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When the times abandon a person, they may not even say hello. When the younger generation abandons the elders, perhaps you and I are only left with sighs and sighs.
In this regard, some people have said that when people come to this world, they will eventually go through the process of abandonment and abandonment. Abandon because you still have a choice. And he was abandoned because he had no choice.
For example, in the workplace, when the company abandons you, or even abandons you, you will feel the cruelty and hardship of the world. This is a reality that no one can change.
For example, in Vanity Fair, when capital abandons you, or even chooses to abandon the car to protect the coach, you will feel your own value, in fact, it tends to be nothing. This is the helplessness of the world.
Even in the family, when our children or descendants abandon us, we may not have any room for resistance. When people are old, the risks of life will increase greatly.
What is the greatest helplessness in life? In fact, the greatest helplessness in life is that the older people are, the less they are welcomed, and they cannot even feel the warmth and affection of life.
It can be said that the most profound feelings for this point are the post-60s and post-70s. Their generation eventually became the first generation to be abandoned by their children.
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On the Internet, some people have put forward the idea that the post-60s and post-70s are the last generation of filial piety to their parents and the first generation abandoned by their children.
In this regard, many people will wonder, why are the post-40s and post-50s not abandoned by their children, while the post-60s and post-70s will be abandoned by their children?
This is related to the background of the environment, the development trend, and the change of human psychology.
In the poorer years of the past, because transportation was not developed, the relationship between people was not complicated, and the atmosphere of small farmers was particularly deep, it was an immutable iron law for children to obey their parents.
To put it bluntly, in the age of honoring filial piety, as long as a child does not filial piety to his parents, he will be accused of countless moral and conscience.
However, when the times have developed to this day, young people's concepts are more free, they have more ideas, and they do not want to follow the old routine anymore. Therefore, when parents are left out in the cold, or even abandoned, they become a reality that cannot be changed.
For the matter of "no longer filial piety", we can only say that this person has no sense of responsibility and no conscience. So what can be done?
Take the post-60s of Ben Liu and the post-70s of Ben V, because most of them only have one child, so the pressure of their pension is huge. And a child can't bear these pressures, then they choose to abandon. This becomes an "endless cycle".
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Young people can't afford to support themselves, and middle-aged and elderly people will become the norm when they are lonely until they are old.
With the development of urbanization, we can find that many cities have risen, business has also developed, and jobs have gradually increased.
On the surface, business has grown and jobs have increased, which is a good thing. In fact, the good here is for the "elite". For ordinary people, the salary that has not changed for many years, the environment that is more and more inward, that is the reality.
For example, after the 60s and 70s, their generation has either seized the opportunity, has made a fortune, or did not seize the opportunity, and is still hovering on the brink of unemployment.
Why do middle-aged people lose their jobs? Because there won't be any boss who wants to recruit an elderly employee. In this way, they can only find another way out. This will lead to an increase in the risk of old-age care.
In this regard, many people will say that when the middle-aged people come down, won't the young people go up? In fact, this idea is wrong. With the increase of artificial intelligence, the number of jobs will only decrease, and the number of workers will only shrink.
Slowly, the young man may have found a job through hard work, but his salary did not allow him to support himself. In the end, it would be impossible for him to support his parents.
The post-60s and post-70s generations have put their minds and resources on their children. In the end, the child can't even feed himself. This is a kind of helplessness.
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The "raising of children and prevention of old age" emphasized by Chinese society needs to meet two conditions, and children must have a strong material foundation and have a grateful heart.
These two points are actually particularly difficult to do, and ordinary people can do a little, which is very good. However, if only one point is achieved, then the wish of "raising children and preventing old age" cannot be realized.
Some children have a special filial piety, but they have no material foundation and need parents to support them. So what can parents and children do? You can only accept the facts of the present moment.
Some children are particularly rich, but they do not have a grateful heart, and they do not even take their parents to heart. In this way, parents can only become the most lonely people.
Young people, middle-aged people and the elderly, all three are closely related.
For example, the parents of a post-90s generation are 55 years old and almost have to retire. And this post-90s generation needs to buy a house to buy a car, get married and have children, so that parents can only take out their own coffin books, buy a car and buy a house for them, even if it is a loan, it is also borne by the parents.
This, in fact, is the norm in life.
Just think, you helped the child, and who will help you? You can only help yourself. Because no one is reliable, no one is reliable, so they can only become the most helpless generation,
Helplessness is not only a problem in old age, but also begins in middle age.
Wen/Shushan has deer