 22 years, and the daughter accompanies and takes care of her when she is sick.

So, stop belittling girls because of those foolish ideas.

Let go of prejudice, boys and girls alike.

Whether it is to give birth to a boy or a girl, as long as it is a healthy baby, it is the heart of parents.

Every child, boy or girl, deserves to be expected.

Pregnant mothers wish every girl can be cherished, and may every child come in the expectation of parents and families!

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