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Since having two children, my mother-in-law often said that we must take good care of our children.
She often told us that in a family in her hometown in Hebei Province, two children were playing in front of their homes, and they were gone. More than twenty years later, the two children are still not found, and their parents and families are plagued by pain, remorse and illness.
On the Internet, we often hear about losing children and looking for children. Some time ago, Sun Haiyang, who lost his child for 14 years and found his child, suddenly became a "celebrity", and all the netizens on the Internet were happy for their family.
If the child is lost, is it because the parents do not look after the child? Of course, there are parents who are not in place. However, we do not dare to guarantee that the child will be one hundred percent and will always be in the sight of the parents. Take the child to the park, he sometimes hides, you can't see the moment. Take the children to the mall, we also have a moment of staring at the goods, and the children have no time to take care of them. The child will be lost, and some characteristics of the child itself are also related.
The most heinous human traffickers, saying that they like to do the two kinds of children who like to do it the most
Chen Lianxiang, a caught trafficker, once abducted 46 children in a 2-year period, and after being caught, she was sentenced to 10 years in prison. During the interrogation, Chen Lianxiang said that she liked to attack two kinds of children the most, and reminded many parents.
Find children who are easily seduced by substances.
Whether children have a sense of prevention against strangers is inseparable from their parents' usual education. A friend's child, who was in elementary school, met an aunt who stopped her on the road, and the aunt had delicious food in her hand and asked her to help lead the way. The child pointed wittily to the back and said, "My father is coming, let him take you!" The aunt hurried away.
The child's experience is really a cold sweat, if this child covets the food in the hands of the aunt, it will definitely fall into the palm of the human trafficker's hand. Therefore, traffickers close to children generally try to test children first, whether they will be attracted by snacks and toys. If children are more playful and gluttonous, they will do it.
If the children are more clever and will resist fiercely, they are also very afraid of exposure and will give up.
Children taken out alone by the elderly or women.
In addition to deceiving children, human traffickers also have a more blatant practice of "robbing children". If the child is left alone, he may be picked up by the trafficker and leave.
There is also a part of the mother or grandmother, so that the weaker women with children, may also become the target of human traffickers, some of them come up to rob the child, but also prepare some confusing onlookers plot, it is really hateful.
The birth rate of children has been decreasing. Infertile families, families who want to have boys, their desire for children, but also let these bad people take risks, creating such a criminal industrial chain.
Our sense of preparedness is growing, and we have seen through the schemes of many traffickers, and their chances of abducting children are declining. However, there are also some traffickers whose deception is constantly escalating, which requires parents to be vigilant.
Our usual safety education for children should also be constantly updated and strengthened, and can no longer be limited to, do not walk with strangers, do not eat the food given by strangers, these superficial knowledge. Children should be taught to learn some specific measures to protect themselves.
What should you do if you meet a suspicious person?
When encountering suspicious people, follow you, talk to you, if there is no one else around, do not directly resist, you can find a way to go to a place with many people.
For example, run quickly into supermarkets, banks and other places where there are many people to ask for help. For example, shouting "Daddy" at the crowd is a deterrent to the traffickers, who may give up on you if they are afraid.
When coerced by others, learn to ask for help from those around you.
Once, a friend of mine was waiting for a train at the train station. Because she was a civil servant and wearing a uniform, a little girl said to her: "The police aunt rescued me, this person is not my mother." As a result, the trafficker left the child and ran away, the child escaped the disaster, and the mother was soon reunited.
When encountering dangers and difficulties, we teach children how to ask for help, and it is crucial to cultivate children's high emotional intelligence. For example, when a child encounters difficulties, we should train him to accurately tell his own difficulties, he has met a bad person, a bad person wants to take me away, this person is not my father, mother, and so on. Children with stronger language skills will have a better chance of being rescued.
Teach your child to remember the messages of Mom and Dad.
There is a child who has been remembering his parents' messages since being abducted by human traffickers. Finally, when he grew up, he successfully returned to his mother's side.
After being rescued by the police, many children often do not know the information of their family members, which makes the rescue work difficult. In our usual education, we should let children remember the information of parents and mothers, telephone numbers, home addresses should be remembered, and when it is critical, it is possible to protect children.
The basic anti-abduction knowledge should be frequently reviewed and practiced by parents and children.
Of course, what parents have to do is not to put their children in such a dangerous situation. Parents take their children out, it is best not to let the children leave our sight, educate children not to blindly listen to strangers, these precautions should often be established in the child's heart, and you can also carry out a drill to prevent abduction with the child.
Children's safety is the foundation of a family's happiness, improve children's awareness of prevention and self-protection ability, bring up children in peace and security, and make the family happy.
Interactive topic: When you take your child, have you neglected to take care of it, and have you ever taught your child the ability to protect yourself?
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