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Have you ever thought about exchanging your life with someone else?
I thought about the countless times when the night went down, I couldn't sleep, and my thoughts began to fly: I fantasized that my dad suddenly made a lot of money in business; I imagined that our family had moved away from the barren village and flocked to the big city full of cars; I fantasized that I would get into a good university and arrive in the beautiful coastal city I dreamed of living; I fantasized that I was very capable, earned a lot of money after graduating from college, and finally one day could afford to buy a big house, and when I returned to the village, the whole village looked at me with envious eyes; And of course marriage and family, everything is beautiful.
Just like the protagonist in the movie, 18-year-old introverted boy Lu Xiaogu, when he covered his head with a quilt, he must have fantasized about what he wanted to become. One day will become rich and will move towards the goddess of crush. There is also Lu Xiaogu's sister, a "little princess" who sleeps in a closet, she records the world she sees in DV, but after closing the closet door, she must have also fantasized about who she wants to exchange her life with.
The definition of the movie "Exchange Life" is very simple, as the name suggests, who do you want to exchange life with? What happens if you really exchange lives?
Is it possible to have magic powers, so that we can have magic "become whoever we want"?
You call it absurd, but the question is, have you ever had such an idea in your heart?
Is it that when you are lonely, you also have a cry in your heart, wanting to exchange life with others.
The "Wanliu Academy", which exploded on the Internet some time ago, just one positioning, made countless men and women humble in the comment area, who does not envy the reincarnation technology of the sons and ladies of Wanliu Academy?
We have amplified the infinite charm of money, and even the young master of Wanliu Academy said that he had troubles, and you couldn't help but say: It turns out that the young master also has troubles.
But in fact, who is not living their own life? Who dares to say that other people's lives are perfect, and yours must be bleak?
Is everything in our world defined by money?
No, I dare tell you, it's definitely not.
I have fantasized countless times about who I would be and who I would exchange my life with; However, after dawn, I knew that nothing would change, that there would be no Cinderella's fairy godmother in this world, and that what I wanted could only be achieved by myself. Fortunately, in my childhood, I loved fantasy, but I never lost myself, I have been working hard, and later, after many years, I finally lived in the city I wanted to live in, bought a house that I thought was quite big, had a career I loved, had a good marriage, and had a good pair of children.
What I once wanted to get, after nearly 20 years, has become a reality when I am 32.
People are greedy, and when they reach the stage where they once wanted to be, they will put forward new goals for themselves.
I chatted with my husband during my evening walk: if only I could win a big lottery, everything is good under our existing conditions, that is, the cash deposit in my hand is less, if I don't have to pay the mortgage, there is still a deposit of millions in my hand, is it that I can live quite easily.
"You will have new troubles, because the desire knows no bounds."
This is man, always in constant confrontation with his own humanity and the fate of reality.
18-year-old boy who achieves nothing; 35-year-old professional elite, driving a Porsche, glamorous?
Whose life do you most want to have?
Although the boy has achieved nothing, he does not dare to confess to the goddess he has a crush, but he has the innocence of his age, and he has a family that loves him; The 35-year-old uncle seems to be a winner in life, and he can define everything with money, but how does his money come about? His industry guidelines only have the word "make money", he has long forgotten the most basic moral principles of being a lawyer, the word "benevolence" has been trampled under his feet, he is also a two-faced person in court, obviously he is the plaintiff's lawyer, but he is helping the opposite.
As long as the money comes over, the lawsuit that will not be lost can also be lost.
You lament the absence of jurisprudence, and that he operates his laws of survival with impunity.
By chance, the young Lu Xiaogu really became Zhongda, the boyfriend of the goddess.
However, the teenager overlooked one of the most important things: what if the body was exchanged? But if souls are exchanged, are you still you?
Therefore, souls must not be exchanged.
The teenager has become an uncle, but he still behaves and does things in his bones, and he is still a "teenager".
He has not experienced the growth process of his uncle, how can he really become an "uncle"?
There are only a few decades in the world, and not a year has been lived in vain, let alone a grain of rice has been eaten in vain.
After Lu Xiaogu became a lawyer Zhongda, he did not have adult thinking and confessed to his crush goddess Jin Hao in a very childish and rather clumsy way. He took Jin Hao to experience the youthful feeling that many people missed: shooting headstickers, going to the game hall to play desperately, and playing in retaliation when he didn't get anything as a child. When playing, you can be very simple and happy, and enjoy that mental pleasure; But the question is, after playing?
Lu Xiaogu also has to face a rather real problem: he is afraid that Jin Hao will fall in love with his body, not his soul.
He didn't want to be cheap Zhongda, and used a very funny way to create a breakup, so that Jin Hao would lose his good impression of him.
Very contradictory, very childish.
Even if there is magic that allows him to exchange his life, he still can't hold the life of "the person he wants to be".
Because souls will not be exchanged, souls exchanged, it will not be you, what is the point of exchanging life?
There is a saying that we can never make money beyond our own knowledge, and if you really want to change your life, the only way is to improve yourself and live your own life.
I was on my way to the movie and thought of my son and daughter. Especially when Jin Hao and Lu Xiaogu played with revenge, I was reflecting on whether I was restricting my children too much. If I restrict her too much like Kim Hao's mother and don't let them try anything, will they have similar retaliatory behavior when they grow up?
I am thinking about the meaning of each stage of our life?
Isn't it about trying and experiencing boldly?
And what we parents can do is to help them grasp that degree and be a good guide on their growth path.
What kind of life can we give our children? Do what you can do to love them as well as you can, even if the material conditions are not so rich, they will feel very warm with love. Just as Lu Xiaogu wanted to change back in the end, he didn't want to lose his family, those were the most cherished things in his growing memory.
My family of origin is very poor and lives in the countryside, and many of my memories when I was a child were related to "no money", and I hated "no money", so I would often fantasize about soothing myself when I couldn't sleep. But I'm thankful because I have a good mom, a good dad, and nice brothers and sisters. Sometimes I think of the growing years in the past, and I don't feel how sad those days are, but I feel quite warm, because I have love, my home is warm, and my mother loves me.
I now feel that my parents have given me a good life, at least they love me seriously, and I am quite lucky.
Use this movie to give parents who are not very materially well-off a piece of advice: don't feel that you owe your children, do your best to love your children, and they will love you and love you well.
Maybe they've fantasized about who they're going to exchange their lives with and complained about you, but if you really love them, they'll be sensible when they grow up.
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The warmth called "Mom" in the film still touched me, I am a mother of two children, and I am also a daughter.
Most of our feelings for our mothers will be deeper and closer.
Of course, it is not ruled out that there are some mothers and daughters or mothers and children who are not harmonious, but we all long for the warmth from our mothers in our hearts.
Where there is a mother is home, the Spring Festival movie, of course, will fall to the "return to the family".
The 18-year-old boy experienced such a magical "exchange life" and finally understood that his life is the best life.
Don't think about whether the plot of this movie is reasonable? The original intention is magical, you just look at it as an "adult fairy tale".
There are warmth, laughter, tears, and plot places that you don't expect, I personally recommend watching this movie.
Spring Festival file, big New Year, smile, how beautiful life is, after crying, you can still laugh, this movie is watched without psychological burden.
Life is already very difficult, and it is good to be able to laugh calmly.
After watching this movie, my husband and I held hands all the way, chatted about the sky, and walked home (the cinema is ten minutes away from home).
Since getting married and having children, we haven't seen movies like this for many years, it's hard to have a two-person world, it's hard to let go of children.
"I'm content, it's good for the two of us to do this, my life is already quite good, although I don't have a lot of money, but it's already quite good to be able to live like this."
If you don't fantasize about exchanging your life with anyone, you can't have this superpower, the only superpower you have is yourself.
So, who you want to be, you work in that direction, to slowly get closer to the life you want to live; Even if there will be a lot of wind and rain on the road, as long as you work hard, you will always slowly get closer to achieving it; People are greedy, we will have new desires, and you have to constantly adjust your heart, don't lose yourself in the flow of money.
Whoever you envy, you will strive to become, if you can't, just forgive yourself and live your life step by step.
We all envy those children of "Wanliu Academy" who were born in Rome, envy is normal, there is no need to be presumptuous, your life is also very special, but also unique, see where your brilliance is. When you are young, there are still infinite possibilities, as long as you are willing to work hard, how far we can go, in the final analysis, depends on how capable we can be, and how much happiness we can create.
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After watching the movie, I also read a book "The World of Dew", interested students can go to see this book by Yishu.
Da Qiao is the granddaughter of a rich family, who has grown up with a golden spoon since childhood, and everyone in the family is used to her, and she is arrogant. Mu He, a cousin who grew up with her, envied her many times behind her back, and she must have fantasized about exchanging lives with her at midnight, and I also wanted to live a life like Daqiao.
After Mu He experienced the great grief and pain in life, Da Qiao came to see her, and she still whispered "Qi Daqiao who has everything". The big trick is just one sentence: I have everything? What about my parents?
There is also Hao Jun, who is the love of the big coincidence, who finally returned because of the big accident and left her, and this can only be the case in his life.
No matter what kind of family environment you were born in, you have to experience the world, otherwise how can you call it "life"?
That's what life is all about.
Secular people only see "money" in their eyes, and they will habitually feel that money can define everything, there are no worries, life is worry-free, what a refreshing life. The person who owns it will tell you with his reality that he also has his helplessness, if you can't control it, if you don't have that ability, in the end it's just a duckweed glimpse, and it will eventually disperse.
Why is life so bitter?
Because the human heart is greedy.
May you get what you want, do everything smoothly, adjust yourself, see what you have and what you are missing, and work slowly.
Live your life well, and you'll be quite successful.
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