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As the saying goes: "Plan ahead, think of danger in times of peace." ”
A person, no matter what age he has reached, cannot easily forget the accidents and risks in life. You know, no one knows the accident and tomorrow who will come first.
Life is like a box of chocolates, and no one can predict whether the next piece of chocolate will be bitter or sweet. At this time, it is particularly important to be mentally prepared.
Especially today, the situation in reality is becoming more and more complicated, and there are more and more contradictory things. This is both a good and a bad thing for ordinary people.
The good thing is that we no longer take the risk of making mistakes, but slowly have our own plans. The bad thing is that in the vortex of contradictions, someone will eventually be annihilated.
Young people must know how to think of danger in times of peace, because today's money is becoming more and more difficult to earn, and the internal volume is becoming more and more serious; middle-aged people must know how to plan ahead, because the crisis of midlife and the crisis of old age are seamlessly connected, directly forming a huge pressure.
After the 60s and 70s, no matter how capable they are, they must also grasp these life-saving straws.
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Straw 1: Enrich yourself and enrich yourself.
In this world, there are only two types of people who need to be "rich", one type of person is the wife, and the other type of person is the elderly middle-aged and elderly.
As parents, we would rather support ourselves than have children. This is not just selfishness, but a trade-off.
Raising children richly is easy for children to form an arrogant character, and even develop the habit of "clothes to stretch out their hands, food to open their mouths". In the end, it is still us who are parents who are hurt.
But why enrich yourself? People are old, the pressure of life is so great, the future is so complicated, if we do not raise the body well, do not raise the spirit well, always force ourselves to have no way back, then the future of us will not be miserable?
The abundance mentioned here is not a high material expenditure, but a "moderate" satisfaction of various desires. For example, spiritual abundance, customary coordination, and the effective improvement of the quality of life.
Only when they live well can their families live happily. If we don't live well, I believe that the whole family will live unhappily. Therefore, to enrich yourself, you must start from middle age.
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Straw two: low-key people, muffled to get rich.
When people reach middle age, or even in their old age, do they still need to make money? I think that when people come into this world, as long as they are alive, they have to earn their own money.
Having money can make us more confident in dealing with future risks. And no money, don't say that the present is not good, maybe the future will be a mess.
In this regard, what kind of money-making attitude should we maintain? In fact, the best attitude to making money is to make a fortune in a muffled voice, be a low-key person, regardless of idle things, ignore right and wrong, and do a good job of yourself.
In this world, as long as you go to make money, don't say it to others, you can know it yourself. In addition, being low-key is not weakness, but precisely the beginning of "avoiding contradictions" and "accumulating thick hair".
Imagine if we were too high-profile and revealed everything, and when we met someone with ill intentions or a person with bad intentions, how should we be good?
Therefore, people have to restrain their sharp edges, lower their heads and go forward, and tend to walk more smoothly.
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Straw three: Don't take risks, if you can be stable, you will be stable.
From 2020 onwards, most people's perceptions have changed. From the original sword to take a sideways, sudden adventure, to now can be stable and stable, avoid risks. Is this just not normal?
For the rich, nature is not normal. But for ordinary people, "seeking stability" is the code of conduct that we follow for a lifetime. Especially after the 60s and 70s, you can't take risks, and it is enough to live the second half of your life step by step.
Many people do not understand that the post-60s and post-70s are still young, why can't they take risks? Doesn't that stifle people's self-motivation?
In fact, in the case of a bad environment and an endless pension crisis, the adventure of ordinary people is to stick out and become a leek. The result, you can imagine.
Since it is so important to seek stability, in what ways should ordinary people seek stability? In the middle and late years, people should seek stability in the three aspects of investment, work and expenditure.
If you can't invest blindly, don't invest blindly. If you can make the work stable, don't easily jump ship. If you can reduce unnecessary expenses, don't spend money blindly.
In this way, it is the right way.
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Straw four: combine work and leisure, and save money mainly.
Middle-aged people who are desperately trying to do so will face two results, either the money earned is not enough to pay for medical expenses, or they have become the unfortunate person of "people in heaven, money in the bank".
Neither of these results is actually a good thing.
If we want to change misfortune and prevent tragedy from happening, then we must achieve the "combination of work and leisure" at the first time. Rest when it's time to rest, work hard when it's time to work, and never overdraft your body.
Work is not to make money blindly, but to adjust your life so that it is no longer boring. Rest is to be able to stretch, not to always tie a string.
Of course, if we want to live more securely, then we need to save a sum of money for ourselves. You know, all savings are the basis for the happiness of ordinary people in their old age.
In the later years of most people, the reason why there is a lot of crisis is because they do not have enough savings and their health is not good.
This is the truth.
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