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After the 60s of Ben Liu, in the next few years, grasp these two points, and the old age will be smooth

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Spring and Autumn Zuo Qiuming's "Zuo Chuan Xianggong Eleventh Year": "Thinking of danger in times of peace, thinking is prepared, and being prepared for no trouble." ”

When a person is in a period of stability, he thinks of future crises. Only by thinking about it can we be defensive. Only by being prepared can we avoid evil.

Life is never as simple as we think. Blind negativity for the future, as well as blind positivity, are unavoidable. Only by basing ourselves on the present and making good plans for the future is the right way.

Some people will say, isn't life going to get better and better, and why should we worry so much?

It can only be said that the overall good does not represent the personal good. Individuals often face many problems. No one knows when tomorrow and the accident will come.

Especially the middle-aged and elderly, must not have "blind" ideas, you know, today's mid-life crisis and old-age crisis, in fact, are linked together, a little careless, we will be knocked down by these crises.

For example, work problems, physical problems, and children's problems with old age, all of which will become the last straw that crushes middle-aged people.

For the post-60s, in the next few years, grasp these two points well, and only in the old age can we be stable.

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In the next few years, after the 60s of Ben Liu, it cannot be too "tossed".

In recent years, there is a saying in the market: "The rich people toss more and more rich, and the ordinary people toss more and more shrink." ”

Ten or twenty years ago, the market was not saturated, there was a blue ocean in all fields, and ordinary people went everywhere to toss and turn, believing that they could also make a lot of money.

Today, more than ten or twenty years later, many industries are saturated, the capital market has undergone tremendous changes, and the blue ocean in various fields has become a dead sea. At this time, ordinary people to toss, is tantamount to throwing money into the sea, not even a little wave.

Many people feel that as long as they are willing to toss, the future must be good. The idea of chicken soup like this actually hurts a lot of people. Because in the face of the market and economic laws, no one can ensure that they are unharmed.

There is a middle-aged friend who always likes to toss in the capital market. Last year, he made quite a bit of money in the stock market. So, he put most of his savings into it.

And this year, especially at the beginning of March and the end of April, he lost all the wages and savings he had earned in the past, and now he is directly reduced to diet, and he is not even willing to eat well.

He only said this sentence: "Ordinary people are too small in front of the huge environment and market." ”

After middle age, in fact, people should not be too tossed, keep the current life, keep the money in their hands, that is the king. And ordinary people can only become leeks no matter how tossed, which is very realistic.

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In the next few years, the post-60s of Ben Liu will live a low-desire life.

In the past two years, such a word has been derived, low desire.

What is "low desire"? That is to reduce their unnecessary desires, reduce unnecessary expenses, take care of their families, save the only remaining calories, and live a good life in the cold winter.

There is a middle-aged boss who opened a factory, who used to be particularly luxurious, going out to eat with others, and he couldn't get off the stage without a few thousand yuan. At that time, he made a lot of money by opening a factory and was very stylish.

But now that he has closed the factory building, there are only hundreds of thousands of savings left in his pocket, and he can't help but be a little afraid when he thinks of his old age. Therefore, he chose to live a low-desire life, and now basically does not eat out, especially frugal.

Many people will say that this boss has hundreds of thousands of savings, how can he still be so conservative? Would you think too much?

People who haven't done business think too much and think wildly. But for people who have fought the commercial battlefield, all the risks will make them vigilant. This, in fact, is not thinking too much, but a kind of self-preservation.

Su Shi once said a word, sending ephemera to heaven and earth, a millet in the sea.

In the face of heaven and earth, in fact, we are too small, like ephemera and grains of rice in the sea. In this regard, we must always be vigilant and think of danger in times of peace, and we must not be paralyzed.

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No tossing, low desire, is a kind of wisdom.

Speaking of this, many people will feel that a life without tossing is worthless. A life of low desire makes no sense at all. Why can't you be as energetic as a young person, fight and break through?

In fact, the post-60s of Ben Liu are no longer young. People, really can't help but recognize the old. Moreover, we still have families to support, and we still need to worry about our children, so why should we toss?

Children after the 60s, if they can successfully buy a car and a house, get married and have children, it is a good thing. But what if you can't buy a car and buy a house smoothly, and you can't get married and have children? That pressure can only be borne by the post-60s.

Imagine, a person, almost to the age of sixty, still have to help the child carry a loan, or dedicate their own coffin book, such a pressure, is not easy to crush a person?

What's more, the future "elimination" trend will be more serious, and children may still find their parents to "nibble on the old" and cannot provide for their parents. At this time, we can only rely on ourselves.

The more you are in an uncertain environment, the more you have to prepare yourself. The preparation referred to here is not only psychological preparation, but also material preparation, but also ideological preparation.

You know, don't toss, low desire, that's the right way. Sometimes, only by letting yourself protect yourself can you have the opportunity to see the day when the spring flowers bloom.

Wen/Shushan has deer

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