There is a saying that "fate is made by oneself, and blessings are sought by oneself." ”
At least seventy percent or so of fate is controlled by oneself, and blessing is the result of one's own pursuit. How much blessing you can have depends not on looking at the sky and fighting, but on yourself.
When we are young, we need to have the concept of "heavenly reward for hard work". The more diligent a person is, the more blessed he is, and at the same time he can seize the opportunity.
In middle age, we need to have the concept of "steady progress". People, the more stable, the more they can step by step, so as to go to a higher position.
A person's greatest ability, in addition to recognizing himself, but also to have the attitude of "seeking more blessings from yourself".
There is a saying in the Book of Verses: "Forever speak of one's destiny, and seek many blessings for oneself." ”
People must always follow nature and find the right path, so as to have their own blessings.
Self-seeking is not a derogatory term, but a positive positive word. You know, harvesting what belongs to oneself with one's own efforts is the way of heaven.
The greatest blessing of the post-70s generation in the second half of their lives starts with having these things.
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The blessing of the post-70s generation begins with having money in their hands.
There is a saying that is very well said, there is a mountain that is difficult to cross, called life; there is an inescapable ticket called money; there is a smooth thing called profit.
In fact, no one can defeat life, no one can become the master of life, we can only live according to life. In this, we have to grasp the "money".
Money, seemingly vulgar, gives people a copper smell. It's just that everyone needs to fight for "money". Because it is difficult for a man with money, a man without money.
Money, like a small boat, comes to you from afar, essentially to "ferry" you.
Wang Zhiwen said it well, everything is just money and opportunity, and everyone will be ashamed of themselves in front of the mirror of life.
People, vulgar, be a person with money in his hands, that will be happier.
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The blessings of the post-70s generation began with "multi-faceted flowering".
There is a saying that "suddenly like a spring breeze in the night, thousands of trees and pear blossoms." ”
As soon as the spring breeze comes, the flowers and trees on the earth will thrive. And opportunities will gradually appear with the arrival of the spring breeze.
In this extremely complex society, as long as there is a small technological replacement, it will trigger the "butterfly effect", which will create many risks and opportunities.
In fact, the essence of opportunity is to let some people lose, and let some people benefit. Everything is the result of "zero sum".
For the post-70s generation of BenWu, it is necessary to keep pace with the times and become the party that seizes the opportunity and blossoms in many ways. You know, spread the eggs out so that you don't encounter a huge risk threat.
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The blessings of the post-70s generation begin with family harmony.
At any time, the fundamental source of human blessing is still the "family".
A good family relationship can help your life and push you to a better future. Conversely, a poor family relationship will drag you back.
Some people will be depressed because of the bad relationship between husband and wife, some people will be sullen because of problems with the parent-child relationship, and some people will be embarrassed because of the dispute between relatives.
In fact, the best family atmosphere is "home and everything is happy". A "and" word is the greatest pursuit of an ordinary person in his life.
Harmony makes money, and stillness produces wisdom. Everything is not the result of restlessness, but a harmonious and happy reunion ending.
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The blessings of the post-70s generation start from "no dispute".
Mr. Lin Yutang wrote in "The Sound of the Wind and the Crane": "There is no dispute, but a great dispute." If there is no dispute, then the people of the world will not argue with it. ”
No matter who it is, even if it is the post-70s, if you want to achieve a stage victory in life, you must elevate the realm of "must fight" to the realm of "no dispute".
For "no dispute", many people will wonder, obviously "contention" is the norm, why "no dispute"?
You know, the really powerful people will not be as grumpy as the mediocre, but will only wait for the opportunity.
When there is no chance, silently struggle, accumulate energy, and dispel the vigilance of others. When there is a chance, it can hit it with one hit, or come first, thus achieving unexpected results.
Indisputable, it is the open face to retreat as an advance, and behind the scenes, it will be a battle to score a high score. Fight, that's a child's home. The real battlefield, after all, is in the invisible backyard.
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The blessings of the post-70s generation began with the indifference of well-being.
If you can't be rich and rich, then I wish you happiness; if you can't be happy, then I wish you happiness; if you can't be happy, then I wish you peace.
People live a lifetime, there is no need to ask for too many things. Sometimes, being safe, healthy, happy, contented, and living in the moment is enough.
If we have the ability, then we can naturally go to a higher position. But if we try our best and are still in the same place, then we may as well live as indifferent selves.
You know, since in some respects it backfired, let's not force it. Timely letting go, timely abandonment, timely stop loss, in order to minimize the loss.
People, after all, are better off living a little calmly. You know, the mentality is not indifferent, it is like being next to a time bomb after all, and you will eventually live a nervous life.
The greatest blessing in the second half of the life of the post-70s generation should be physical well-being, an indifferent mentality, laughter against impermanence, and all clouds and light winds.
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