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In his later years, the husband and wife became enemies, but it was really miserable in the world!

In his later years, the husband and wife became enemies, but it was really miserable in the world!

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As usual, conceive what to write in the study.

The quarrel upstairs drifted in through the window again, and the sunlight was just right, and their quarrel was particularly harsh.

The voice is very loud, dingding, they are speaking Hokkien, I don't understand what is being arguing specifically, the old lady's voice is very loud, listening to the voice I thought it was a middle-aged woman, the old man's voice was low and hoarse, indistinct, just listening to the voice should be seventy or eighty years old, and the health is not good, the steps are faltering.

I haven't seen the old man go out, moved to the island for a year, and never met the old man, not even in the elevator room. The old man would often turn on the TV very loudly, and just upstairs in our house, the sound of the TV came, which also caused me and my mother-in-law to complain one after another.

The old man's habits were not good, and on several occasions he poured leftovers from across the balcony, and the rice stains rubbed on the outer edge of our balcony, leaving stains that were ugly, smelly and difficult to clean. I reported to the property twice, but then considering the old man's age, I had to give up.

Bear with it, they often quarrel hoarsely, I'm afraid the old man is running out of time, how many years can he live? Let them make a fuss.

I don't understand the reason for every time they quarrel, although I have been in Xiamen for ten years, but I don't know anything about Hokkien, and I can understand a word "jia ben" is the limit. You say a word and I quarrel, usually the old lady's voice is thick, the old man is panting and fighting back, the old man's momentum is too weak, the place where we live is backer, quite quiet, their quarrel directly leads to the dog barking, chaotic, very noisy.

In the end, I finally understood what the old lady said: Why don't you die, you hurry up and die, I will be pure when you die, I hope you die.

As soon as this sentence was shouted, the old man no longer spoke.

Can he win the quarrel?

Walking trembling, panting, speaking to take three breaths, a little movement must be accompanied by heavy breathing, the use of "hoarseness" to describe him is the most appropriate, and his voice is low and hoarse. I haven't seen the old man, and I can tell what he looks like just by listening to the voice.

In his later years, the husband and wife became enemies, but it was really miserable in the world!

They quarrel too often, I have to come several times a month, my husband and I often chat about them behind their backs, upstairs quarrel, I send WeChat to my husband: upstairs they start again.

My husband lamented for the old man: I have lived most of my life, and it is really painful to be like this with the pillow person. What's the point of the old man being alive? Noisy every day, the old lady also looks forward to the death of the old man, and it is really miserable under the same roof.

I don't have much sympathy for the old man's situation: "Couples like them, such a miserable situation now, are the causes of the first half of their lives. In the first half of his life, the old man was strong and did not let the old lady have a good time, but now his body is not as good as before, and the old lady is naturally verbally attacked. What can the old man do? The wind and candle are old, and the body is so unhealthy that he has to rely on the old lady to serve, so he can only endure it. ”

I haven't seen their children, but parents like theirs who have such a bad relationship probably hide from them. Parents have become enemies, the relationship is too tense in later years, and the relationship with children will not be too good. The old man's situation is not too bad, the old lady is still willing to take care of him under the same roof, if he really does not miss the love of husband and wife, he will already ignore the old man.

What fruit is sown, what is the cause.

The old lady cursed and cursed on her mouth, the old man was physically weak, his hands were unrestrained, and he couldn't do anything, in the end, wasn't it still the old lady who bore everything? Scold a few words, quarrel a few words, let her go, she doesn't love him, doesn't have much feelings, and has to be kidnapped by morality to take care of him, how sad.

In his later years, the husband and wife became enemies, but it was really miserable in the world!

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My husband is very interesting, he sympathizes with the old man too much, and he brings in himself, half-joking: Will you do the same to me in your old age, and the two of us will not become like them. You are a few years younger than me, and your body will definitely be better than me in the future, and you will not wait for an opportunity to take revenge on me in the future.

I laughed it off and replied to him: That depends on how you treat me.

There is a saying between husband and wife that "young couples, old companions", but have you ever thought that only by treating each other kindly, in the old age, husband and wife will treat each other sincerely.

Everything is mutual, and the same is true between people, we are all exchanging our behavior for "virtue", you are good to others, others will also be good to you.

I don't believe that if the old man treats the old lady well when he is young, the two of them have a good relationship, and the old lady will still speak ill of the old man. People's hearts are made of flesh, and the marriage business in his later years has become a situation of "enemies", in the final analysis, it is caused by his misbehavior when he was young. The old lady has accumulated resentment for many years, and in her old age she still has to serve the old man, and the old man does not coax and quarrel with her, who can be in a good mood?

All the support and support in old age are cherished and cherished in youth.

All things have reincarnation, and as a human being, you should still pay attention to your own virtues, and don't do too many things that you shouldn't do when you are young.

Some people say that the current situation of marriage in China is: today you ignore my love, and when you are old, you will take care of yourself. When everyone is old, in fact, in the end, they have to rely not on their children, but on their companions.

Like our old man upstairs, the old dragon clock, he has to tremble and majesty when he walks, and he can't go downstairs all year round, what child is willing to take care of him by his side? Besides, the father of the previous generation habitually throws housework and children to his wife, his relationship with his children must be very bad, and how filial can the children be to him?

It's good to be able to come back and see, what can the old two quarrel children say, they are annoyed to death.

No one can always be young, it is not easy to become a couple, and it is most important to treat his wife well, which is also for the happiness of his later life.

Married men can count on their wives at any time, especially in their later years. If you made a lot of foolish things when you were young, why should your wife take good care of you in your old age?

In his later years, the husband and wife became enemies, but it was really miserable in the world!

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The first half of a man's life is passion, and the second half of his life is about family affection, especially whether he treats his wife well when he is young.

The relationship between Xia Junshan and his mother in "Xiaoshede" impressed me deeply, and many people can't understand why Xia Junshan's mother is here, why is she so indifferent to her biological son? I later learned the reason through a sentence from Xia Junshan's mother: "I told you, my own children bring their own, I will not help, I serve your father enough, I just want to arrange my own life." ”

Not long after Xia Junshan married Nanli, his father suffered a stroke and was paralyzed in bed, Xia's mother is a very lively person, but because her husband was sick, she had to take close care, but the relationship with her husband was not good, so she complained while serving, served for four years, and finally sent away, which shows how much she resents Xia Junshan's father.

Can marriage make do? Under the same roof, two people will only look at each other and become enemies.

Regretting the marriage, complaining about the children, but not getting yourself out of the muddy marriage. When the husband is sick, because the small town is afraid of gossip, he has to take care of him to fulfill his wife's obligations, and it is a real relief from the day the husband dies. What I'm trying to say is,

There is no need to make it so difficult for yourself, if the marriage reaches this point, it is better to leave early, it is a relief for yourself. Maintaining a shell without love and warmth will only make your child resent you and will only make your relationship with your child worse and worse.

Having written so much, two very important things: first, do not make do with marriage, if you really can't get along, leave early and clean early, don't harm each other; Second, be kind to your partner, treat your wife kindly, how much you hurt your wife, if the husband and wife have a good relationship, they will naturally live happily in their old age.

Don't be too proud, everyone has a sick time and can't bear it, they will need a partner to help.

Today's topic: Have you ever seen a couple who became enemies in their later years? Welcome to leave a message.

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★ Author: YIBAO; The original creator of emotions, writing about the warm emotional things of this world.

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