Divorce is no longer a matter of looking up.
In the old ideas of parents' generation, they will feel that divorce is a big thing, even if they can withstand the fingering of others, they must consider more for their children, and if they can endure, they will endure.
Many young people will say that they always consider the feelings of others, and the most sorry is themselves, and in the end they are wronged, they have not received anything, only got a full body of scars.
Not being afraid of divorce is the boldness and boldness of contemporary women
Marriage is a goldstone that helps them stop losses in time
Different women have different views on marriage, even if the parents tell them bitterly that marriage is not a child's play, they must think twice, and it is not too late to see the true face of the other party and then decide.
But people who choose flash marriage abound, they have a unique understanding and idea of their own lives, perhaps in their eyes marriage is a gamble, they all win and are happy, and if they lose, they will lose.
After all, for them, marriage allows them to polish their eyes to see the true face of the pillow person, some people are in love and after marriage the state is completely different, no matter how carefully screened before marriage, there will also be a situation where the horse loses its front hoof. It is better to stop the loss in time and rejoice.
Only by being brave enough to divorce can you get a new life
In fact, society's view of divorced women is very large, may label him as a failure, may feel that they are not competent for a lot of work, if you have another child, life will be more difficult.
But this is also a dead cycle, as long as you have a child in this relationship, after the divorce, the mother will choose to take the child with you, even if it is criticized, it does not matter, as long as you can break through the siege and get a new life.
"Remarriage" or "remarriage", which one will women choose to be happier? People who come here will choose this way
For a divorced woman, although there are many choices for future life, most people still can't avoid the dead cycle of falling in love to getting married, either remarrying or remarriing, and almost few people will choose never to marry again. Perhaps it is because people have an instinctive need for the family.
If it is the woman's parents, most of them will choose to persuade their daughters and ex-husbands to remarry, even if it is for the sake of the children, the biological parents are always better than outsiders, and the outsiders are not as good as their own biological parents.
However, such a seemingly simple decision is not simple in the minds of women, because for them to repeat the same mistakes or start over, the results are very different.
As long as the ex did not make essential mistakes, he could consider remarriage
There are many reasons for the divorce of husband and wife, and even some reasons are very strange, such as two people going out to eat and the other party did not help themselves to pick up vegetables and divorced, washing clothes only washed their own without caring about each other, and even because the other party bought fakes for themselves and went crazy...
These seemingly insignificant reasons in the eyes of others can be regarded as the last straw that crushes the camel in front of real couples, knowing that they are so beautiful in their dreams, why has reality become like this?
And now after the couple encounters problems, just thinking about how to replace instead of repairing, is also a fatal factor. But in retrospect, these reasons are not enough to sentence the other party to death! It is not a fundamental error.
Therefore, according to the experience and ideas of people who have come over, it is generally recommended that single women reconsider their ex-husbands and ask themselves if you live again, will it increase your own happiness index?
After all, your feelings have a certain foundation, where the problem is actively solved, after all, men need women to point out, you want him to do what to tell him, as long as he loves you can do it.
Remarriage may seem beautiful, and success may be contingent
But many women will stubbornly choose to start over, no matter how good the memories they have in the past, it will be a turning page of the past, and they always believe that they can meet someone who truly loves themselves again and re-compose each other's happy times.
But you have to understand a truth, the people you like and the people you choose are always the same type of people! Because your taste and understanding will not change, just like you like to eat desserts and do not like to eat peppers, others say that peppers are good and you will not try, right?
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