Introduction: "As we all know, the three years of high school are the hardest three years of my academic career. Because I have to face the college entrance examination, there is almost no time to rest.
Looking around in the class, almost everyone is immersed in hard reading, but over time, there will be times when you want to slacken off, so the right relaxation is the icing on the cake. In this regard, you can refer to Sun Haiyangjia. ”
Unfamiliar people, it is difficult to find that Sun Zhuo is a high school student, even if it is a high-intensity study, you can still see the play photos of Sun Zhuo's sisters and brothers every three to five, he is lively and happy in the photos, and there is no tension and sluggishness of ordinary high school students.
Social platform play photos exposed, Sun Zhuo cute posed POSE, Sun Hui is ahead of his wisdom!
Plum blossom fragrance comes from the bitter cold, and most Chinese parents take a sentence as a guideline, that is, to eat bitterly and be a good person. Of course, they know that three years of high school are not good, they get up earlier than chickens, and they sleep later than dogs, but they don't let the children relax easily. After all, how much you pay in high school directly affects the second half of your child's life.
It can be said that most children do not recognize this concept of their parents, they feel that learning should be relaxed, of course, there is nothing wrong with studying hard, but they should also be given their own time to do what they like, so that they may be able to do more with less.
The eldest sister is like a mother, in the education of the two younger brothers, Sun Yue, as an older sister, has paid no less, which has greatly reduced the pressure of her parents. Even though she is not much older, let alone an educator, he has accumulated a lot of knowledge when he studied abroad, after all, she is a master's degree.
Under the influence of his sister, the younger brother Sun Hui is also very witty. In the usual outing, the younger brother has shown many times, some even the sister does not understand things, he can have a similar answer, oral expression ability is a highlight, a lot of novel things to explain, very eccentric.
From some videos and photos, it is not difficult to find that the three brothers and sisters are full of vitality and have fun. Among them, Sun Zhuo is the happiest, facing the camera, often showing his trademark smile, coupled with his far spectacle lenses, the cute feeling is full.
The happy and happy growth of children is the most gratifying thing for parents, as netizens, we all see so happy, the mother of three children is even more joyful overflowing with words, she said to the outside world: very happy! Netizens have sent blessings to this, feeling that the family is harmonious, the children are healthy and happy, and the parents are satisfied.
However, not all parents can make their children feel happy and happy while ensuring that their academic performance is also excellent. They say bluntly that if their children can also play happily, their grades may plummet. But it is true that human sorrow and joy are not the same.
To be honest, such a good family atmosphere is not something that ordinary families can emulate. However, there are still places to learn from, and the reason why children can grow up happily in this environment is that the influence of parents accounts for a lot.
It is said that parents are the first teachers of children, from the growth of children in parents, many behaviors of parents will profoundly affect children, they will imitate the every move of adults. The reason why the three sisters and brothers of the Sun family can have both moral integrity and ability is inseparable from the example of their parents.
Why can other children learn to have fun? Being a parent requires reflection
Most parents should know the importance of three years of high school for their children, and Sun Haiyang also understands it. In many videos, we see that even as a high school student, Sun Zhuo's life is still flavorful, and he takes care of learning while having fun, which shows that he is a very disciplined child.
But how can you make your child as disciplined? Since other people's children can, why can't their own children? At this time, the first thing that needs to be changed is not the child, but the opposite should be the parents as guardians, whether their own education methods are not good enough, then improving their own educational environment or methodological attitudes is the top priority.
Parents should lead by example and be strict with themselves. Before doing things, we must not only think about ourselves, but also ask more questions about the impact I will have on my children by doing so, and if this is not so good, will the children follow suit and thus develop a bad habit. Only education that can promote children's progress can be called excellent family education.
In addition, parents also need to constantly learn. Think about it, if this happened at your own age, how your parents did it, whether their actions were effective, and whether the impact on you was positive. In this way, the purpose is to learn from past educational experience, learn from each other's strengths, and take its essence and discard its dross
What is more important is that parents should dialectically understand their children's high school life, pay attention to the child's learning is beyond reproach, and it is not wrong to hope that the child can be among the best. But if it is only the theory of meritocracy, and does not face up to the healthy development of children's physical and mental health, then this kind of education is doomed to failure.
Finally, parents are reminded that the growth of children is inseparable from communication. Listen more to children's opinions, understand their inner needs, and strengthen appropriate recreational programs in addition to learning, which can not only enhance children's physical and mental health, but also promote parent-child interaction and harmonious family relations.