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"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

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"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

Zhang Yueqiao

Adopted sons and adopted daughters have insight into their lives as adults, and most of them try their best to find their biological parents. For this reason, the relationship between the two generations has become delicate, some adopted children and adopted daughters have neglected to adopt their parents, and some have even turned against each other...

Zhang Yueqiao, the runner-up winner of the 2013 "Walk of Fame" annual finals and the famous singer "Hawthorn Sister", was abandoned by her parents 5 days after her birth. She treats her adoptive parents kindly, swinging her intestines, touching her heart...

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When he was 7 years old, Zhang Yueqiao complained to Han Banglan: "Mom, the third brother bullied me, saying that I was not your own child." Han Banglan scolded, "Don't listen to him, see how I clean him up." That day, she smacked her little son's ass with the soles of her shoes.

"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

Zhang Yueqiao in childhood with his parents

When she was 12 years old, Zhang Yueqiao asked her mother: "My classmates are talking behind my back, saying that I was picked up by you." Is this true? Han Banglan was angry: "That's someone else chewing on the root of the tongue, you are my daughter and your father's own daughter." "The next day, Han Banglan brutally beat up his daughter's classmates...

11 years passed. Bathed in the moonlight of the affection of her parents and 3 brothers, Zhang Yueqiao grew into a 23-year-old girl. On August 10, 2007, she married her boyfriend Lian Jie, who had been in love for a year. When she helped her daughter to coil her hair, Han Banglan said with tears: "Yue Qiao, your mother has deceived you over the years, in fact, you are not born to me and your father." Perhaps mentally prepared, Zhang Yueqiao did not have the shock that Han Banglan imagined: "Mom, I understand your hard heart." Now I can tell me where I am, and I can bear it. ”

The past is like smoke. In October 1984, Han Banglan and her husband Zhang Zongshui rushed home from a market and found an abandoned baby girl by the side of the mountain road. She learned from the small piece of paper on the abandoned baby's chest that the child was just 5 days old, suffering from congenital spinal periosteum bulging, the back was high and bulging, and there were six fingers in the left hand. This is also a life, the kind Han Banglan couple can't bear to be pitiful and self-destructive, adopted as a daughter, named Zhang Yueqiao...

Zhang Yueqiao cried, for her own bumpy life and her parents' kindness. Zhang Yueqiao was about to get on the wedding car, and Zhang Zongshui cut a paper cut against his family courtyard and handed it to his daughter: "I hope you will always remember here and have time to come back and see." Zhang Yueqiao heard his father's voice: "Dad, this will always be my home, and you and your mother will always be my biological parents." "Hidden for 23 years of tragic life exposed, Zhang Yueqiao married with complicated feelings...

"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

Zhang Yueqiao and his wife with their son

The mother-in-law's home is located in Tangdiyu Village, Shuiquan Town, Zaozhuang City, 80 miles away from Qianlai Village, Guanqiao Town, Tengzhou City, Zhang Yueqiao's mother-in-law. In 2006, Zhang Yueqiao fell in love with Lian Jie, and her in-laws thought that she was mediocre-looking, had a disability, and was too short, and insisted that her son break up with her. The little couple eloped to Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province, to work. After more than half a year, the parents of the Lian family compromised. After the marriage, the in-laws learned of Zhang Yueqiao's bumpy life, coupled with the daughter-in-law's filial piety and Xianshu, the old two especially cared for her. The Lian family planted dozens of acres of fruit trees, and the dirty work in the orchard never let the daughter-in-law interfere; the little two occasionally quarreled, and the in-laws always criticized their sons. He was abandoned 5 days after his birth, lost the love of his biological parents, but got more love from his adoptive parents and in-laws, Zhang Yueqiao has no regrets...

The in-laws often remindEd Zhang Yueqiao: "It is not easy for your parents to raise you, and you often go back to your mother's house to see." "Yes, it is instinctive for parents to love their children, and to regard adoptive sons and daughters as their own, they need to transcend human nature." Zhang Yueqiao still clearly remembers that when she was a child, her family was very poor, but her parents treated her better than her three brothers. In order to earn money to treat her illness, her mother cut turnips in the snow-covered field in winter; her father could do crafts, and gave people root carvings, paper cuts, and stone carvings in his spare time... After three surgeries, Zhang Yueqiao's spine and left palm returned to normal, but his height was limited, only 1.50 meters.

Love can only be reciprocated with love. Han Banglan suffered from diabetes more than ten years ago, injecting insulin every day, zhang Yueqiao delivered medicine to her mother on time every month and accompanied her to the hospital for review. The hawthorn and cherries planted at home are ripe, and she plucks the biggest and reddest ones for her parents to taste...

"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

Zhang Yueqiao is born with a golden voice, and many songs will be listened to once. After graduating from high school, she was admitted to Jining Art School and voluntarily dropped out of school because of her family's poverty. Just like in her mother's house, Zhang Yueqiao sang while doing farm work, and her high-pitched and sweet songs echoed in the orchards and valleys. Neighbors called her the happiest little woman in the village. In the spring of 2008, Zhang Yueqiao became pregnant. She does not dare to eat cold and spicy, does not dare to take medicine when she has a cold, sleeps for fear of crushing the baby, and often sits half and half sleeps at night. The hardships of conceiving in October made her realize the difficulty of expectant motherhood. In November of this year, his son was born smoothly. Zhang Yueqiao, who was upgraded to a mother, unconsciously had a heart knot: What did his biological parents look like? How old are you? Is your body okay? Is there still a chance to meet in this life and this life?

Once, Zhang Yueqiao led her son to learn to walk, and the baby suddenly called her "Mother". The son's biological mother is in front of him, but where are his own biological parents? Zhang Yueqiao was suddenly overflowing with grief. Lian Jie was puzzled: "What's wrong with you?" What's so sad? Zhang Yueqiao said with tears: "I want to find my biological parents, even if I only look at them." Lian Jie can understand his wife's mood: "Now communication and transportation are convenient, as long as you look for it with your heart, you will definitely be able to achieve your wishes." ”

In December 2009, Zhang Yueqiao returned to her mother's house to see her parents and asked euphemistically: "Mommy and Daddy, do you remember some details of picking me up?" Did my biological parents leave any special belongings? The daughter's words were very soft and light, but the sensitive Han Banglan's heart trembled: the daughter has established a family, no longer needs herself, she is looking for her biological parents...

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"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

Zhang Yueqiao as a child with her parents and 3 older brothers

Han Banglan pulled out a faded red belly pocket and a yellowed piece of old paper from the bottom of the wardrobe and handed it to his daughter: "This is all your parents have left." "There is no information written on the paper except the date of birth. Zhang Yueqiao asked her parents to recall the scene when she was picked up and her disability before surgery. Han Banglan's eyes flashed with sadness, his lips trembled, and it took a while before he spoke. Zhang Yueqiao said: "Mom, I have no other purpose in looking for them, I just want to see them, and by the way, ask why they abandoned me." Zhang Zongshui was calmer than his wife: "Yue Qiao, there must be something difficult to say about them doing that, and they may have been suffering about this matter." You go to your biological parents, we have no objection. ”

With these two simple relics, Zhang Yueqiao began a journey to find relatives. In the following half a year, she visited more than 30 hospitals in Tengzhou, Zaozhuang, Jining and other places, large and small, to find the files of baby girls born on the same day as herself in the same month of the same year. She also went to the village 5 kilometers away from her mother's home to inquire about who abandoned the disabled baby girl more than 20 years ago... However, too long has passed, and all zhang Yueqiao's efforts are in vain. In May 2010, Lian Jie went online to help his wife post a family search notice in Theba in Tengzhou, and uploaded photos of red belly pockets and birthday pieces to the Internet. Some people contacted Zhang Yueqiao one after another, some providing clues, and some claiming to be her parents.

Zhang Yueqiao has met with 3 middle-aged couples to identify the authenticity of the information provided by the other party, she asked her parents on the phone many times: "Mom and Dad, when I was a child, was the sixth finger grown on the thumb or the little thumb?" "When you picked me up, did you put a red balloon on the package?" Han Banglan endured the pain to solve his daughter's doubts, and as soon as the phone hung up, the old lady cried.

"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

Gradually, zhang Yueqiao's search for her biological parents spread in her mother's house, and neighbors and relatives and friends poured cold water on Han Banglan and his wife: "I didn't give birth to myself, and I wouldn't kiss her no matter how good I was." You have worked hard for decades to raise daughters for others. "A couple in a neighboring village adopted a son, and when the child found his biological parents, he didn't come to see his adoptive parents once a year." For more than half a year, Zhang Yueqiao has been busy looking for relatives, and rarely returns to her mother's home to visit her parents; even if she is in contact, it is also for the sake of finding relatives. The words of neighbors and relatives and friends added a lot to the bad mood of Han Banglan and his wife, and the more the old couple thought about it, the more sad they became. Han Banglan tearfully said to his wife: "Yueqiao found her own parents, and we lost this daughter." Zhang Zongshui comforted: "Relax your heart, when we first adopted Yue Qiao, we did not come to enjoy happiness." Besides, Moon Joe is not our private property, she has the right to find relatives. "Why doesn't Han Banglan understand these truths?" But emotionally it is just unacceptable.

This winter, a couple in their 50s in Jining found Zhang Yueqiao, and what they said about the abandonment of their daughter was similar to Zhang Yueqiao. More importantly, the other party is similar to Zhang Yueqiao's eyebrows and blood type. Even her husband and in-laws believed that they were Zhang Yueqiao's biological parents. Zhang Yueqiao excitedly informed her parents of the news, hoping that they would accompany her to Jinan for a paternity test. Han Banglan and his wife stayed up all night.

Early the next morning, Zhang Zongshui got up and prepared to go to his daughter's house, but Han Banglan refused to go: "You go alone, I can't bear to push my daughter who was raised with one hand into the arms of others." Alas, more than 20 years of nurturing grace, really can not withstand the blood? "If I don't go myself, why can my daughter be embarrassed?" Zhang Zongshui endured the heartache and rushed to The Jinan People's Hospital with his daughter and son-in-law and the couple.

The medical staff took blood samples from Zhang Yueqiao and the couple and compared them with DNA. When the appraisal report was about to come out, Zhang Zongshui cried: "Yue Qiao, I have found my biological parents, will I go back to see my mother once in the next six months?" She was vulnerable. "My father has always been very strong, he has never shed tears, and Zhang Yueqiao has a taste in his heart. However, the DNA results showed that of the 14 gene sites, only two matched. That is to say, the other party is not Zhang Yueqiao's biological father and mother.

"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

Zhang Yueqiao and Zhu Zhiwen

Zhang Yueqiao was not dead hearted and continued to search for relatives. After that, Mr. and Mrs. Han Banglan were pulled by their daughter twice to recognize their relatives. This Year's Mid-Autumn Festival, Zhang Yueqiao gave his mother a gift of 500 yuan, and Han Banglan resigned: "I am not your mother, I am not worth your like this, you should be filial to your biological parents." This sentence stung Zhang Yueqiao's heart, and she sensed the estrangement between her mother and herself, and she cried sadly.

Back home, Zhang Yueqiao's mood still could not be calmed, and her husband nodded at her: "You are reproachable for looking for relatives, but you have not taken into account the psychological feelings of your parents." If you think about it, your parents have raised you for more than 20 years, but you insist on finding your biological parents, can they feel better? These words touched Zhang Yueqiao: Yes, for more than a year, he only cared about finding his relatives and neglected his parents, so that his parents misunderstood.

The bell must also be tied to the ringer. Two days later, Zhang Yueqiao and her husband took their parents to their home for a small stay. When helping Han Banglan inject insulin, she blamed herself and said: "Mommy and Daddy, you have raised me for more than 20 years, and every stone is hot." In my mind, your place can never be replaced by anyone. ”

Affection is eternal. For more than 20 years, Han Banglan and his wife have long regarded Zhang Yueqiao as their own daughter, and that affection penetrates the bone marrow, and the daughter's few warm words completely melt the psychological estrangement of the old two. In order to no longer stimulate his parents, Zhang Yueqiao terminated the search for relatives.

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"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

Zhang Yueqiao and Lian Jie became acquainted with music. In the spring of 2006, Zhang Yueqiao worked in a musical instrument shop in Tengzhou, singing open-air karaoke in the square in the evening. At that time, Lian Jie was doing fruit business in Tengzhou and was touched by Zhang Yueqiao's beautiful singing. After each singing, he either sent Zhang Yueqiao a string of Portuguese sugar or a bunch of cherries, and two young hearts collided with the spark of love. After marriage, Lian Jie bought a computer, a CD,and a power amplifier with a mixing function for Zhang Yueqiao; he also supported his wife to go to the city several times to participate in singing competitions, and Zhang Yueqiao became a well-known singer in Tengzhou.

In August 2012, Shandong TV held the "Let the Dream Fly" draft in Zaozhuang, and Lian Jie encouraged his wife to sign up. After layers of selection, Zhang Yueqiao stood out among more than 300 players and advanced to the final.

On December 6 of that year, Zhang Yueqiao carried a basket of bright red hawthorns grown in his home and sang "Eighteen Bends of Mountain Road" on Shandong Television. Her small stature, simple white flower shirt on a red background, and a huge contrast with her high-pitched and loud voice, the media affectionately called her "hawthorn sister". Han Banglan and his wife witnessed their daughter's demeanor on TV, and they were so happy that they couldn't keep their mouths shut.

"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

The following year, Zhang Yueqiao participated in CCTV's "Avenue of Stars" and won the weekly championship and the monthly champion consecutively. On December 28, the annual finals began, and she won the second place in one fell swoop. After becoming famous, Zhang Yueqiao served as the special host of CCTV's seven sets of "Beautiful Chinese Countryside Tour" and often performed across the country as a draft judge. On February 27, 2014, Zhang Yueqiao was a guest of "Art Life", and the identity of abandoned babies was exposed in the media. Thousands of viewers lamented her bumpy life.

After the program was broadcast, waves of "kissing tides" poured in to Zhang Yueqiao and her parents. In July of that year, Zhang Yueqiao received a call from a couple in the northeast, saying that Zhang Yueqiao was their abandoned daughter. She was half-convinced, who knew that the other party hurried from the northeast to Tengzhou. At that time, Zhang Yueqiao was performing in Beijing, and the middle-aged couple directly found the Han Banglan family. The other party's description of the characteristics of the abandoned baby is obviously inconsistent with Zhang Yueqiao; but the daughter is a public figure, and the old couple does not want others to gossip and warmly entertain each other. The couple ate and lived in Han Banglan's house for a week, and the old lady also paid the fare when they left.

Soon, a couple in Jining took the initiative to contact Zhang Yueqiao, claiming to be her parents. Zhang Yueqiao was busy performing and did not have time to meet with each other. They also visited Han Banglan's house and stayed for a few days. Since then, for more than half a year, more than a dozen couples have come and gone in Han Banglan's house; the old couple has to answer multiple kissing calls every day, and their lives have been completely disrupted. Han Banglan suffered from type III diabetes, high blood pressure, Zhang Zongshui lumbar disc herniation, and the old two were exhausted.

"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

Zhang Yueqiao with her parents

In April 2015, after Han Banglan sent away a couple who recognized his relatives, his diabetes worsened and caused complications and heart and brain lesions. Zhang Yueqiao gave up the performance and took her mother to the hospital with her brother. The hospital issued two critical illness notices. Zhang Yueqiao shed tears of self-blame: If it were not for the embarrassment of acknowledging the tide of relatives, her mother would not be like this!

Zhang Zongshui called his children to a family meeting: "Your mother is critically ill, and it may cost more than 100,000 yuan, and this money is shared by your brothers and sisters 4 times." Without waiting for his brother to answer, Zhang Yueqiao took the initiative to say: "Dad, the 3 brothers are in the countryside, and the burden of children going to school is heavy. I was in better condition than they were, and my mother's medical expenses were borne by me alone. Zhang Zongshui burst into tears: "Yue Qiao, we have no reason for you to be like this." "Dad, you said you would treat me as your own daughter, and you wouldn't treat me as an outsider when things happened." You will always be my father and mother, and compared to your and your mother's nurturing grace, my little reward is not worth mentioning. Zhang Zongshui and his 3 sons had red eyes.

After emergency rescue such as oxygen inhalation, pressure control, and sugar reduction, Han Banglan was out of danger of life a week later. Leaving the ICU ward, the first sentence of the old man when he saw Zhang Yueqiao was: "Mom doesn't know how many days she can live, and she may not have the opportunity to help you find your biological parents." I am sorry! Zhang Yueqiao's heart was like a knife: "Mom, blame me, you shouldn't let the tide of searching for relatives annoy you." ”

A year ago, in order to get their son a good education, Zhang Yueqiao and his wife moved out of the countryside and rented in Zaozhuang City. During the month when her mother was hospitalized, Zhang Yueqiao made nutritious meals and sent them to the hospital every day, and accompanied the bed in the hospital at night. In mid-June, Han Banglan recovered and was discharged from the hospital.

"Hawthorn Sister" Zhang Yueqiao tearful eyes: 5 days after birth was abandoned, my adoptive parents my father and mother hid for 23 years of life exposure to find biological parents hurt dear dear you will always be my father and mother

Zhang Yueqiao with her son

In order to no longer let the "wave of family search" disrupt the lives of parents, Zhang Yueqiao issued a statement on the Internet: "In the future, my family and I will no longer receive family search personnel, and people who are willing to find relatives should not call, let alone visit the door." If one day I have a chance to meet my biological parents, I will call you 'Mommy and Daddy' and send you away to bless you. After the statement was issued, the search for relatives came to an abrupt end, and Zhang Yueqiao's life with her parents returned to calm.

At the beginning of September, Zhang Yueqiao wrote a song to his parents, called "Father and Mother": "There is a sun and moon in the sky / There is a father and a mother on the ground / Not that the sun and the moon are not brilliant / Not that the father and mother do not hold the intestines... Ah dear father, dear mother / a pair of calloused hands / cover all the way for me to cover the snow, rain and frost / I hope to stay with my father / I am willing to be white-haired with you..." Hearing her daughter's sincere singing, Han Banglan and his wife burst into tears!

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