Ms. Wang of Henan is 10 years apart from her husband, Mr. Yin, and both are remarried. However, in the nearly 20 years of time together, the two have experienced three marriages and two divorces.
When his wife wanted to divorce for the third time, Mr. Yin said, "I am 56 years old, and I have had enough of her over the years." She has said many times that she doesn't love me, that she's still young, that she can find someone younger than me, so fulfill her, and I'm willing to divorce her. ”
Recently, the Weidu District People's Court of Xuchang City, Henan Province, published the first-instance judgment of the case. The court held that Ms. Wang filed for divorce, but Mr. Yin did not agree to the divorce, and the relationship between the two did not break, and rejected Ms. Wang's divorce request.
The judgment shows that Ms. Wang and Mr. Yin are 10 years apart, and both of them are remarried and have a daughter after marriage. Around 2009, the two divorced by agreement, and the daughter was raised by Ms. Wang. Around 2012, the two remarried. In 2019, Ms. Wang and Mr. Yin agreed to divorce again, and the daughter was still raised by Ms. Wang. On January 27, 2021, Ms. Wang and Mr. Yin registered for remarriage. After the marriage, the two parties had conflicts over trivial matters in their lives, and Ms. Wang sued the court to request a divorce from Mr. Yin.
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Ms. Wang sued that due to the weak emotional foundation of the two parties, the hasty remarriage registration, after the remarriage found that it was still difficult for the two parties to establish a husband and wife relationship, Mr. Yin was angry for no reason, so that the two often quarreled over family trivia. "Mr. Yin has a violent personality, often speaks harshly to me, and repeatedly commits domestic violence against me."
She believes that since the remarriage, she has not experienced the love between husband and wife and the happiness of the family, can not live together, the two sides have been separated for a long time due to emotional discord, the husband and wife relationship exists in name only, and both parties are miserable to maintain such a husband and wife relationship.
In the face of his wife's third request for divorce, Mr. Yin said in his reply that Ms. Wang is a person with a strong personality, unwilling to suffer losses, and special calculations. In the nearly two decades that the two parties lived intermittently, even during the divorce, he bore most of the cost of Ms. Wang and her daughter's life and study. The so-called domestic violence also does not exist, there are verbal conflicts in family life, there have been hands-on pushing, but most of the injuries are him. "We divorced many times before and after that, she proposed it for her own benefit. In order to have a complete home, even if the other party has done something out of the ordinary, I have taken the initiative to remarry the other party. ”
Mr. Yin said that he is 56 years old and has been tossed by Ms. Wang enough over the years. "She's said many times that she doesn't love me, that she's still young, that she can find someone younger than me, so fulfill her." I am willing to divorce her, but she must return my old house (pre-marital property), and ask the court to rule not to give or give less to the plaintiff because of the plaintiff's dishonest behavior of maliciously transferring, maliciously hiding, and squandering the common family property. ”
The court held at first instance that the relationship between husband and wife is a legal relationship in which both husband and wife have mutual responsibilities and obligations, and an imprudent and unserious attitude towards the marriage relationship is neither advisable nor should it be supported by law and morality. In marriage and family life, both husband and wife should understand each other, tolerate each other and support each other, and both husband and wife should communicate diligently, understand and make concessions to each other and build a family together in an attitude of being responsible for the family. The plaintiff and lady sued for divorce, the defendant Mr. Yin did not agree to the divorce, and the evidence provided by Ms. Wang was insufficient to prove that the relationship between the two husbands and wives had indeed broken down, so the court did not support Ms. Wang's litigation claim. The first instance rejected the plaintiff, Ms. Wang's litigation claims.
Xiaoxiang Morning News reporter Zhou Lingru