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Professor Wang Defeng once said: "What fate you will have when you come to this world is calculated by the Heavenly Dao." ”
What is the "Heavenly Path"? Different people actually have different interpretations.
Some people feel that the Tao of Heaven is the law of nature; some people feel that the Tao of Heaven is an invisible hand that drives our destiny forward; some people feel that the Tao of Heaven is the truth of all things and the rule of the development of all things.
In fact, there is a saying in "Zhuangzi Gengsangchu": "The husband is full of spring and the grass is born, and the autumn is in full swing and the treasure is completed." Fu Chun and Qiu, won't you get it? The way of heaven has been completed. ”
In Zhuangzi's view, spring descended on the earth, a hundred flowers bloomed, and everything flourished. Just as autumn comes, the trees will bear fruit. Spring and autumn, how can there be no regularity? In fact, the Heavenly Dao has already allowed all things to develop gradually.
In Zhuangzi's view, the Heavenly Dao referred to here is the natural truth of all things in heaven and earth, and it is also the law of the development of all things.
From a macroscopic point of view, a population needs to develop, then they naturally follow the law of development and get the blessing of nature. If there is any accident, it is believed that this population will perish.
From a microscopic point of view, each person in the group has his own unique development destiny. There are no two snowflakes in this world, and nature does not have the same fate.
Everything has its own direction.
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What you are suitable for in this life, there is no need to force it.
In his speech, Professor Wang Defeng said: "I myself am a teaching craftsman, born to eat chalk ash, eat open mouth meals, you let me do other, but I can't do it." ”
Take the matter of what "meal" to eat, I believe that everyone has their own choice. And this choice, which seems to be decided by oneself, is actually the arrangement of fate.
Some people are born to eat "open mouth meals" and make money with their mouths. At this time, you let him do practice, or even go to the sea to do business, then it will torment him.
Some people are born to eat "pen pole rice" and make money with the pen pole. At this time, it is not appropriate for you to let him do other work, and he will not make money in that field.
Some people are born to eat "management meals" and can only become big bosses. At this time, you let him become an employee, or even do a particularly professional thing, but it is not suitable for him.
People with different abilities eat different "meals", anyway, each performing their duties, each doing their duty, no one crosses the border, do their duty. This is the most balanced law of nature.
If he is not suitable for business, but he has to be reluctant, I believe that he can only become a leek in the commercial battlefield and do nothing. This is not a demand, nor is it a reality that can be changed reluctantly.
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Fighting around is nothing more than an arrangement of the Heavenly Dao.
I have met such a 33-year-old boss, who already has a car and a house in Guangzhou anyway, and his net worth is close to ten million.
When he talked about his experience, he was not particularly proud, but only said this sentence: "Everyone feels that wealth is obtained by their own efforts." In fact, I don't agree with this concept. Your diligence is at best enough to fill your stomach, just like my low-level employees. Big money, on the other hand, is the choice of a certain trend and opportunity for you. ”
In fact, when the boss was in his twenties, he had been taking the graduate school and the civil service, but he couldn't pass the exam. After two or three years of continuous tossing, not only was my body broken, but I couldn't make money, and I was embarrassed to the extreme.
Later, he chose to give up helplessly, and he blindly thought about going to society to work hard and make money. In the accidental hit, he met a certain cattle man who engaged in e-commerce, and he was also very lucky to hitchhike and get up.
After gaining some experience, he chose to go it alone and look for investors everywhere. Although the process is more tortuous, the result is still relatively good - the assets have multiplied several times and have their own business.
Doing something like doing business is not something that anyone can do successfully. Take this boss, he is not suitable for eating scientific research meals and public meals, then he will eat the boss's meal. This is his life count.
People, who have always lived in the framework of the Heavenly Dao, fight back and forth, and finally will only go to their own path and live a unique self.
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If a person lives for one lifetime, he will obey the fate of heaven.
We may wish to consider the question, why is it that the more we want to accomplish something, the more we can't do it? Why is it that the more we don't want something to happen, the more it will appear?
Western psychologists have proposed Murphy's Law to summarize the answers to these two questions.
From the perspective of numerology, this is a particularly common "backfire". Everything you think will never come to fruition, but you will come across things that surprise you.
For example, a student, usually has a particularly good grade, can be admitted to 211 schools. However, the more he wanted to get into a prestigious school, the more disappointed he became. Why? Because Heaven will not let a person's "demand" become a reality.
There is such a crude truth, if everyone can "force" to realize their wishes, then don't people all over the world become rich?
People who should become rich will not be at the bottom after all. The person who should become a middle-level person, even if he invests with the boss, cannot rise to the top. Man, the heavier the desire, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.
Or Zeng Guofan said it well, the great war and great cause in ancient times. Human planning accounts for only three-tenths, and Providence accounts for seven-tenths.
That's all.
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