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Every hurdle in life is a hurdle. And these obstacles will only become more and more sad as you and I get older. There are too many people who have fallen in front of the mountain and cannot see the sea behind the mountain.
We often say that behind the mountains is the sea. But how many people can reach this sea on the other side of the heart? I think, very few.
Don't think that life is only the present and the future, and perhaps even the future life can only be the gouge. It's hard to pass the pass, that's the elite. And Guan Guan is sad, Guan Guan falls, that is helpless.
Especially after people reach middle age, our "helplessness" will actually be particularly profound. Because the reality of life tells us that no one knows the accident and who will come first tomorrow.
Taking the 50-year-old hurdle as an example, do you think that those who successfully pass the fifty-year-old hurdle rely on luck or rely on personal strength? I think that three points are destined, and seven points depend on hard work.
Heaven lets you pass, then you have the conditions to pass. And heaven will not let you pass, I believe you can only stop here, it is difficult to cross.
Remembering such a sentence, your fate has already been marked with a price tag at the moment of your birth.
It can only be said that when a person reaches fifty, there are many disasters, and if he lacks the conditions that he should have, he will not be able to pass.
02
A post-70s sighed, fifty years old this hurdle, stumbled countless people.
Some time ago, at the class reunion, Mr. Chen found that several students in the same class did not show up. At this time, he asked his brothers around him why these people did not come.
Hearing Mr. Chen's inquiry, the brother said with emotion that they were all gone. Old Li fell on the post, Lao Wang left in a car accident, and Old Liu suddenly fell ill and left...
Mr. Chen was suddenly shocked, although he said that he did not have any intersection with these three classmates, but he had only seen them last year, why did they go so fast?
Recalling his life experience, Mr. Chen suddenly sighed, the world is uncertain, life is limited, life is extremely fragile, life is extremely difficult, and who can guarantee that they will be able to grow old safely?
This time the class reunion did not bring any pleasure to Mr. Chen, only brought him endless sadness.
He himself knows that when a person reaches middle age, if he leaves, it is not an unacceptable thing for himself. However, the most tragic thing is actually his wife and children and his parents who have long been old.
A person's departure is not as simple as a person's gains and losses, but also the direction of a family. Perhaps, because he was gone, the family was separated. It is also possible.
It can only be said that when a person reaches middle age, the most terrible thing should be the misfortune of the family, from the moment when he has a problem.
03
Fifty years old is a hurdle, and these 4 conditions cannot be lacking.
Condition One: Truly shelter your blessings and good fortune.
Luo Xiang once said: "If it were not for the protection of fate, you would have long been gone, and all your dreams, all your plans for life, would have vanished and been a joke." ”
The ideals of life, the happiness of life, all come from the blessing of fate. Lacking the blessing of fate, in fact, too many people are buried in the torrent of time, and life may stop here.
Being able to get through every difficulty is not your own credit, but your blessing, which is helping you get through. If you can't survive a certain difficulty, you can only say that you are doomed and helpless.
Condition two: a healthy body and plenty of energy.
We only need to look at the news in recent years to know that some billionaires have left before they reach the age of fifty. Some people who are worth a fortune on the rich list leave before they reach the age of sixty.
What does this mean? Money can make people have sufficient medical resources, but it cannot make people "come back to life". Compared with money, a healthy body is better than everything in the world.
Money is not healthy, everything is in vain. If you have money and health, then you are a winner in life.
04
Condition three: the combination of work and leisure living habits.
Why do some people fall directly on the job and stop at the age of fifty? Because they overstretch their life for the sake of money. In the end, when life is overdrawn to the end, tragedy strikes.
Some people die suddenly in front of the computer because they are overworked and lack the habit of combining work and leisure; some people are full of illness because they do not know how to take care of their bodies when they are young, resulting in irreparable consequences.
In this world, there has never been any regret medicine, and some are just "self-inflicted" retribution. Whatever you do, you will get what results, whether good or bad, you can only bear it yourself.
Condition four: a good attitude, a natural attitude.
Wang Yangming said that a narrow heart is the root of misfortune, and a broad heart is the source of happiness.
A person's heart is too narrow, and this is the root of the evil. And a person's heart is too open, which is the source of blessing. In fact, the older people are, the more they need to have a broad-minded mentality, otherwise they will live more and more sadly.
Just imagine, you go to bed every day, you are worried about something, and at night, you can't even sleep well, you have insomnia, then how can your body be good?
Life is like a game, some people can't get through it, it's over. And some people don't have to laugh until the end. That's all.
Wen/Shushan has deer