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There is a saying in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms: "Everything is not decided by man, and it is difficult to compete with fate." ”
Everything in this world is not easily decided by man. Even if we struggle and compete again, we can't compete with the number of lives.
When it's time for you to achieve, then you're unconsciously successful. And when you should not achieve achievements, even if you struggle, it will not really do anything.
Just like some people get rich while walking, and some people have accidents when they walk, what does this mean? It can only be explained that the fate of man, the destiny of heaven, and which step to take is not up to us to say, but to heaven and fate.
Liu Bang was originally a small, but he laid down the Han family and became the hero of the Han Emperor through the ages commented by posterity. This is not only his dedication, but also his destiny.
Xiang Yu was from an aristocratic family, and his men were as strong as clouds, but why did he still lose so badly and finally become a so-called loner? In a word, the heavens will be destroyed, not the crime of war.
Everyone's fate is different, so everything they do is more or less different. For fate, we don't have to think too much about it, just let it go.
People have a good life, the sky is predestined, there are these few signals around, that is the blessing of your fate.
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For the rest of your life, there will be a blessing.
There is such a friend, when he was young, he went south and north, anyway, where there was an opportunity, he went to do business, and he dared to fight for people, especially to tossing.
He once went to a remote city to do business, ready to open up the market, who knew that he was robbed halfway through, fortunately, the other party did not hurt him, and he quickly escaped.
While he was running and thankful that he was not injured, suddenly a car next to him sped by, just a few centimeters away, and the car hit him. To put it mildly, if he had shook his body at that time, maybe there would have been no one.
After he experienced these two things, he also saw a lot, and always felt that this was a chance for Heaven to give him a chance to survive, and it was difficult not to die, and it was fortunate that he would live the rest of his life.
Later, his career gradually grew, and now he has a car and a house in a big city, which can be regarded as a complete life.
When certain accidents happen to us, if we can quickly hide from them, even unscathed, we must firmly believe that this is a blessing from God.
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Chance encounters, this is your blessing.
Zeng Guofan said that when a great thing is accomplished, people seek to live in half, and Providence lives in half.
In order to achieve a great cause, people's strategy and providential arrangements actually need to be "five or five open" . In other words, you have worked very hard, but whether you can have a very good harvest depends on Providence.
Take the experience of Jiang Ziya and Zhou Wen Wang JiChang, Jiang Ziya was almost eighty years old, and only then did he meet King Zhou Wen who was worthy of his assistance. If his life span was not long enough, or King Wen did not appear, then Jiang Ziya would not be able to make a meritorious career in this life.
All encounters are about fate. All the great causes are driven by history. It can be said that history chose Jiang Ziya, and also chose the miracle of his fate when he was over eighty years old and the world was peaceful.
In the same way, for ordinary people, can they encounter their own opportunities at the right time; can they reap their own blessings under just the right circumstances? It depends on the arrangements in the dark.
In this world, there has always been an invisible hand that is pushing us forward. This hand, we call "destiny."
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Bottoming out, here's your chance.
In "Zhou Yi", there are two words - the hidden dragon is not used, and the flying dragon is in the sky.
A person must go through a cyclical life course of "budding - development - prosperity - decline - development - rejuvenation - decline" and so on.
The person who can have multiple cycles shows that he is not small, can always toss, has been starting from scratch, and is better than others. Of course, there are also some people who have experienced a cycle and directly lost hope and spent the rest of their lives.
There are too many celebrities in history, they have been at a low point, have been "hidden dragons do not use", but do not know when their good luck will come, do not know when their turnaround will appear.
Wang Bo wrote in the "Preface to the Pavilion of King Teng": "The times are uneven, the fate is uncertain, Feng Tang is easy to be old, and Li Guang is difficult to seal." ”
Feng Tang and Li Guang, they are both very talented people, why are they still so sad in the end? Because God didn't give them a chance to bottom out and bounce back.
Therefore, people who can encounter the opportunity of "bottoming out" will also go uphill no matter how depressed they fall.
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When things pass, this is the favor of fate.
In daily life, some people's strength is average, but the luck is particularly good, no matter what they do, they can pass the pass just in time, and they will never pull their crotches.
For example, the students who are taking the exam are all students of the same level, why are the scores in the exam so different?
If some people are inspired by this question, then their score will naturally be higher. And some people see this question and are confused, then his score will naturally be lower.
For example, employees who work hard in the workplace are all employees of the same level, why can he escape the wave of layoffs, while the other person can't hide?
It can only be said that some people are destined to be laid off, while others are destined to stay. Different fates, different directions, which have little to do with human ability.
People, thank you for every lucky pass, grateful for all the happiness that just happened. All the appearance of good luck is the care of the goddess of destiny for you.
Wen/Shushan has deer