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"If fate is not smooth, take money first": What really crosses you is not fate, but the money in your pocket

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There is a saying that "life only deceives the poor, and Buddhism only crosses the rich." ”

In real life, the poor will only be bullied all the time, and at the same time they will be overwhelmed by the world. The reason is simply that they don't have money.

And the Buddhists are not poor, but rich. Perhaps, it is not the Dharma that transforms these rich people, but money.

Many people look down on money, thinking that it is too vulgar, full of copper smell, is a vulgar thing, not elegant enough. However, it is this kind of money that is not elegant enough to let us pass one level after another.

Without money, let alone live elegantly, maybe live a little more smoothly, can't do it; without money, let alone live a happy little life, maybe we can't even afford to raise children and parents.

When we were young, people around us drew big cakes, saying that money is useless and ideals are the most precious. At the moment when he was severely beaten by society, he completely understood that the most reliable thing in the world was money.

The so-called "heaven does not cross people, only self-crossing". And the basis of this "self-crossing" is the money in our hands.

Don't believe in the "uselessness of money." You know, there's not a single thing in this world that can't be solved with money. If there is, it can only prove that the money is not enough.

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Money is the basis of "poetry and distance".

Everyone has a dream: "Life is not only in the immediate moment, but also in poetry and far away." ”

This sentence is the pursuit and ideal of each generation. However, not everyone can reach the realm of "poetry and distance" and can live like "poetry and far away".

Why? Because there is no money, then naturally there is no poetry, and there is no confidence to reach a distant place.

In the workplace, why are you PUA by people in the workplace, and you can't stand those colleagues and leaders who are morally upright, but you still don't have the courage to resign?

In life, why do others look down on you, you still dare not go against the will of others, and even have to bow down and seek perfection?

In the family, why does your partner hate you, your parents have conflicts with you, and your children even laugh at you? Is it true that you have not fulfilled your family responsibilities?

Everything, in fact, is not so complicated, just one word - money. When you are rich and powerful, it is not the boss who fires you, but you who fire your boss. When you have money in your hands, no one will look down on you, whether it is your family or outsiders, they will worship you as an idol.

This is the reality of the world. The gap between having money and not having money is not a star and a half. It can only be said that all dreams and hopes are closely related to money.

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Your deposit is your confidence.

Wilde said that when I was young, I always thought that money was everything. I didn't know until I was old, that's true.

For ordinary people, what is the most important thing? I think it should be a deposit in our pockets.

People with savings are actually particularly confident and are not afraid of the risks and crises of life. Because they know that the things that can be solved with money are not a matter.

People who don't have savings, let alone have no self-confidence, maybe even have a disease, even isolate at home is a problem. Why? Because of the lack of confidence, we can only live on our own, and live more and more without freedom and dignity.

Especially in this era, the market has become depressed, the offline economy is not very good, and the number of unemployed and people who cannot find jobs is gradually increasing. At this time, the deposit is particularly important.

The old Li in the circle was dismissed by the company in March this year, and he was not too worried about the middle-aged unemployment, but chose to continue to apply for resumes. I really can't find a job, just rest at home for a while, and have a relaxing little life.

Why does Old Li dare to be so confident? There is only one reason, just the savings of Old Li alone, there are five or six hundred thousand, plus his wife's savings, in fact, their family does not have to worry too much.

In the face of great life trials, it is often the people who have savings who win. So, save money well, that's your bottom line.

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What really crosses you is your money.

Life is like an ocean, we are humble ferrymen. When we have money, it is not as simple as a small boat, but a big boat that rides the wind and waves.

A boss once said that whether it is before doing business or after doing business, I always feel that I should leave some cash for myself, don't work too hard, in order to leave some back roads for myself.

Some people see a better project, or a stock is OK, and they make a desperate bet. Once something goes wrong in the middle, it is these people who have not thought of retreating after all.

Truly shrewd people can not only see opportunities, but also have insight into crises and know the coexistence of opportunities and dangers. Then they will leave some money for themselves, at least there is a way back, and they will be safe for the rest of their lives.

When it comes to the importance of money, we only need to look at the social environment from 2020 to today. More and more people are bankrupt, people who are unemployed, people who can't afford to take out loans, people who can't afford to get married. Isn't the key reason for this lack of money?

At any time, you must not be careless, let alone think that money is not important. Although it is said that money is not brought with life and death is not brought with it, it is omnipotent when man is alive.

If there is anything in this world that is the passport of all things, I think, it is money. Because it is not only a loyal guardian, but also a god who transforms ordinary people.

Wen/Shushan has deer

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