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There is a song that says: "The old tree in front of the door grows new shoots, and the dead wood in the courtyard blossoms again; there are many words in the half-survival, hidden in the white hair; the little feet in the memory, the small mouth of the flesh..."
I don't know from what day, after the 70s, we have also become the way in the song.
The white hair quietly climbed up overhead, leaving behind a memory of half a lifetime. Suddenly looking back, I miss my hometown more and more - that old tree, every year it has fallen leaves, but the parents under the old tree waiting for their children to return, old, gone... The next reincarnation is our generation, sitting under an old tree, waiting for its children.
They are all about fifty years old, and after that they talk about retirement. Don't think you're still young, you can still toss hard. We must know how to serve the old and arrange the retreat of life earlier, so that we can truly live and understand.
Whether you have money or not, you must be rich and support yourself, don't let the second half of your life be too bitter.
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Live regularly, don't desperately make money, and get rich and nourish your body.
I like the saying: "The best doctor is yourself, the best medicine is time, the best mood is tranquility, and the best exercise is walking." ”
In the impression, we often feel that we are a teenager. Walking out of the school gate, taking a few dollars, I bravely went to work in other places.
In the factory, overtime. I didn't go to bed until ten o'clock at night, but I was able to get up early in the morning. After a few hours of rest, the spirit became strong again.
Occasionally, I would stay up late, but I felt that the problem was not big and could continue.
To put it bluntly, every day panics, not for the sake of the few pieces of silver.
I remember that at the end of the 1990s, I worked in Qishi Town, Dongguan, with a monthly salary of three or four hundred, and I felt very satisfied. After all, parents in their hometown, spending several months, raising a pig, can only earn dozens of dollars.
Later, we became a family and went to great lengths for the education of our children. A large part of the reason for buying a house in the city is that the children have to study.
When we are fifty years old, after accumulation, we have a certain amount of wealth. At the same time, in the days of making money, there is a feeling of "inadequacy". Therefore, the pace of making money is slower, accustomed to thrift and thrift, and making your life more regular, which is the best health.
As long as you are in good health, you will have a long way to come to Japan. Otherwise, from retirement, the good days will come to an end.
Remember, good health is a responsibility, it is a responsibility for yourself, and it is also a matter of making your children less worried.
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You don't have to get together, insist on returning to the family, and cultivate emotions.
The ancients said: "If you want to take the piano, you hate not knowing the music reward." ”
There are people playing and singing everywhere, but there is not a single piece of music that you want, or there is a tune that you want, but no one you like plays it to you.
The world is very big, who is Zhiyin? In the future, don't care about any connections. If you reach the peak of your life around the age of fifty, you are a network, so-called, a high mountain and a peak.
If you yourself are still at the bottom of society, then there is no great use for anyone you ask for. Because, older, this is a hard wound in the development of life.
Combining all aspects of the factors, you will find that the best network is "family".
Husband and wife sing together and perform the double reed, there will be laughter in the family; more care for their children, their future will be smoother. If you have raised your children and they are famous, you can still work for them.
We often say, "Thank you for your blessing." This "you" is preferably a family member, not an outsider.
Zen Master Yungu said, "I will do my destiny, and I will ask for blessings myself." ”
We go in a big circle outside, and in the end it's all about building a good family. The original intention of life, do not forget.
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Willing to be ordinary, do not insist on fame and position, and enrich the soul.
During the Three Kingdoms period, the Cao Wei thinker Ji Kang said: "There are five difficulties in health care: fame and fortune do not go to one difficulty, mood and anger do not divide into two difficulties, sound and color do not go to three difficulties, taste is endlessly four difficulties, and divine worry is scattered into five difficulties." ”
If you want to enrich yourself, the first condition is "peace of mind" . Every day, I think wildly, my heart is like a knife, and it is futile to raise anything.
What the hell are you thinking? But fame and fortune. But you have thought about it for many years, and you have not made your dreams come true. After that, you should say "forget it."
At the age of fifty, you will know that "the destiny is so." The unit rarely uses an older person, but finds a way to let the young person replace the elderly; many construction sites do not want the elderly, because they are afraid of falling and the body cannot eat.
But those who cultivate orchards and vegetable gardens in the countryside can work for a lifetime. Because the work is very grounded, health care and money are not wrong.
When we were young, we talked boldly that we would become pilots, astronauts, and mathematicians. This is the ideal, not the reality.
Get the desires out, let go of the extra feelings, and you'll find that it doesn't matter if you live at the bottom all the time. The key to being a person lies in the confidence, not the position and fame.
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Prepare for the rainy day, prepare more materials for the elderly, and enrich the old age.
Reader "Diligent" said that in 72 years, he retired in one month. Both daughters graduated from college. The parents are still alive and have pensions. If he retires, he has money to spend, and happiness is the first.
For a lifetime, with a reliable pension method, there will be no panic.
Pension is a problem that our generation should think deeply about. Going to your hometown to live a pastoral life? In town, dancing with Grandpa and Grandpa? Or wandering away with your children? Don't sit back and wait for that day to come.
Writer Lin Qingxuan said: "After sweeping today's fallen leaves, tomorrow's leaves will not fall today, don't worry about tomorrow, and try to live in today's moment." ”
See through the changes of time, and you will not be bothered by the fallen leaves of tomorrow. By analogy, you have done your homework today, and you can cope with what happens tomorrow, or if there are any accidents.
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Standing in the depths of time, remembering the things of the youth, they are gradually drifting away, like flowers in the water, the moon in the mirror. But every time you touch the depths of the soul, the past is alive and well.
Remember that? Carrying a yellow school bag to school, doing fishing and siege games with classmates, and a few playmates living together... Mother stood in front of the low door and cried out—to come home and eat.
Life has reincarnation, years have reincarnation, emotions have reincarnation. Don't get upset about getting older, be thankful that you've finally survived.
In the days to come, raising a good body, caring for the family, indifferent to fame and fortune, and good pension, there will be more people's human conditions.
The medical scientist Qi Bo said: "Knowing is strong, and not knowing is old." ”
Be a person who understands, where there are some years of quiet, just used to carrying weight forward.
May you and I after the 70s bear the burden of half a lifetime, and leave half a life to enjoy leisure.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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