Pay attention to the diary of the fish parenting do not get lost on the way to parenting
Many parents almost rack their brains to develop their children's skills in all aspects in order to make their children stand out and catch up with their peers. However, education is a process of self-awareness and self-guidance, and if children can only passively learn and cannot concentrate, then the effect will be minimal. What determines a child's grades and learning efficiency is not the "effort" accumulated by time, but the concentration! But because of too much love, or too much rush, often in special periods, parents will do something that destroys their children's attention. Five things that ruin children's attention, many parents are doing.
First, when the child is concentrating, frequently interrupt the child, baby, are you cold? Are you hungry or not? Do you want to drink water, do you need help from your mother? Frequent interruptions can cause damage to your child's brain neurodevelopment.
The second long time to use electronic products for children, electronic products are now almost into a coaxing artifact, children cry and make trouble, throw an electronic product to him, the world will be cleaned up immediately. Adapting to the fast pace of electronic products, it is difficult for children to adapt to the slow pace of learning life.
Third, buy too many toys for children, children lose interest in exploring and studying toys, and a newly bought toy often plays for three to five minutes without playing.
The learning environment of the fourth child is too noisy, such as the sound of the TV, the sound of the mobile phone, the sound of the adult talking loudly, and so on when the child is studying.
The fifth child's room is too cluttered, which will only destroy the child's sense of order and cause the child to be easily distracted.
Attention is a very important quality in a child's development. It is like a window for children to connect with the outside world, only by opening the window of attention, the outside information and knowledge can enter the child's brain, and the child can develop advanced intelligence such as memory, observation, imagination, and thinking. 2-8 years old is a critical period of children's brain development, this time to improve the child's concentration (or memory or logical thinking ability) can get the effect of doing more with less.
I'm a fish, like to pay attention, to understand more children, less anxiety