Anchor read the classic, accompany you to say goodnight, hello friends, here is the lightning night reading, I am Wucheng County Rong Media Center anchor Ya Nan, today I want to share with you Tie Ning's article "Happiness is at this moment".
Happiness is here
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Visit a sick friend, talk about a lot of things from the past, and plan a lot of future things. She suddenly asked me, "What was your happiest moment?" ”
After thinking about it for half a day, there was no suitable answer.
At that time, I often took this problem to deal with others, whether it was a new friend or an old friend, when the conversation was smooth, I threw out this question coldly, of course, the answers were various. Some people say that the happiest moment is when the official enters the knighthood, after buying a house and a car, and the body is unharmed, some people say that the happiest time is when the parents are complete, the lover is safe, the children are happy, and the leaders are treated well...
All right, but none of them impressed me.
Until one day, I went to meet a writer friend, who was as zen as his article.
After three cups of tea, I couldn't help but continue to peddle the question, and he smiled and gave me an unexpected answer:
"The past things are too late to measure whether they are happy, the future things do not need to speculate whether they will be happy, I can think of the greatest happiness, is to enjoy the good tea in front of me, so that the moment of pleasant feeling more mellow." The people who talk to me in front of me are the source of my happiness. ”
I finally understood what daigo empowerment is.
There seem to be too many examples in life to argue this.
I once went abroad to participate in cultural exchanges and spent a lot of money to buy a very beautiful dress. Because I like it too much, I am reluctant to wear it, unless I attend an important meeting or when I need to show sincerity. The usage rate was so low that I slowly forgot that there was such a dress. When the seasons changed, my family helped me tidy up the closet, and I remembered. Dodging the washed sun, it's still straight, but the style is outdated. Carefully wrapping it up and continuing to put it in the bottom of the cabinet, recalling the initial liking for it, I couldn't help but sigh that those pleasures were all falling flowers.
When I was young, I used to like someone, and every drop, every smile made me have endless words to express. But he was always timid, carefully nestled those thoughts quietly in his heart, folded neatly, and fantasized that one day he would stand bravely in front of him, "fluttering" all shaken. Wait, wait, in the end, these emotions are like a seed, planted in the soil that cannot be based on the sun and lacks rain and dew, and can only rot in the airtight soil.
We all love to wait too much, stubbornly believing that there is never wrong with waiting, and that the good years are consumed by waiting one after another.
I didn't do what I wanted to do when I valued it most, and everything I thought I would reap in the future turned into small, astringent fruit. When tasting this sourness, the only thing we can do is blame ourselves: if I had worn that dress a few more times, if I had been brave enough to say to him... How happy that would be.
Everything in life has a shelf life. Those good wishes, if they are only cherished on the table of anticipation, then they can only accumulate dust in the years.
When we feel the bitterness in our mouths at this moment, we should cherish the happiness of the people in front of us.
About the Author
Tie Ning (born September 1957 in Beijing), a contemporary female writer, is currently a member of the 19th Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, the chairman of the China Federation of Literary and Art Circles, and the chairman of the Chinese Writers Association.
In 1980, the first collection of novels, Night Road, was published by Hundred Flowers Literary and Art Publishing House. In 1983, he won the National Award for Outstanding Short Story for "Oh, Fragrant Snow". In 2001, the novella "How Far Is Forever" won the second "Lu Xun Literature Award". On May 16, 2015, she was awarded the Chevalier de l'Ordre des Arts et des Lettres des Arts et des Beaux-Arts in Beijing, the first woman in the Chinese literary scene to receive this award.
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Ya Nan is the anchor of Wucheng County Rong Media Center.
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