Text/Please Mommy and Daddy!
People who have seen the movie "Dear" are deeply touched, especially those who have become parents, and the sense of despair of losing their children is always around them, which makes people feel painful and uneasy.
The son of sun haiyang, the prototype of the movie, was found, and after 14 years of long waiting and arduous pursuit, he finally recognized his son, the father and son hugged each other tightly, and the people were moved.
In fact, children are lost, missing, and abducted every year, which seems to be far away from themselves, but in fact, it can happen all the time.
Some parents naively think that as long as they look at their children a little more closely, the child will not be abducted, as soon as possible to warn the child not to run around, do not walk with strangers, you can reduce the risk of being abducted, do not know, children many times, do not have the ability to judge, one step wrong, will fall into the abyss.
Experiments have shown that most children have a weak sense of anti-abduction!
In Ganzhou, Jiangxi Province, an anti-abduction test was conducted by experimenters in supermarkets, schools and railway stations, mainly children aged 3 to 10, who successfully "abducted" 42 of the 50 children by asking for directions, lying about their identities, and toys and snacks.
The rate is so high that people have to be vigilant, many parents said that they usually have taught their children this knowledge and coping skills, but they did not expect that children are so easy to believe in people, and easily go away with strangers.
Why are children so "cheating"?
First of all, the child is young, less knowledgeable, in the eyes of the child the beautiful things are more than the ugly face, the child does not have the ability to distinguish, will easily fall into the trap of human traffickers.
Secondly, those who can be traffickers are not idle people, and their "technology" is often more advanced than people think, even if the parents are in front of them, they can easily get it.
The more common methods of tailgating, coaxing, etc., are taken advantage of when adults are distracted, at this time, young children often have not returned to God, too late to shout, they have been taken away.
Of course, there are also forcibly taken away, the child walks normally in front, and suddenly a hand lifts the child up and drags it away, before and after only 5 seconds, making people defenseless.
For such incidents, how should parents improve their children's awareness of anti-abduction?
1. Strengthen care for young children
Children's cognitive ability and behavioral ability in the early stage are insufficient, so they can only rely on the care of parents to avoid risks. It is recommended that when parents take the baby out, put the baby in their own sight, and at the same time do not attract external factors, the parents' attention is all on the baby, and the trafficker is naturally not easy to start.
2. Guide through cartoons
Every child loves to watch cartoons, and with the development of the times, the content of cartoons is constantly updated, even full of educational significance.
In fact, many cartoons have small animals, children are deceived scenes, animated characters either use witty minds to resolve the danger, or by the bad guys, have been some negative impact, these scenes, when the child watches, parents can explain and guide more, with the child's interest in the way, to help them master the relevant anti-abduction skills.
3. Conduct more actual combat exercises
Oral teaching experience is far from enough, only personal experience can be impressive, but the personal experience mentioned here is not really to let the traffickers abduct, but like experiments, strengthen the child's anti-abduction awareness again and again.
Parents can set up some obstacles based on their children's cognitive abilities, such as finding friends that their children have not seen, and trying to take their children away after school or when they are playing alone.
If the child is not taken away, it means that the anti-abduction education is relatively successful, parents can change individual tricks to continue the test, if taken away, they need to strengthen the corresponding guidance, so as to avoid falling into danger in the future.
Of course, during the test, parents need remote monitoring, it is best to keep video data, so that the follow-up education of children, it is more convenient to explain.
Abduction and trafficking of children occurs from time to time, anti-abduction awareness must be improved, as a parent, only timely help children to master the corresponding anti-abduction skills, in order to reduce the possibility of encountering danger.