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Author丨Su Juan said:
Each of us comes to the world as half a soul, and only when we meet the other half of the same soul as ourselves, can life be truly complete.
When you think about it, it seems to make some sense.
The desire to love and be loved is an innate instinct for everyone.
In the red dust, who doesn't look forward to meeting someone who has the same heart and soul as they are? I look forward to going to a world with him and seeing all the scenery in the world.
It's just that this kind of relationship has always been something that can be met but not sought, and it is lucky to meet each other.
Between men and women, if you can have the following 3 feelings when you get along, then he is likely to be your soul mate.
The host Xie Nan shared such an experience in the variety show "Half-familiar Lovers":
On one occasion, she said, she worked until almost 2 a.m. before she got home.
After returning home, she sent a message to her husband Wu Jing as usual to report her safety.
The message was only a few simple words: "I'm home and asleep." ”
But in fact, something happened that day that made her very unpleasant, and her whole mood almost fell to the bottom when she sent the message.
It's just that she was afraid that it would affect her husband's work, so she deliberately pretended to be nothing.
However, to her surprise, within a few minutes, Wu Jing called back.
She asked in surprise: "Aren't you filming a night scene, why did you call at this time?" ”
Wu Jing just replied calmly: "I'm afraid that you have something you want to say now, but no one listens. ”
The few numbers made Xie Nan instantly warm his heart, and also made the other guests present sigh and envy such feelings.
This scene can't help but remind me of a sentence:
Someone who understands how you feel is like God secretly stuffing you with a piece of sugar.
There are thousands of people in this world, but meeting someone who can know you and understand you is like looking for a needle in a haystack.
He is like a reward from God, allowing you to meet a soul that resonates at the same frequency in the vast sea of people.
Whether it's the negative emotions that you can't open your mouth, or the things that you want to talk about, you can't hide them in front of him.
He can always see through the fragile emotions hidden under your strong exterior at the first time.
Sometimes, even if you are just a casual little gesture, he can read the off-string sound behind it.
This life is actually very long, and no one will inevitably encounter some hardships along the way.
If you have someone by your side, it will really bring a glimmer of light to life.
He will keep you company when you are sad; When you are down, hold an umbrella for you;
It will give you the right amount of strength in countless moments when you need it, and show you that you are not alone.
The well-known screenwriter Liao Yimei has a good saying:
"In this life, it is not uncommon to encounter love and sex, but it is rare to encounter understanding."
Because behind those understandings are the fate that fits with your soul, and it is the deepest and true emotion that treats you.
There was a hot topic on the Internet: "What does a high-quality partner look like?" ”
Among them, the most praised answer is:
Be honest with you, give you enough preference, and in this relationship, you will never let you suffer from gains and losses, as long as you need him, he will be there.
Indeed, when we were young, we may have all longed for the romance of the wind and snow, but as we grow older, we agree more and more with that sentence:
"Affection is not as good as long-term companionship, and heartbeat is not as good as peace of mind."
A true soul mate may not say many sweet words or please you, but he will definitely give you enough security and make you feel at ease in this relationship.
reminds me of an interview with actor Myolie Wu not long ago.
She said she really wanted to tell everyone how good her husband was.
Although the other party didn't do anything earth-shattering, she just felt very down-to-earth in this relationship.
For example, when she is sick but still needs to go out to work, her husband will prepare the pills to be taken every day in advance and remind her to take the medicine on time.
Or every time she washes her hair, she will intimately help her dry her hair; Even if they are not together, they will "strictly" supervise her to dry her hair before she can sleep.
Or often take selfies with her, and later put those group photos together and send them to Myolie Wu, by the way, ask her, "Do you think I'm a little boring?" ”
When the little things of life come together, she wants to believe that no matter what happens, that person will not leave her.
It is said that a sense of security is very important in the emotional world.
This is true, because security is not just a few fluttering promises, nor is it a purely material thing.
It will be hidden in every detail of life, and it is the person who is extremely honest and unguarded with you, and who completely opens up his world to you.
No matter how busy he is, he will take the time to reply to your messages, never perfunctory to you, explain everything, and respond to everything.
It is He who will stand in your future and plan you into His future.
In front of him, you don't have to be afraid of being disliked because you are not perfect, and you don't have to pretend to be strong, you can rest assured to rely on him to stop and catch your breath when you are fragile and embarrassed.
I like that sentence very much:
"Being loved seems to have a backer. There's no better way to have than to have a better relationship: as long as you turn around, he'll be there. ”
The right person will always stand with you, even if there are many storms and thorns ahead.
In an emotionally theoretical post, I saw an anonymous netizen sharing an experience:
She said that when she first got together with her boyfriend, she was an extremely unconfident person.
I hate facing the camera and rarely take pictures, because she feels that she not only wears braces, but also has acne marks on her face, and there is really no need to record it.
Even if she can't resist a friend's invitation sometimes, she will definitely ask for a beauty camera to shoot.
It wasn't until she was with her boyfriend that all this began to change quietly.
Her boyfriend wore braces with her, and often used the camera to record their lives, and every time after taking photos or videos, he would praise her for her beauty and encourage her to be more confident.
At the beginning, she was actually still very timid, and she only dared to show half of her face every time she took pictures, and sometimes she would subconsciously cover it with her hands.
But slowly, her boyfriend's encouragement and praise seemed to work, and she no longer resisted the camera as before, and occasionally accepted the original camera.
Later, looking at herself in the mirror, she even felt that those acne marks were actually harmless at all, even if she was wearing braces, she was still a delicate girl.
And now, they are married, she can appear in front of the camera calmly and confidently, and post on Moments generously, and even many friends around her say that she is becoming more and more beautiful.
At this moment, it seems that people really see the embodiment of happiness, lovers are like flowers, the more you nourish them, the more she will bloom.
When a woman is loved, that feeling of happiness cannot be hidden, and it will inadvertently reveal in the corners of her eyebrows and eyes, which will make her transform into a better version of herself over the years.
still remembers that in an interview, when Tang Yixin was asked, "If it is a love without results, do you still need to appear", she replied without hesitation:
"Of course it has to be, what a beautiful thing love is."
I think it must be a feeling of love and happiness that gives such an answer.
The so-called soul mate is to meet the person who is full of you with eyes full of you.
He will care about all your emotions, and he will be very attentive to your big and small affairs, even when the whole world doubts you, he will unswervingly believe in you, appreciate you, and support you.
And as long as you mention this relationship, you will feel overflowing with happiness and have no regrets about meeting him in this life.
The word "soul mate" may sound a bit ethereal.
But in fact, when it comes to life, it is the partner who can understand you, spoil you, believe in you, and accompany you through a long time.
is like the sentence written by Qin Guan:
"As soon as the golden wind and jade dew meet, they will win countless in the world."
He may not be the best person in the world, but to you, he is the one who has everything just right.
He can understand your thousands of miles of rivers and mountains, and he can also understand all your sorrows and hardships.
He will give you a sense of security, like a light in the night, as long as he is there, there will be light, and you will have peace of mind.
He will always keep you in mind and let you be nourished in the relationship.
Click [Watching], may you meet the person who makes you laugh in the red dust, accompany you to enjoy this life, and the white head will not be separated.
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