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01. Pass the time of boredom;
You found that no, when our life is very busy, we will especially look forward to idle time, but if you are really idle, there is nothing to do all day, you can sleep despite sleeping, you can play despite playing, no one cares about you, there is no constraint, there is no pressure, the first day you may feel very cool, the next day will continue to enjoy... But on the nth day, you will definitely miss the busy times.
This kind of busyness will bring you a sense of fulfillment, as well as inner wealth, on the contrary, the more relaxed without any pressure, the more people feel panic and inexplicable boredom in the back.
At this time, you will often find that if there is nothing to do, the days are often more boring.
The time that really makes people feel meaningful is sneaking around.
Therefore, after retirement, this is exactly the case, the original in their own work for so many years, has long formed a certain inertia, when busy and established working hours, with the passage of time to become part of life, after stopping most people will only feel bored.
Therefore, there are some things that need to be done to pass these many boring times.
There are actually a lot of this phenomenon around me. One of my mother's friends is like this, her family is not short of money, and the child does not want her to continue to work hard, but she is really idle, too idle but panicked, after retirement is still looking for things to do. Now she is doing cleaning, doing it very seriously, and often getting up very early in the morning, she said that she is going to move like this, and the whole person feels more energetic.
It can be seen that if the work at a young age is not much technical, then the job you find after retirement may be more restricted, and you can only engage in some relatively simple, low-paid jobs that young people are not willing to do. According to my observation, in general, many women choose to be cleaners, and many men go to work as security guards after retirement.
02. Continue to realize the value of personal life;
People live in this life, different people have different pursuits, and this pursuit is everyone's soul, but also the most fundamental meaning of life.
If you don't pursue it, then everything may be boring, no matter what you do, where you are, all you feel is emptiness and loneliness.
Some people, when they are young, the work they engage in is more technical, and their qualifications and abilities will continue to appreciate with age, and the value content of life is also an increasing process in the general sense of society.
Such people often belong to the type of people who live to learn from old age, and also work to be old, and work is already an indispensable part of their lives.
There is a profession that is particularly typical, such as a doctor. A friend once told me that her father was a doctor, and after retirement, she still chose to work, she once thought that work could not be separated from her father, and finally found out that her father could not do without this job.
People who can find the value of life and work hard for it, whether this achievement is known to the public or not, are truly great people.
03. Want to relieve some burdens for children;
Not every old man can have the ideal of eating and wearing, filial piety to his children, and only enjoy the life of his old age when he is old.
There are also people who may have been worrying about their children all their lives.
Some people, after retirement, choose to continue working, not for their own sake, but because their children have to do so. Under such circumstances, most of their children cannot bear the burden of life alone, and without the financial and all-round help of their parents, the most exaggerated reality may be that it is difficult to move forward.
Parents are always soft-hearted, no matter how outsiders say that their children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so that they should think more about themselves, very few parents can really do it regardless of it. The human heart is always made of meat, how many parents can stand by in the face of their children's pocket shyness?
As long as they can still move, parents are basically willing to contribute to their children and reduce some burdens, which is a mission that many parents have long been engraved in their genes.
Of course, human nature is diverse, and certainly not all parents have this dedication, but such parents are definitely not in the minority.
04. Have a bad relationship with the other half, go out to work in order to meet less;
This phenomenon may seem absurd to some people, but in real life, such a situation is sometimes not absolutely unique.
In the past, for marriage, there was more certainty about marrying chickens and dogs, as long as they got married, quarrelsome, noisy, no matter how the lives of two people lived, many people chose to use the way of forbearance, and lived most of their lives.
Later, it has reached the point of retirement, and it is even more unlikely to divorce. To put it bluntly, many people have reached this stage, even if the other party is very bad, they have formed a habit and cannot do without each other.
But if you say how deeply the two people really have a deep relationship, it seems that it is not. Between good and bad, there may be more variables in the middle. The couple downstairs of mine is like this, the two of them basically quarrel every day, like the wrongdoers, especially after retirement, the two people are at home every day, looking up and not looking down, it is easy to look at each other unfavorably, and the frequency of daily quarrels has increased greatly.
Later, her husband went out to find a job looking at the warehouse, and she also supported it, either for money, or did not want him to be at home every day, dangling in front of himself, and she hoped that the two of them could see each other less. Just worked farther away, her husband lived there, every Friday back, Monday to go, after meeting less, the relationship between the two people is much better.
She is not unconcerned about her husband, in fact, in the details of life, she is very concerned about each other, but also worried about his body, that is, the personality of the two people is really incompatible, one of them is too Buddhist, one is more irritable, it is really quarrelsome for a lifetime, and it is not too much to describe it as loving and killing each other.
It can be seen that the word retirement is often only a superficial form, and it is often the real life that cannot be stopped.
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