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In the process of children's growth, many people know the importance of family education, and in family education, safety education is the most important part for parents to ignore.
If children do not establish a correct sense of safety from an early age, it is difficult for them to assess the danger of an event, and it is easy to have unintended consequences at this time.
Not long ago, a scene in a community in Quanzhou, Fujian Province, made many netizens cry out in horror after watching it, and behind the incident, we also saw many families who lacked safety education for their children.
5 children played on the top of the 28th floor, and the "cornice walking on the wall" was shocking, and netizens angrily rebuked parents for being too big
For boys, energetic they are very fond of running, jumping, climbing and other sports, if they are active on the flat ground, there is naturally no problem, but some children in order to show their courage, they have to find some dangerous places to show their "talent".
In the picture below, five young boys come to the roof of a 28-story building in their neighborhood, where they jump around the edge without hesitation, and even climb over the railing to try to jump to the top of the balcony downstairs.
Two of the children were hanging their entire bodies in the air as they climbed over the railing, and from a distance, the sight was truly shocking.
But the children didn't seem to feel that their actions were full of danger, but instead found such challenges interesting.
At this time, this scene happened to be seen by a woman living opposite, who shouted loudly to the children while filming, hoping that they would immediately stop the dangerous behavior, but because the distance was too far, the children did not hear the woman's cry.
In the end, the woman decided to go downstairs to the opposite side to stop it, but after she passed, she found that several children had already gone downstairs, and the woman then gave serious lectures to several children.
In fact, children climbing the roof of the building to play is not an isolated case.
On the roof of a 7-story community in Shenzhen, two children were playing happily, and soon after, one of them, a little girl of about 6 years old, made a very dangerous move.
Only she slightly opened her hands, slowly walking forward along the edge of the roof, through the picture can see that the edge of the roof is very narrow, only one person is allowed to pass, and there is no protective measures around the girl, and the hands and feet are slightly unstable and may fall downstairs.
The person who filmed the video said that he was scared out of a cold sweat, and the parents of the little girl were also very afraid to scold their daughter after learning about the situation.
Why do children play on the roof of the building so often? Many netizens have said that this is the dereliction of duty of parents, because the usual safety education is not in place, resulting in children having no concept of life safety.
"I was horrified to see that the parents of these children usually did not tell their children which places to go and which places not to go, and many tragedies occurred because the parents' hearts were too big."
"Parents must be optimistic about their children, this kind of bear children are generally the habit of parents, family education is very important."
"Children's imitation ability is very strong, and parents should pay attention to prohibiting children from imitating dangerous actions on TV."
How can parents conduct correct and rational safety education for their children?
First of all, when the child's behavior awareness is slowly established, parents should instill the necessary safety awareness and behavior norms in the child in time, and regard it as a bottom line in family education.
Parents need to tell their children that these bottom lines cannot be touched, otherwise they will be punished, and this punishment may come at the cost of their lives.
Secondly, in daily life, safety education can be seen everywhere, and parents can use examples in life to popularize safety education to their children.
For example, teach children to recognize safety signs on the road, tell children how to use fire fighting tools, and give children examples of what dangers they encounter and call the police uncle for help.
Finally, many children's dangerous actions are derived from the imitation of film and television dramas, so parents should screen healthy and positive animations for their children, and for some of these dangerous actions, parents should also warn children not to imitate.
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