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The Ming Dynasty philosopher Chen Xianzhang once said: "There is nothing shameful about being a person who has made mistakes, and only those who have not repented in their lives are the most worth worrying about." ”
After the age of sixty, people have experienced wind and rain, and they have seen the faces of many people. Along the way, there are their own faults, and there are other people's faults.
A lifetime is not long, don't lose a good time because of the past. Change yourself in repentance, precipitate yourself in memory, and only then will you not be in vain.
If you want to live comfortably, you must try to make others comfortable; if you want to harvest happiness, you must try to create happiness.
For the rest of your life, your face should be harmonious, your mouth should be slow, and your heart should be kind, so that "there is an old age, like a treasure."
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A kind face is good-looking.
During the Northern Song Dynasty, Zhao Pu served as prime minister.
One day, Zhao Pu handed Song Taizu a piece of music and recommended a rare talent. Unexpectedly, Song Taizu was very angry and threw the fold to the ground.
Zhao Pu smiled and picked up the fold and carefully put it in his pocket.
On the second and third days, Zhao Pu continuously handed the fold to Song Taizu. He said: "Since ancient times, people have been employed by merit and talent, not by personal mood and arbitrariness. ”
Song Taizu was furious and tore the fold to pieces.
Zhao Pu smiled and picked up the fragments and went home. It took three days to glue the fold with paste and hand it to Song Taizu again.
In the end, Song Taizu agreed to Zhao Pu's request.
As the saying goes: "Reach out and don't hit the smiley face person, and don't scold the gift giver when you open your mouth." ”
When a person smiles and faces everything, then everything will be better. Even people who are very mean to you will become gentle as a result.
People interact with each other, smiling is the best "lubricant", can let the contradiction slip aside, can let the enemy shake hands with themselves, and can also be with all people, and angry and rich.
Laugh, ten years less. For the elderly, smiling makes themselves younger. When you can bring sunshine to others, you will find that others are willing to help you, and your children will be more filial.
In society, it is inevitable to look at the faces of others, but you can't casually look back at others, but smile at each other, so that others will be ashamed of themselves and set off your nobility.
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Sweet mouth, good to hear.
There are things to say well, and there are things to say slowly. This is the basic principle of chatting.
The old people chatted between each other, and the speed of speech was a little slower, so that they could hear clearly. After all, they are all old people, and they may have their ears back.
Talking to young people, you talk well, so as not to cause "disgust" and easy to be accepted.
When the host Ni Ping recalled her grandmother, she told such a story: she picked up the branches and drew a large braid on the ground, which extended from the doorway to the courtyard.
A few chickens and ducks came over and staggered on the "braids", and Grandma quickly coaxed the chickens and ducks away, and said loudly: "Don't step on the braids, it will hurt." ”
It was such a simple word that made everyone happy.
As the saying goes, "Good boys, they're all exaggerated." ”
Reality tells us that children and adults need praise. Words of praise, like a spring breeze, can squeeze into the depths of people's hearts and can make people feel endless motivation.
Sixty-year-old people, you should praise your children's achievements, praise your grandchildren's learning, praise the children of your neighbors, and publicize them for the good people in society.
In the days to come, it is always getting sweeter and sweeter, complaining every day, nagging everywhere, isn't this adding to your own blockage?
Everything is good, maybe it won't get what you want, but it will make life sunny.
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A good heart is beautiful.
Montesquieu said: "Beauty must be clean and innocent, in the image, and even more so in the heart." ”
People are old, be kind, and don't always think about what you get from others.
Being able to adhere to kindness is actually "cultivating the heart" and making the heart more peaceful. In this way, you can eat well, sleep well, and naturally grow old.
There was a young man who went abroad alone to study. He had only been at school for two months when he had a severe cold.
In the unaccompanied place, he cheekily asked the landlord for help. The host drove him to the hospital.
The young man's English level was very average, and some medical terms were very difficult to speak, and he said it for half a day before the doctor understood what was going on.
When the doctor went to prescribe the medicine, the landlord said to him: "Boy, it's all right, my English was so bad in the first place." ”
A sympathetic word warmed the young man's heart, and all the embarrassment disappeared.
In this society, everyone has their own difficulties. As an old man, when enjoying social dividends, you should think about what to return, rather than thinking that you have worked hard and achieved high, and everything you deserve.
If in the city, the kindness of the old man will change the image of a city; if in the countryside, the kindness of the old man can make the landscape more beautiful. More importantly, for themselves, they do not do bad things during the day, and they are not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door at night.
There is a saying in the "Qing Jing Jing": "Man can always be quiet, and the heavens and the earth will return." ”
As long as a person has a clear conscience and no dirty things in his heart, he can get the power of heaven and earth.
Only when the heart is good can we see the good scenery and feel the beauty of the four seasons of the year.
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There is a saying in the "Cai Gen Tan": "The heavens and the earth have eternity, and this body is no longer obtained; life is only a hundred years, and this day is the easiest to live." Those who are fortunate enough to be born must not know the joy of life, nor can they not be worried about vain life. ”
Human life is only once, and the longest life span is also more than a hundred years, compared to heaven and earth, it is only a moment.
Since we are lucky enough to live for a hundred years, we should try to find happiness, do not waste time, and do not waste our own value.
There's a movie line that says it best: "We've been through suffering, so we can better comfort others." ”
We have experienced childhood, so we know that children are very innocent and lovely; we have experienced the student years, only to know that reading is very bitter, but also can be bitter and happy; we have experienced middle age, in order to understand the difficulties of "old and old and young".
People get along with each other, more praise, less complaints; more tolerance, less rejection; more smiles, less sorrow...
You shake hands with the world and the world embraces you.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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