01
What belongs to you will always come to your side, and what does not belong to you, even if you are entangled until you are old, there is no result.
Whoever we meet is the best arrangement of fate for us; what surprise we meet is the best gift of fate to us. What you encounter is actually the best result in life.
In the spring, a farmer sows seeds in the hope that they will be harvested in the fall. If he can really harvest a lot of fruit in the autumn, this is the reward of his "one point of hard work, one point of harvest".
However, this farmer can only harvest melons and fruits, not cattle and sheep. Why? Because what he planted was only a seed, and it had nothing to do with cattle and sheep.
In the same way, you are good at socializing and can make money in the field of sales, and you are not interested in scientific research, then you are doomed to make money in the field of sales, but not in the field of scientific research.
If we are not reconciled, we feel that the professors of scientific research earn so much, and they are so comfortable, they also want to compete. Isn't this just? Some money does not belong to us, and it is useless to force it.
When people come to this world, there is no need to fight for things that do not belong to them. Sometimes, do your own things well, do your own responsibilities in place, and your life will be complete.
02
If a man demands, he will lose his blessings.
A few years ago, this happened.
A man goes after a woman and says he won't give up until he catches up. But this woman just didn't like him. After knowing the woman's intentions, the man was not convinced, and felt that everything could be forced.
Later, he also wanted to violate the woman, and the result was that the two people got into trouble at the police station, and the man was punished by the law.
Man, why do you have to "force"? Others have a fate with you, and naturally like you. And others have no fate with you, so they naturally leave you. So isn't letting go the best option?
The person who truly loves you will never leave you. And the person who will not love you, even if you really catch up, he will eventually leave you. Demanding, there will never be a good result.
A Zen master once said, "There is no attachment, there is no need to force, nature is born, nature is obtained, and the road is the way." ”
People, there is no need to generate any obsession, and there is no need to force any people and things that do not belong to them. Naturally living your own life, naturally getting everything that belongs to you, that is the real road.
Like those who only do one thing in their lives and focus on one area, why are they here?
Because these people know that I belong to this field, my hobbies and lifelong pursuits are here, and it is also my own blessing to struggle for a lifetime.
03
No matter how much people fight, they can't fight for the sky.
There is a saying: "There are only eight buckets of rice in life, and I am dissatisfied with the rise when I go all over the world." ”
Fate arranges who we meet, where we go, what we do, and how much money we make. Even if we fight around, we don't necessarily have any good fruit to eat.
Professor Wang Defeng of Fudan University said such a thing.
When he was young, his friends invited him to take charge of the management of the company and to explore the market. It can be said that as long as Professor Wang Defeng agrees, then he can occupy a high position in the enterprise, and the money and fame are innumerable.
However, he still refused. In this regard, some people are particularly puzzled, more than twenty years ago, as long as people casually went to the sea to do business, they could make a lot of money, and even ranked on the rich list, why would he refuse?
Professor Wang Defeng said this: "I was born to eat chalk ash and become a teacher." Studying philosophy is what I should do. ”
People, who can recognize their own destiny and know what they are suitable for, is a kind of wisdom. If one day, we blindly do something that does not belong to our own destiny, it will be just "losing the lady and folding the army".
Man, whatever life he has, goes to do whatever he wants. Some people are the life of the teacher, then he just needs to be peach and plum all over the world. Some people are the life of the big boss, then he just needs to make good money. Everything, going with the flow, is the right way.
04
Man, to fight rationally, is a kind of wisdom.
As mentioned earlier, no matter how much people fight, they will not be able to fight for heaven. Is this a negative thought? In fact, this is not a negative thought, but a particularly positive thought.
People, don't fight for things that have nothing to do with yourself, just take the time to fight for what belongs to you.
More than a decade ago, his fellow old Li was still in college. He wanted to focus on academics, so he wanted to go to graduate school. Who knows if you have taken the exam twice, you still can't pass the exam.
There was no way, forced by the pressure of survival, he could only work everywhere to earn money.
On the first stop, he went to Wuhan, but did not meet his own opportunity. On the second stop, he moved to Guangzhou. It was this choice that allowed him to meet a boss who admired him.
After working in this enterprise for many years, he became the boss's right hand man, and even got along with the boss's daughter, so as to get married and have children, and to this day, there is a car, a house, a career, a background, a wife, and a happy life.
Is this really what Old Li fought back? Everything is a choice of fate and fate. And he is just "doing his best".
Man, accepting his own destiny, and getting everything he deserves at will and with his own fate, then we will have no regrets in our lives.
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