Yours is yours, your mommy's not necessarily yours

Is it wrong for the father-in-law to sell the house to his son-in-law? Some people applauded and some people sighed - "Before, complicated is feelings, now complex is the house"

Is it risk control or being wary of men.

@Wowo

The old man's risk control is very strong, and sure enough, men understand men.

@Frozen Lemon Tea

The only daughter of the city who has several houses in the family is afraid of being eaten by the family.

@Peggy

This is not the same as buying insurance is a train of thought... I don't think that when I go out, I will be hit by a car, and I will fall off when I take a plane. Just "just in case".

@Ala Cloud

Pretty normal, house and money will never betray you, counting on a man's conscience? Forget it.

It seems that most men's wind comments are not bad now.

@ Cheng and grapefruit

How to prevent before marriage is not wrong, I also think that my husband will not figure out my money, after marriage sold my premarital property and then bought a large set of large, now we live in a family of three, write my name, after all, from beginning to end including decoration is my money. My husband quarreled last time and said don't think I can take away all the house and let him get out of the house...

@Yvonne Apple

I have a female colleague who bought the house before marriage, and some of the loans after marriage were also repaid by the woman. The son cheated on the man at the age of one, wanted to divorce immediately, and demanded half of the premium for the apartment.

@Dragon Lan lan

Because this society does not recognize the value of women's fertility and the value of housework, women who do not take money when they get married will definitely suffer losses! Everyone is the same person, for Mao women to suffer in vain and suffer guilt and lose the golden period of the workplace?!

@Zang Yue

Men buy their own houses, and it is reasonable to pay off their mortgages. The old man has not lost money, and may privately subsidize pocket money to his daughter. 2 million to the husband, the last are daughters, but the husband takes 2 million to not give the wife to spend together with the question mark, men are more shrewd than women.

@Zeng Shuangshuang

Sure enough, the rich people want to share with you and me, and we poor people are ours, and the mortgage is carried together.

Not only the post-90s, but also the post-80s and post-70s have applauded this behavior.

Only by being able to handle property rationally can we calmly face marriage. Whose marriage can be divorced from economic relations.

@Lan Lan Lillian

Because the post-80s generation is in the rising period of real estate when they get married, they can bo the future; and those who are married now face that the real estate will no longer appreciate significantly, and the stock game will of course be much more calculated. And now the girls don't have so many pink bubbles for love marriage, it's really much.

@wei

The capital to have a divorce cannot be called thinking about divorce when you are married. This is a clear and secure home purchase. Just as we also emphasize that women should be self-reliant and self-reliant and not dependent on men. Not to call defense, not to see the husband as a necessary negative person.

@min

To tell the truth, for modern people, the most ruthless operation may achieve the longest marriage. Every step is clearly calculated, but everyone has no human burden in their hearts, and they have clear boundaries and are frank and long-lasting.

@morning or

Who can get married when they see it? Because I firmly believe that I can walk for a lifetime, do I have to leave no way back before I express my determination? Assets are related to eating, and whoever you are with must first stabilize your life. All made clear, the rest only talk about feelings, simple and simple.

@Shao Xiaofeng

Marriage is a kind of thing, it is a precise match. No one will know that there is a better choice, crying and shouting to marry or marrying someone who has no money and no appearance and does not provide emotional value.

The husband's is not necessarily the son-in-law's, and the mother-in-law's is not necessarily the daughter-in-law's, fair.

@Lai

Unless they are married and live with their parents, they are two separate families. Regardless of whether the parents have other children or not, they should not regard the parents' property as their own.

@Nicole

Because you don't see how terrible the mother-in-law who calculates the future daughter-in-law in the sales office is, the girls will eventually suffer losses, if the white head with the old meat rots in the pot, they are not afraid, if they shoot two scattered, there is still the old book of life.

@Xiaoling

Xiao Wang did not suffer a loss when he bought the old man's house. Not to mention how much cheaper than the market price, after all, even if you have your own house, it is normal to repay the loan to the bank. For the old man, you can avoid many contradictions and hidden dangers in the future, after all, no one can predict the future, and the inheritance of the future is another matter, after all, the daughter is always his own, but the son-in-law is not necessarily.

Is it a money that hurts self-esteem or rubs on it that hurts self-esteem?

@ Little Orange

In general, the more men pay, the greater the sunk cost, the less likely it is to abandon his wife, so that the man's monthly money to his father-in-law is not easy to operate, after all, for decades. Moreover, the man's white residence in the woman's home hurts his self-esteem, and the man can't stand to run away at any time for a long time.

@Ninja Shinma

Having ten houses in the family does not mean that others are willing to join a son-in-law! Some people think that a lot of material things can bring happiness to their daughters, but they are not. In marriage, who has no dignity in the post, the man also has parents, we must guard against the elderly who have a bargain and sell well, in the eyes of the elderly in some areas, the upside-down woman is not worth it is definitely a problem woman.

@Jin

Doesn't it mean to have a sense of boundaries? Asking the husband to take the house to subsidize his daughter and son-in-law for free is not too double standard! Besides, who in this world doesn't owe a little debt? Young people should not count on their parents, let alone their parents-in-law, to struggle on their own, with dignity and confidence.

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