The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth remains in the heart
When Mr. Wu returned home from work, he was just about to take off his coat when he heard a doorbell ringing outside. Mr. Wu thought that his wife had returned, so he opened the door, but he did not expect that it was his father-in-law standing at the door. Mr. Wu was deeply surprised, but he did not invite the old man into the house and sit down, but instead asked the old man at the door how the old man came, the old man was a little embarrassed, but he still said the purpose of his trip, it turned out that he had financial problems and wanted to seek Mr. Wu's help.
After Mr. Wu heard the words of the old man, he couldn't help but laugh playfully: Have you forgotten what happened 20 years ago? What did you do to me in the first place?
In many cases, the contradiction between the son-in-law and the husband is as complicated as the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.
20 years ago, Mr. Wu had not yet married his wife, and the relationship between them was just an ordinary couple, and after Mr. Wu and his wife felt that each other was the person who could accompany them for a lifetime, they began to discuss and begin the journey of meeting each other's parents.
Unexpectedly, after Mr. Wu prepared a generous gift to come to his girlfriend's home, the girlfriend's father did not seem to treat Mr. Wu very well, and when he left, the girlfriend's father did not go out to send him.
It was only afterwards that Mr. Wu learned from his girlfriend that it was because his girlfriend's father was not satisfied with the economic conditions of his family that he had neglected himself.
Mr. Wu did not think so, he believed that as long as he worked hard enough, he would definitely be able to meet the requirements of the old man.
From the mouth of his girlfriend, Mr. Wu's impression of the old man has always been a sincere and kind person, and he is not stingy about his children.
Therefore, Mr. Wu knows that if he wants to marry his girlfriend, he must pass her father's pass.
Because the girlfriend's father did not agree to this marriage, coupled with the fact that Mr. Wu's economic ability was really not good at that time, so this marriage was put aside, during that time, Mr. Wu worked hard, and finally through his own perseverance, he barely met the requirements of the old man.
Seeing that Mr. Wu had such perseverance, the old man decided to marry his daughter to him.
However, at that time, the bride price was not popular, but in order to thank the old man for promising his daughter to himself, Mr. Wu prepared a large dowry to go to the old man's house.
However, coincidentally, during that special period, the old man's career encountered great problems, and coupled with the fact that the old man was a good-looking person, he took the dowry to his own emergency without the consent of Mr. Wu and his daughter.
Later, after Mr. Wu married his girlfriend, he did not know about this matter.
It was the first time after marriage to accompany his wife back to his mother's house, during the meal, the old man took the initiative to talk about this matter, although Mr. Wu was a little angry, but since it was a dowry, how to deal with it was also the wife's mother's family.
But the old man's unspoken meaning is more than this, he has not yet survived the difficulties in his career, hoping to get the help of his daughter and son-in-law.
Mr. Wu was grateful, so he dedicated all his years of savings to help the old man get through the difficulties, seeing that the old man's career had improved, Mr. Wu looked forward to the old husband to return the part that belonged to him, but he did not expect that at this time, Mr. Wu's brother-in-law took his girlfriend home, and the old man waved his hand and directly bought a new house for the brother-in-law, which also meant that all the savings of the family were consumed.
And Mr. Wu's share, naturally put aside.
Later, the brother-in-law got married, as a brother-in-law, naturally to contribute, so many years, Mr. Wu roughly calculated, he invested a lot in the old man, almost all of his family into it, but he gave himself a return, but there are very few, and supporting Mr. Wu to do all this, is only before marriage, his wife said to him: My father is very good.
Everything is only after his own experience, I understand the merits and demerits, since then, Mr. Wu's relationship with the old man has slowly become estranged, although the two did not break out of contradictions, but also like passers-by.
Therefore, in the face of the sudden visit of the old man, Mr. Wu was very surprised, especially when he heard that the old man came to seek help again, Mr. Wu directly did not let him enter the house, and directly rejected him, because for Mr. Wu now, he has entered the ranks of middle-aged people, there are old and young, how can he still choose to believe the old man unconditionally as he did when he was young?
The old man did not expect Mr. Wu to have such an attitude, he did not dare to believe it, and said: I am your father.
Mr. Wu was even more angry when he heard this, and he said: How do you mean it, think about what you did 20 years ago.
After saying that, Mr. Wu closed the door, leaving the old man alone outside the door.
The relationship between Mr. Wu and the old man is so stiff, and the inaction of the old man has a lot to do with the inaction of the old man, after all, as an elder, if you don't take care of the juniors, you have to get benefits from the juniors, this kind of behavior that only cares about taking and not knowing how to pay, when you get old, you will naturally regret it one day.
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