Sun Zhuo's case has touched the hearts of many people, and the loss of children can feel this pain for most of the parents who will eventually become parents, or have become parents. The return of Sun Zhuo has not only made many parents who lost their children see hope, but also given a heavy blow to the traffickers.
So far, there are still many "adoptive parents even if there are mistakes, but good villains are also good to sun Zhuo, not so bad as everyone says". Is this really the case? Is this so-called "adoptive parent" really as good as everyone says?
Sun Zhuo's physical examination report exposed 14 years of quality of life, and the family was distressed, one of which was related to his adoptive parents
The study life at the high school level is tense, and it is normal for students to have a state of mental tension. But now most of the middle schools will be properly arranged, the students' sports and learning, coupled with the strong logistical support of the family, ordinary high school students, generally do not have malnutrition.
But Sun Zhuo's physical examination report was not very good, sun Zhuo's mother saw him so thin, and felt that he should only follow his father's reasons. But what she did not expect was that many of Sun Zhuo's nutritional indicators were not up to standard, his physical fitness was relatively low, and he lacked vitamins, and Sun Zhuo's parents felt very distressed after seeing this physical examination report.
As we all know, Sun Zhuo's "abducted parents" family conditions are average, and Sun Zhuo is usually in a boarding state. Due to family conditions, his monthly allowance for food and lodging is not high. For a long time, malnutrition has naturally been normal, and this malnutrition constitutes a factor that is directly caused by adoptive parents.
As a biological parent, Sun Haiyang is very sad. After all, this is his own child, and if he had not been abducted, the family would have both the ability and the determination to raise the child well, at least not to the extent of malnutrition. The abducted parents of the so-called "love Sun Zhuo" are still like this, how miserable will other abducted children be?
Why do everyone recognize Sun Haiyang's education so much?
Sun Haiyang and his wife have a very cheerful personality and a large pattern, which can be seen from their ability to suppress their emotions and respect their children's decisions after they are looking for relatives. Obviously, they are the child's biological parents, but the two have never had the intention of persecution, their eyes are full of children's advantages, and they care for their children.
When the child decided to return to Shenzhen, Sun Haiyang and his wife did give the child a relaxed and pleasant family atmosphere. Don't underestimate the family atmosphere, ask how many parents always immerse their children in a trembling, unwilling to speak, and submissive family environment.
Many parents always complain about their children, who know to play mobile phones and watch TV at home all day long, but they lie on the sofa or at home. The reason why the youngest son of Sun Haiyang and his wife is "all-round" is because Sun Haiyang and his wife can accompany their children to play badminton, sing, do housework, guitar...
There are not many parents who lead by example, this kind of example does not necessarily have to be parents, participate in learning, but also parents can take their children to play together, play together, go shopping together, chat together, express their views and preferences. It was this example that made Sun Zhuo's heart move.
Many netizens said that there are many other families who have found children, why does the public have to pay attention to Sun Haiyang? In fact, this point is related to many cases of family searching reported in recent years. In the past two years, too many children have either chosen to "abduct their parents" or use their biological parents as passers-by after being recovered.
Indeed, all they can feel for children is that there are suddenly a few more people in their world who call themselves "biological parents." They are reluctant to change. But Sun Zhuo was able to return to Shenzhen from Shandong and choose his own parents, which is undoubtedly a huge comfort to those parents who are still struggling and looking for their children.
Some people are parents but do not fulfill their responsibilities at all; some people are not filial to their children; some people are husbands/wives but forget about some current interests or temptations. And Sun Haiyang, such an ordinary person, can persist for 14 years and 57 days in order to find his own children.
Many people ridiculed him that if he let go of his obsession with his children and concentrated on his career, he would have been able to buy a house in Shenzhen a long time ago. But he didn't want to, and if he didn't find the child for a day, he couldn't rest easy for a day. Sun Haiyang's responsibility as a father is not shared by all fathers. It is precisely because of this that he is admirable and well-noticed.
Like other newly found children, Sun Zhuo was initially stranger to his biological parents and preferred to stay with his "abducted parents". But later, he finally decided to return to his biological parents and returned to Shenzhen from Shandong.
This change is definitely not only because Shenzhen's educational resources are better, but also because Sun Haiyang used his patience, respect and patience to pull the child back to his side. After too many parents found their children, Xiang Lin kept complaining about how hard she worked, and rarely did she have such a calm and steady attitude as Sun Haiyang.
Sun Haiyang's gentleness and respect for children and Sun Zhuo's choice of his biological parents are all fatal blows to traffickers and buyers, and are also silent and powerful protection for many families and children. They don't over-market, and even need it, so that buyers can recognize the facts.
Today's topic: How do you think of Sun Zhuo's "abducted parents"?