Remember the Sun Zhuo family, the prototype of the movie "Dear"?
Just a while ago, Sun Zhuo's abduction case went to trial.
The human trafficker who abducted the two children and made Sun Haiyang find a full 14 years was recommended to be sentenced to 5 years in prison.
This hot search, I don't know how many parents' hearts have poked.
Not to mention Sun Haiyang himself, but all parents feel that this result is really difficult to accept.
Although there is a lot of incomplete evidence, it is the low recommended sentencing that has occurred.
But for Sun Haiyang himself, he suffered not 14 hours, 14 days, but a full 14 years!!!
Child trafficking has always been a heavy topic, and once abducted, it hurts for a lifetime.
For traffickers, a child is just a high-priced commodity with a hierarchy of good and bad, a stack of banknotes, but for families who have lost their children, it may be an abyss that cannot be climbed out of for a lifetime.
Every lost child has smashed a big hole in the hearts of their parents, sometimes in labor, sometimes in severe pain.
When will the child be recovered, when will this pit be filled, and if it cannot be found in a lifetime, that pit is the epitaph of the child, even if there are ten or eight more, it will not be filled.
Human traffickers abduct not children, but parents for the rest of their lives, so how can people not hate them!
How frustrating can you be to kidnap a child?
According to the 2018 China Statistical Yearbook, nearly 20 women and children are trafficked every day, which means that nearly 20 families are torn apart every day.
Isn't the reason why human traffickers are so rampant is not all driven by profit?
Previously, CCTV exposed a set of trafficking data that made people smack, and this black interest chain is the end of children's happiness.
From abduction, to selling, to applying for a birth certificate, a child can be worth 1.12 million yuan.
The cost is 0 yuan.
For human traffickers, this is a book of profits, and huge profits will inevitably drive people to take risks to commit crimes.
As Marx said:
"If there is a 50% profit, it is desperate; For the sake of 100% profit, it dares to trample on all human laws; With 300% profit, it dares to commit any crime. ”
In order to pursue huge profits, traffickers can abduct children by any means!
They dare to deceive, pretend to be weak, take advantage of the kindness of the child, deceive the child to sympathize and then abduct.
△ Lie that you don't know the way, let the child lead the way, and pull the child away in the dark
They dare to steal, and any place with new life is a stronghold for them!
△ Impersonating a nurse, she steals a newborn child late at night
They can pretend to be stupid, and once exposed, they can escape with a sentence of "admit their mistake"!
△ Pretend to have mental problems and pull the wrong child
They dare to rob openly, gangs rob children, people can't be prevented!
△ The soldiers divided into four ways and outflanked the isolated mother
For money, there is nothing they do not dare, it is really madness!
Even if you fail 20 times, as long as you win 1 time, it will be a silver in vain.
Even if you can't get it, there is nothing to lose, at most pretend to be crazy and stupid and say "sorry for the mistake", you can continue to look for the next target.
Even if he is caught and sentenced to several years in prison, he can continue to abduct again.
A book without the cost of crime is a black hole with no reason to speak of, no conscience to speak of.
I remember someone in Zhihu said:
"The matter of trafficking has nothing to do with your knowledge, qualifications, or family background, it only cares about the bottom line of human nature, and at this point, you will never be lower than a human trafficker."
They don't care whether the child lives or dies after being abducted, and whether the parents who lost the child have been sent to eighteen levels of hell.
What they blush, it's just money.
The life and death of the abducted child are unknown
But where did the trafficked children go?
This is the pain that parents of abducted children are the last thing they want to face, and they have to face every day.
If you are sold to a childless family as an adopted child, it can be said that it is a blessing in misfortune to meet a good adoptive parent.
Of course, buying and selling is the same sin, and the buyer does not deserve sympathy.
However, compared to being sold to black Chang as a child laborer to dig coal, sold to illegal organizations to be disabled to beg, and even sold to the black market for organ trading, being adopted is the best outcome.
Remember a line from Huang Bo in "Dear":
"If any buyer buys my child, please remember that the child is allergic to peaches, don't give him peaches, if you see a child begging along the street, please, please contact me..."
Where is the child now? Afraid or not? Have you eaten enough? Will it be beaten? Do you want to be a mother?
These problems, think about it once at a time.
Pray again and again that the child will be well, but the traffickers are not so good-hearted.
The trafficked child has since lost contact and his life and death are unknown.
The parents could only pray that he would not appear on the street, not on the news, that would at least prove that he was okay.
But even if it is adopted, the child may not be very good, maybe it is a lifetime of loess, maybe after knowing the truth, it is impossible to have a better ending.
Once abducted, the child's life has been irreversibly rewritten, and there is no fluke.
The abducted family has since fallen into hell
According to some media, 200,000 children go missing in China every year, and the recovery rate is only 0.1%.
This means that the remaining 99.9% of families are on the verge of being broken.
The abduction of a child rewrites not only the child's life, but also the parent's life.
In the movie "Orphaned", from the day the child was lost at the age of 4, Andy Lau's father gave up his career, selling all his family property on the road of search for many years, spanning most of China.
He couldn't stop, and as soon as he stopped, guilt would hit him like crazy.
"For 15 years, it's only on the road that I feel like a father."
"Perhaps, walk a little more, and the child will find it."
The abducted child finally becomes the only obsession of the parents in the second half of their lives, even if they are poor, even if they are crazy, they can't forget it.
Zhang Baoyan said that "Baby Home" once helped a child find a home, but 30 years have passed, and in these 30 years, Dad can't bear the blow and ends up hateful, Mom, crazy.
But at the moment when they took the child to see the mother, the mother who had been crazy for 30 years suddenly seemed to understand, took the child's hand and ran to the back mountain, knelt in front of the child's father's grave and said, "The daughter is back." ”
In the 30 years that her family was broken and she was in hell, no one knows how much she suffered, and these sufferings can only be returned to the original point the moment the child finds it.
A single abduction, the second half of the parents' lives, also irreversibly rewritten, without exception.
I pray that there will be no abduction in the world
I still remember that when Xiao Xiaobao was still young, the film "Darling" was watched by me and Bao's father holding him in the living room after coaxing him to sleep.
After seeing Huang Bo find the child, squatting in the corner of the stairs and crying until he convulsed, looking at the small bag in his arms, I hugged him tightly, and tears couldn't stop pouring out.
Seeing the indifferent look of the trafficker in the movie, he gritted his teeth even more with hatred.
Children are the continuation of the entire family, the lives of parents, and the abduction and sale of zero cost destroy not only a child, but also a family, and even a family.
Such a wound cannot be erased for a lifetime.